Last week I had a multiple-hour appointment with one of my favorite providers, she is sweet and I have seen her several times before and I hope I can see her again many more times. Minutes before the starting time of our meeting, she texted me saying that she had been very busy and that she would be 15 min late.  No problem so far, she has been on time many times before.  But when the meeting began I noticed a not so pleasant smell, as if she had just gone to the bathroom and did not have time to clean up carefully.  My favorite item, the DATY, became impossible and it was out of the menu for the day!  Because I care so much about her, I did not want say anything that might hurt her feeling and I moved on to other things that I usually enjoy with her.  

Don't ever mention that she has a Bad Odor. Showering with her is a good thing to do. I always Shower with my Girl before we do anything. After the Shower give each other a Massage.

Seems rather awkward to push a wash rag up her ass. Seriously, I'm not trying to be funny.

You can Shower each other. That's what I do with my Girl. She seems to enjoy it. I definetely enjoy it.

This is a total nightmare. I've had similar with a provider from out of town. Very well reviewed and rated and rather expensive - like $450 an hour if I recall. I didn't bother saying anything -  just decided not to book her again. If it was someone local that I wanted to see again...think I would do as others suggest...like steer her towards the tub/shower. Or just find someone else and avoid the hassle.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe he's talking about her having had a recent bowel movement. I see a difficulty in washing that area.

I always clean up with baby wipes prior to a client even if I havent done a bm like your lady friend.
I would not mention it to her just suggest a shower or bring a container of baby wipes to her in call.
Comment on how fast they work, nice scent or un-scented brand and ask her would you like to try one.  I shower and use the baby wipes prior to any client.

Everyone knows(or should know) this is a business relationship involving intimate, personal contact. Each party needs to take every precaution to ensure they are presenting themselves in a fresh, sanitary manner. People can inadvertently slip up however, and when that occurs, they should be gently reminded, be it a provider or a hobbyist. As long as you're not obnoxious in doing so they'll get over the embarrassment. I'm sure they'd rather hear it directly from you instead of reading about it on a board. If they take offense, do you really want to see them again anyway? A mutual shower is a great idea, kills two birds with one stone (takes care of the hygiene dilemma and can be a lot of fun). YMMV with this, however, as some of the ladies don't want to get their hair wet or have their makeup ruined.

for your useful comments and suggestions.  My recent not-so-pleasant experience was actually very rare.  In hundreds of appointments that I had over the years, 99% of the time the ladies prepare well for the appointments; they dress up nicely, fix their hair, take care of the nails, and they smell so fresh and nice everywhere.

LOL

I recently engaged a provider who loves "greek". However, several times during anal sex we had to stop because it was getting messy. I had never experienced that before. Kinda grossed out. How does that happen?

Who s..t in my Cheerios.  I cannot help it I was eating breakfast when I caught this one.  I hope I can get it out of my mind today......

In my initial posting I used the word DATY incorrectly. I meant kissing and licking the genital and ass area; but NOT eating sh...t for sure. Sorry about that!

Yeeew. We've already decided that's a dirty orifice. No finger in sh*t, thank you.

Rimmed her clean. Jesus why could you not have just said hygiene problems instead of TMI.