I know we ask for clothing requests, how do you like for us to show up?

Casual?  Business Casual? Dose not matter?

What gets the blood flowing?

Show up clean, showered and have the dead presidents at hand. And be respectful.

Consciously, subconsciously, you are making a million judgements about things around you. Where being "professional" means you will perform regardless of the situation, everyone has preferences of a given situation they would prefer to be in.  Two dudes with the same money, personality and hygiene? Slacks, nice shirt and sport jacket will get more play than a sweat suit.  Don't you care about the appearance of a provider, even if she has crazy skilz?

a man in a suite and a crisp white shirt too. It's like you're all business and professional and then the clothes come off and you're hot and horny.

See inside ~

In the summer I appreciate a golf shirt and Khaki shorts, a suit is sexy but it takes time to get off (hee hee). First impressions say a lot to us too, nicely dressed, shaved, etc is really noticed!!! Other little tid-bits in case your interested...

Please take your socks off in bed- lol
And watches (they catch in our hair)
Please cut your toe nails (ouch)
Oh and put that phone on vibrate!!!!

Happy Hobbying handsome(s)

Xoxo
VC

Knows how to dress for a date/provider.

Use common sense for the appropriate attire depending on what setting you are going to be in. To ask what gets the blood going, just doesn't apply in the P4P world.

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Then where should we put the phone?

However I've alway preferred the real thing!!!

Would you

A. Show up in a way that would inspire even a P4P (who happens to be a warm blooded woman) to interact more because she is more comfortable/interested

Or

B. in a "I don't give a $&#%" way an you better be a sexual robot and give me what I want no matter how much of a slob you are??

And if men think that just because it's P4P it doesn't make a difference, they are really in hobby la-la land.

Call me biased--men that take care of themselves turn me on more and def get a top tier appt.

Xoxo
VC

the only thing that gets their blood flowing is the envelope and your cock..as long as you dont show up looking like a bum..they dont really care..you are there to fuck..not make a fashion statement..

I find it very hot when it looks like you've just come back from the office, a few buttons open on the shirt...no tie...mmmm.  

well dressed man.  Crisp white dress shirt, tie, slacks, and OMG the most important part... Suspenders.  Not sure why it effects me like it does but the ohhhhh factor goes way up.

Otherwise, I personally do not REALLY care how you arrive dressed because it is just going to end up on the floor anyway.  But hey, gotta love a sharp dressed man...

+1

So every well dressed hobbyists will have a great attitude? The answer is no, and the way you dress doesn't always depict your attitude.

To the OP's question about what kind of dress attire gets providers "excited". I guaranteed you this......

Whether I show up in jeans and a buttoned down shirt, or I show up in slacks and a fancy designer shirt, as long as my hygiene, manners and etiquette are great, the provider will fuck and suck me the same. Sure, there is always the case of YMMV, but that's more on "connection" and "chemistry".

Clothes don't make the guy, the guy makes the clothes

I'll book a session with you and I'll wear exactly as you mentioned, but I won't bring a donation, then let's see how much you like that look?.........


Let's be serious over here, we're there for one thing, and one thing ONLY. And on the flip side, YOU ARE there for one thing, and ONE thing ONLY!

Let's save all the fashion concerns for civie dating, because that's the person we need to impress with our fashion, not someone I'm paying to fuck.

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I like the well dressed man for sure! Especially if his pants and shirt fit correctly and his shoes are shined.
Hate to look at a guy in a suit with dirty wing tips! yuck!
Also like a suit especially with a vest...guess thats a little old fashioned!
However I also like well fitting clean jeans without the holes and nice button shirt with couple open.
The other thing that is a turn off is when you see a man with glasses on but you wonder how does he see through them they are so dirty?? So guys if you wear rthem clean them! lol
Yet you can be dressed to the T's but if you have bad odor coming from anywhere that kills the whole look. Even Clint Estwood couldn't turn me onif he smelled badly.
Clint's giving away my age!

Allow me to be blunt. In the last two years, I've lost two immediate family members, and in that time I've gained in the neighborhood of 40 pounds. I wouldn't say I was "hot" before, but certainly much better looking than I am now and I've noticed a difference in the service I was getting from regulars and first timers alike.

So yeah, if I show up clean, not dressed like a slob and ready to do business then business will probably be done, but I'm pretty sure a provider will find it much easier to give you great service if she actually finds you attractive versus not.

My 2 cents.

I agree with some of the comments above. I do take notice when a client shows up dressed nicely. I personally love a great pair of well fitted jeans. I like the destressed look but I also like the nice dark jeans with no holes. Just a great pair of jeans!!!! I like suits too, but only if my client has just come from work, or a function, or court. Just kidding about the court comment.

 Be it a T/Shirt, a sweater, a team jersey or a straight jacket, just be clean and tidy! Leave the stains and pet hair at home for the significant other or the couch. Just come to me showered, shaved, and clean!! I will be sure to do the same.

Business casual or casual is nice but I'm okay with coming as you are or want to be as long as you look clean and depending on the hotel i'm in you don't come in looking to out of place....so I guess Business casual-sh might be best.