Patience is a virtue.. (and reality check here)

Travelern,

Unlike Home Shopping Club, ladies do not answer their phone 24/7.  We have families, civvie friends and other social activities.  There are times when we cannot (or choose not to) answer the phone.  We get the flu, we go to the salon, we grocery shop, we go to graduations, weddings... You get the drift.

What we do is call back when we are able.  One, possibly two, phone calls will suffice (if you feel the need to place a second call).  

However, when we are barraged by 100 or more calls from the same person, we get that "stalker" vibe and you can pretty much guarantee you will NOT hear from us.  Why?  If you are that obssessive prior to meeting, we can only guess the type of client you will be.  Our "spidey senses" say "let's take a pass."

As for asking on a public forum for other methods of reaching this lady, including an alternative phone number, I doubt you will get any responses.  If a gentleman is fortunate enough to be trusted with another, more private number, he is not going to break the lady's trust by giving it to you! A stranger!  Basically, her website (or ad) provides all the contact info you will need.

At this point she is probably so spooked by your incessant calling, she will never return your call. You probably blew it!

Sinthia