It annoys the crap out of me when after being verified and going through that song and dance (don't mind, safer for all involved), that some providers still don't meet you half way and answer some basic Qs regarding time spent, etc.  I typically only ask when various reviews are contradictory, and I'm not sure what might be involved.  I'd prefer to know then assume, especially if I'm spending my coin on an upper tier provider.  I mean you have my RS2K, seen my review history on TER,  as well as received some personal information that you can validate, so what's the issue?!  Or when after all that I ask for a somewhat recent pic, and they send a pic that they have been using for years.  LOTS can change over that time.  Usually when that happens, I don't bother booking.  Hmmphhh....

I used to not see the point in updating pix often, but I do think every 6 months is fair to both parties. Especially if something drastic changes. Hair color or something. My hair's curly but I often straighten it so I like to show both hair styles when I can. Not too much to ask for. Keep it moving!

I assume you aren't asking questions like "Your place or mine?" or "I read you like gin and Delta Blues, are those things true?"  If you're asking questions of a more sexual nature, there are two issues:  

One, the biggie- that's illegal.  Two, also pretty big, upper tier providers are (almost) ALL YMMV.  

Booking an "upper tier" escort is not the same as hiring a prostitute.  Truly.  Prostitutes are easy enough to find and if you want someone to agree to put a particular body part into a particular orifice, you should go that route.  An escort is more like paying to hang out with a sweetheart of a girl who everybody KNOWS is actually fucking the whole football team.  TER is the bathroom wall where you can read about it.  

If you want to see a particular girl, you're going to have to be cool about it.  If you want to find a girl who appears to be an "upper tier provider" but is really totally a prostitute, you need to back channel. PM some of the guys who have a ton of reviews.  Just guessing will get you screened then disappointed a lot.

And screw asking for a recent pic.  If all the pics are old and you're uncomfortable with that, then just pass

.... I really do.   If I were on your side of the hotel-room-door, I might feel the same way.  I'm very diligent about researching someone whose service I might engage, or a product I'm considering purchasing and would want to make sure that I would be getting what I bargained for.

That being said, though, I am NOT on your side of the door, I am on mine (in my high-heeled boudoir shoes!) and tend to be a bit skittish.  Heck, some would even call me paranoid...... But just because I AM paranoid, doesn't mean "they" are NOT out to get me! LMAO!!

So I will not discuss anything explicit, ever.  But then again, I am not an "upper tier" lady so perhaps that should be less expected of me?  I don't know, but I still get asked these things quite often.  
If there are variances in a lady's reviews on what she does or does not do, it could be due to something on the gentleman's part not merely her own whims.  

In my own personal experience, I can tell you that one man's idea of DFK could be my definition of LFK or a tonsil examination.    
These terms are subjective.   Some have said that I can and do DT but I would say that is not completely accurate.  I have a big mouth (not merely metaphorically, but literally lol) and so it may SEEM that I DT when in fact I have a very sensitive gag reflex preventing me from doing so.  

There are also various physical anomalies that may cause me to change my usual MO but I will refrain from sharing them.  

xoxo

I'm sure ladies of all levels can suck a dick like no ones ever sucked a dick. And can ride like no one can ride. Maybe even be stunningly gorgeous. (Though she'll figure out quickly to charge more lol.)

Then come the amenities. A car can get you from point A to point B if all the parts are in tact. Aside from differing engines, blah blah,there are other things that make your car your car. The name, the price, the bells & whistles...

Upscale Incall, more pampered & soft, all the little details like more modern/upscale hair color, expensive make up that keeps her face from breaking out, mani/pedi's, facials, (not that kind,) higher quality & brand clothing, etc etc.

But the sex itself will most likely carry skill, style, & experience throughout many price ranges.

 
 The price range changes the client more than the provider, I think. I've known a few ppl who literally would not stop for gas, eat in a restaurant, go to a store, bar, etc etc unless it was a very nice neighborhood. No hillbilly bars with 80's clothing. Didn't hang out or want to be seen or associate with Out of style people, certain language usage is a no-no around them, and they see it as low class, etc etc. Believe it or not, there are people out there who wouldn't be caught dead living a lower life. Some even, after job losses or market crashes, live the same luxuries and borrow from friends and family, because they're too proud to eat anything less than fine dining. And there are escorts to match these people's tastes by the amenities, and their prices. And those amenities are expensive.

 As far as sexual services provided, putting that in writing to two direct IP addresses, even if you know each other... Not if there's a price involved. Even a dollar.

And like a trophy wife, she's untouchable until she sees green.

After all, green is Viagra for women. And most need that green Viagra.

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but I like yours better.

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There isn't a screening process that is 100% safe.  We can't eliminate the risk either side is taking, only minimize it the best we can.  I never do only one screening procedure.  For example, if a guy has a member to a good screening site, I do some additional research, check blacklists, do a general web search, etc. I often find reasons not to see a guy when I use multiple screening techniques.  I will NEVER use a white list on any website.  The number of reviews is of no use for screening due to the abuse of the screening process (ladies seeing guys for free or lower rate for a prewritten good review, guys preying on new girls offering this to "help lthem out" etc).  I believe I have a good screening process.  Regardless of how great a screening process is, it will NEVER be solid enough to eliminate the risk we are all taking.  For this reason, I will ignore any inappropriate questions, regardless of how you word them or which acronyms you use.

