if they find out that you used it to pay for services they can/will suspend/cancel your account as well as the provider you pay.  Not a great way to establish a friendship in this industry.  Oh yeah and they generally TAKE the funds saying they are ill gotten gains so you pay it, she doesn't get to have it means you would likely have to pay her again in order not to get black listed.  

Stay away from Paypal unless you know the lady well and comp her infrequently that way and always pay personal and mention that it is a gift for birthday or other type reason

They will close our accounts and take our funds if they get wind of what's going on. If any ladies do this, I would highly recommend having a separate email for Paypal that's unrelated to the hobby, and use it as infrequently as possible.