Nobody want to find their Dad, Uncle, or cousin on the other side of the door. Or if your family is really fucked up maybe you do.

LOL...Good Point

References, and proof of identity. Scheduling that phone call is a little bit of a hassle, but really nice to have a short chat before the date.

P411 is good all over the country and is a better system. RS-AVS is pretty much only used in the Chicago area and their website isn't any good anymore.

That laides prefer rs2k. I prefer P411.  
With rs info the lady can get your home address. Not good if the lady goes BSC  

I suggest you take an informal survey by looking at the websites and TER profiles for several of the ladies you think you might like to meet. Pay attention to their preferences either stated in their contact information, the banners on their websites or the links in their TER profile. Some will prefer one or the other. Some use both. It all depends on their own screening methods and geographic location. Almost all of those that use RS2K are either based in Chicago or close by in the midwest or they travel here frequently. Do not expect having just one or the other (or even both) will get you in the door without some additional screening, especially until you get some "OKs" on P-411. Personally I like P-411 better.

I've been using RS2K, DateCheck, and TER for years and I've had no problems getting verified with the providers that I've seen.  

You mean the same info you had to give to RS2K?  Actually less...

National used.....

Actually in my experience with P 411, around 300 different women or so, I have had less than 2% ask me for anything more than my profile and okays. I am sure "some" checked my okays as they would do any other reference, but I have had too many ladies come back with a "you're good to go" in a matter of minutes for them all to be checking Okays.

P411 for sure.

...and Date-Check.

RS2K is limited to Chicago primarily whereas P411 is more widely used.

The important thing is to join at least one of them. It makes the verification process so much easier and puts minds at ease. Many people don't realize just how much better it is to be contacted by someone new who has taken the time to assist in the verification process. You are doing yourself a big favor in doing this and the cost, in comparison, is minimal.

Why? Well P411 has a list of providers that have okay'd you. With Rs2k, you literally receive no information other than this person has been a member since XXXX. If a gentleman has many reputable providers that have okay'd him on P411 then I don't feel the need to contact each one. But if he has only one or two, then I will definitely contact them. P411 is much more transparent and also more cost effective and time saving.

Is you can actually see which providers have given the OK, whereas RS2K you don't know who they've seen, how long ago they've seen them, nor how frequently they utilize providers with the site. P411 is something you renew regularly. RS2K while you have to update the info, I think it's a life time membership.