Reviews are a good place for a general idea of a lady's services.  Attempting to talk to her about them in any way is downright dangerous...on both parts.  I have quite a few reviews. Although their good, their not all accurate.  Most of them are accurate, but not all of them.  I would suggest finding ladies with lots of reviews, reading them and whatever comes up consistently in her reviews is probably what she offers.

If a lady is trying to hide her identity, she may limit the number of pics she uses or share.  I believe we should all have recent pics.  I have been on hiatus and just started back.  My pics aren't current and I still look the same. I have a selfie I'm will send out via e mail if asked for a recent pic. Why would a guy take my word that I look the same as over a year ago?? I send out the pic so he knows.  After I have my current pics up, I will not send out pictures.  There will be no reason to.  They will be kept updated.

 

I have news for you sweetheart, you're a prostitute.  Just cause you charge more doesn't make you some elite goddess escort.  You are selling your pussy for cash in the end, hence prostitute.  But call yourself whatever makes you sleep at night...

I kinda went on a rant before making my real intended point lol (hence thread topic).  I was drawn to post mostly by the pic request thing.  I mean if I were a provider, I'd want my latest and greatest out there, purely from a marketing/sales pitch standpoint.  I wouldn't have pics from 3+ years ago STILL on my posts/website....
BTW -  My "other" Q's are not completely explicit such as "do you swallow this" or "do you take it in that".  Sometimes it is, can you please tell me your current height/weight.  While I NEVER would ask a woman this in normal circumstances, I feel it is a completely justified Q when paying good coin for a provider.....

You seem really angry, I truly hope you find some peace. Xo

My pics are very recent and I plan to keep them updated regularly.  If I keep my old photos up, then I'll make a note regarding which ones are more recent than others.  Why would I keep old pics on my site?  Because I still look like that, and I really like those particular photos.

Again, I understand why you want to know a lady's height and weight.  But please try to understand that there may be good reasons why a lady won't share those specifics.    

I will not tell my height, weight, or measurements for two reasons: Everyone carries their weight differently, and people can be quite clueless about both weight and measurements.

I know this from experience of having my accurate stats posted: when I'd meet people they would often tell me that I was either thinner or heavier than they imagined based upon my stats.  

Just recently I shared my dress size with someone prior to meeting and when we met he remarked that I was definitely thinner than I'd told him.  Well yeah... if I'm significantly taller than a person you know who wears the same size, I might very well appear thinner despite sharing the same measurements.  It's the Fun House-mirror effect, lol.   Or perhaps she and I just carry our weight very differently, or she doesn't actually wear the size she claims, or the designers/brands she wears are sized differently than what I wear, or or or or or....... you see what I mean?    

I don't share my height because I've actually had people argue with me about it, going both ways.   And I hate debating such things, or even being put in that position in the first place.  It's just silly, IMO.  :-

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I understand where you are coming from.  But when a client (not yours specifically, just in general) is told the provider is of average build, or the provider mentions she is average build and her pics are accurate, and when you get there she is likely 200+ lbs, that's ridiculous.  And I like my women thick, curvacious.  I've never been a big fan of the rail thin or skinny minny ladies, just my personal preference.  I'm not talking nit-picking what 150 lbs looks like, or how a lady carries it.  But when the differences are drastic, like the provider ate another provider since her "recent" pics were posted, that's where I have issue

A prostitute will fuck you. A top tier escort will rock your world. If you haven't experienced the difference,,,,,

ROFLMFAO!!!!!! OH MY GAWD!!!  I honestly just laughed so hard I cried!  

Thank you for that!!  Oh my god.... I gotta use that one someday; you are too funny!!

I would like to focus on the point raised regarding the asking somewhat explicit questions regarding expectations of a meeting.  

I used to feel the same way...in fact I love to write erotic stories....so what is the harm?

Well in September of 2013 and escort was busted in a small town in WI.  She required her clients to photograph themselves before she would see them.  She had her husband, or herself, photograph the sex act, and she used e-mail.

She also kept detailed records and journals, the photographs, and e-mail of her client base.  Resulted in more than 10 arrests of clients.

Imagine if I had sent her an e-mail and HAD discussed maters in detail, I would be a nervous wreck.

So, lesson learned.  Explicit language in writing can lead to big trouble for both parties, not only a provider.

As with most things in life, a two way street.

Happy Valentines Day everyone!

Being a very visual being the first thing that attracts me to a provider is the picture.
So imagine the disappointment you get when you do not get what you thought you were getting.
Sometimes after a little bit of interaction it works out fine. You are already there and the provider is really cool  etc, but a lot of times it feel like a let down.

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The guy was very foolish to use RS2K.  Why would you give any escort your real name when they don't give you theirs?  Think with the big head, not the little one...