So I have grown a winter beard and I went to see a long time provider. So she hates beards and it ended up being a horrible time... So after getting back to the office I looked up her web site and nothing about hating facial hair on men... So I am I in the wrong for not telling her prior.. The last time I saw her was the fall and I was clean shaven... We had a blast. Now I have a winter beard and she put a lot of rules due to the beard. Laddies if you don't like facial hair put that on your web site please as we are not mind readers..
Only enjoy facial hair if its maintenances & conditioned, I've had "rug burns" happened before in sensitive places dude to rough U maintained facial hair.. Maybe just ask her why she disliked it.. A soft beard in "special" places on female body's is sensual & erotic!!! It's tickles in a good way!!! Lol
That is exactly what I was thinking! As long as it's soft, it is lovely. It's the 5 day shadow that I don't really love. The same goes for body hair too.....I'll deal with it trimmed, but so scratchy!!
Pokey hairs like a slightly grown out shave just well, HURTS. Most beards and sometimes even mustaches are very stiff and pokey so when it is rubbed on certain parts namely between the legs, on the neck and the breasts it can be painful and cause a red rash. Even had one guy do it so hard he rubbed my skin to raw, drinking that night had not been a good idea in hindsight. Conditioning and pro-trims are important since they know how to cut the hair in a way that it will not be as pokey, and may give you some tips on how to care for the hair properly.
Here are a couple other things I have also run into.... Cleanliness of a beard/mustache and that fact that if you don't wash it as you come in any bacteria from that breakfast/lunch/dinner/snack/drink you last had may still be lingering there in the hair. Not cleaning right before indulging could cause a bacteria or yeast infection. No one wants that
TBH if lady has had a bad experience it is pretty hard to deter her from not liking them. However asking and then letting her know you will take all measures to make her feel comfortable is maybe the way to go. Could also be something you bring up before a session just to make sure...
Putting on a ladies sight they do not like facial hair would just sound funny so I highly doubt it will be added to any sites in the near future. When in doubt condition it!
And I posted on this very board about it and I received very positive feedback, both from providers and hobbyiests. I would condition it as I do, but I would also move on from anyone not into it. All of my ladies love it including my current ATF! I mentioned I had a new one initially, but I haven't said a word about it for half a year and no problems. Good luck
So she must have had some bad Beard experience and was not wanting a repeat. While I do keep myself extra clean and condition my beard she was just not into it.. Lesson learned to always over communicate your physical changes between parties... She did email me, not sure if she saw my post or not but was super professional about making it up to me when I loose the beard. Lol All good....
Like another provider mentioned, it's a bit ticklish and playful when you have soft facial hair. It's that prickly sandpaper-ish stuff us gals might be a bit leery of. It may not be she didn't enjoy your beard, but maybe it was just a bit uncomfortable for her and things needed to be .. Adjusted.
Don't trim your beard (and mustache) just before a visit to a lady. Freshly trimmed hairs are sharp. I usually trim mine at least 2 or 3 days before a visit, earler if I can plan for it.
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