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The lady may be UTR, low volume, have another job and wants to limit her internet presence  or may have changed her name to avoid a stalker.  Perhaps she changed her name due to L.E. problems and does not wish to be reviewed because someone may put two and two together and tie the two identities together on the discussion board.  This has happened.

When a guy knowingly sees a lady who asks for no reviews, its like agreeing to her terms.  She has her reasons.  If you had a great time, I doubt those reasons were to cover up poor performance.

Your posting a review could put the lady in jeopardy either with her career or from a safety standpoint.  Food for thought.

Posted By: ChgoCPA
When gals are advertising for you to "see them", they can also expect that you may write a review of the session.  When a gal posts on her site/ad not to be reviewed, those also qualify her from being delisted on TER!

On this site the only reason for it's existence are the reviews that WE all use to determine if we want to go and see a gal.  Frankly, I would mention in this review if indeed the gal discussed the reviews with you and asked you specifically NOT to review.  That would be informative to me as a reader and prospect.  The review discussion should NOT be part of the paid session..PERIOD!

And if there was no discussion on the review system (hopefully), just write her review and move on to the next one.  I suspect you saw her because of an ad..then read her reviews?  So if you just want to keep using everyone elses reviews as your research tools, and NOT give back...that's fine.

Just don't be so concerned about a provider's issues on the review process. That is an occupational hazard (or benefit) that they need to understand as part of this business.  And if they want to tell you it is for their discretion...well, then how are we supposed to evaluate her?  

Hello Guys,

Hope you all are doing great. I just need a suggestion. I saw a provider recently and would like to leave a review about her service but could see from her ads that she doesnt like to be reviewed. What do you guys think - should I or not?

Thanks

Posted By: allenantony
Hello Guys,

Hope you all are doing great. I just need a suggestion. I saw a provider recently and would like to leave a review about her service but could see from her ads that she doesnt like to be reviewed. What do you guys think - should I or not?

Thanks

Posted By: allenantony
Hello Guys,

Hope you all are doing great. I just need a suggestion. I saw a provider recently and would like to leave a review about her service but could see from her ads that she doesnt like to be reviewed. What do you guys think - should I or not?

Thanks
I suggest you decide if you want to leave a review to aid the fellow hobbiests you are seeking help from, or if you are more concerned with pleasing her.

It also depends on why she wouldn't want a review left. Is she UTR? Or does she truly suck and doesn't want people to know.
I assume if it's the former, she probably already does have some reviews. If it's the latter, then it doesn't matter what she says, the hobbyists need to know. You don't need to leave a review, just a post advising others to stay away sort of thing.

Posted By: ChicagoCPA10
It also depends on why she wouldn't want a review left. Is she UTR? Or does she truly suck and doesn't want people to know.
I assume if it's the former, she probably already does have some reviews. If it's the latter, then it doesn't matter what she says, the hobbyists need to know. You don't need to leave a review, just a post advising others to stay away sort of thing.
What they say and what they want are often 2 different things.  I recently saw an amazing provider that clearly stated on her site that she wished to be discrete and didn't want reviews.  Her reviews are quite spectacular and my session was right in line with her reviews.  After the session through emails she inquired if I would write a review.  When asked I tell girls that I never write reviews or participate on the board, so thats what I told her.  

      For all I know every session with her may be as great as mine, but on the other hand she may remind clients of her words on her website and ask not to be reviewed when the sessions aren't so great.   Just playing the devils advocate.

Posted By: ChicagoCPA10
It also depends on why she wouldn't want a review left. Is she UTR? Or does she truly suck and doesn't want people to know.
I assume if it's the former, she probably already does have some reviews. If it's the latter, then it doesn't matter what she says, the hobbyists need to know. You don't need to leave a review, just a post advising others to stay away sort of thing.
I have to disagree.  If it was a bad experience or not "as advertised", and the fault of the provider, write the review.  Especially if your experience was noticeably below the other reviews.

When gals are advertising for you to "see them", they can also expect that you may write a review of the session.  When a gal posts on her site/ad not to be reviewed, those also qualify her from being delisted on TER!

On this site the only reason for it's existence are the reviews that WE all use to determine if we want to go and see a gal.  Frankly, I would mention in this review if indeed the gal discussed the reviews with you and asked you specifically NOT to review.  That would be informative to me as a reader and prospect.  The review discussion should NOT be part of the paid session..PERIOD!

And if there was no discussion on the review system (hopefully), just write her review and move on to the next one.  I suspect you saw her because of an ad..then read her reviews?  So if you just want to keep using everyone elses reviews as your research tools, and NOT give back...that's fine.

Just don't be so concerned about a provider's issues on the review process. That is an occupational hazard (or benefit) that they need to understand as part of this business.  And if they want to tell you it is for their discretion...well, then how are we supposed to evaluate her?

The lady may be UTR, low volume, have another job and wants to limit her internet presence  or may have changed her name to avoid a stalker.  Perhaps she changed her name due to L.E. problems and does not wish to be reviewed because someone may put two and two together and tie the two identities together on the discussion board.  This has happened.

When a guy knowingly sees a lady who asks for no reviews, its like agreeing to her terms.  She has her reasons.  If you had a great time, I doubt those reasons were to cover up poor performance.

Your posting a review could put the lady in jeopardy either with her career or from a safety standpoint.  Food for thought.

Posted By: ChgoCPA
When gals are advertising for you to "see them", they can also expect that you may write a review of the session.  When a gal posts on her site/ad not to be reviewed, those also qualify her from being delisted on TER!

On this site the only reason for it's existence are the reviews that WE all use to determine if we want to go and see a gal.  Frankly, I would mention in this review if indeed the gal discussed the reviews with you and asked you specifically NOT to review.  That would be informative to me as a reader and prospect.  The review discussion should NOT be part of the paid session..PERIOD!

And if there was no discussion on the review system (hopefully), just write her review and move on to the next one.  I suspect you saw her because of an ad..then read her reviews?  So if you just want to keep using everyone elses reviews as your research tools, and NOT give back...that's fine.

Just don't be so concerned about a provider's issues on the review process. That is an occupational hazard (or benefit) that they need to understand as part of this business.  And if they want to tell you it is for their discretion...well, then how are we supposed to evaluate her?  

Unless the lady is a rip off or scam of some sort, I respect her wishes regarding reviewing or not reviewing.

Of course, any of us can flap our gums any way we want to, but let's assume we reverse the situation and you ask a lady not to provide a reference or any information about you without your permission, maybe you are a bit famous and need to keep it on the very quiet - would you then expect her to publish a detailed update on a provider board?

Respect and confidentiality need to be mutual or they do not exist.

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Writing a review is your right, not hers.  If she doesn't want reviews she can get herself delisted from TER.

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