Wow - I saw Courtney Ova two years ago.  I reached out again.  Follow her on Twitter.  Love her  
sense of humor and edgy intelligence.  In trying to book with her I sent her my linkedin profile, reference, offered to chat on the phone.  She thinks I'm trolling her and out to get rid of her?  I am perplexed and disappointed.  She sounds open and kind.  Inviting even.  Our first meeting went well, albeit a long time ago.  She asks for romantic men over 35.  I'm a 46-year old professioal man.  Well-traveled.  Well-read.  Highly-educated.  Even pretty decent looking if I say so myself.   Color me disappointed.   I hope others fare better than I did.  Be careful and don't do whatever I might have done...although I'm
still not sure what that might have been.  Such is life... Live and learn.

I just got this vibe, and this proves that the vibe was right.

Over & Out.

To those who don't like to talk trash to your friends, I do offer domination services - I am REALLY good at it.

xoxo

C

She is intelligent and kind, I don't know WTF you are doing but posting like this is not cool.  It is vindictive and small of you.   No, not  trying to be a WK, she does not need my help but I just saw this post and wondered why you would ever call out anybody in public like this?

I was getting this really crazy vibe that this was some kind of a set up. Call me crazy, but the vibe I was getting from the correspondence, saying "Beauty Queen" and "My suit will make you SO wet", is a typical email that comes from a NCNS.

Saw this guy two years ago - (he said one year ago, but I was on hiatus) - and it was two, (He then said October of 2014, but I wasn't in the incall he mentioned at that time.) All of his info was mixed up, and I tried to accommodate his way, but it just seemed too fishy - so I declined. So sue me. (LOL The OP would probably win that case,lol)

I'm sorry, but it just ruined it for me. Guys, if you're going to email me, PLEASE don't talk about my pussy being wet by you. You are NOT doing me a favor, we are doing each other a pleasure. And I'm just stubborn. I just can't jump for your money. I do my job, I do it well, I take care of myself, I've lost a ton of weight, my hair is longer, I dress to the nines, I reserve very nice suites (if available in the town you book me in of course,) and I provide an excellent, safe, and very intense environment for you - also led by chants and prayers before you walk through my door.

The majority of the men I see have all the qualities this guy listed. The extra quality they have, is they don't talk about my pussy upon first contact in two years.  

Currently seeking: Men who first want their mind fucked, and not just their dick sucked.

For the record, my original rule applies: You MUST fill out the booking form in order to see me if we have not met after August of 2015. Next month, after September of 2015. This is proof that some people go a little haywire after a couple years.

To the OP. You looked great in your linkedin picture, but please know I choose men who  
1. don't talk to me like I'm a piece of trash, (though many think pro's are a piece of trash, I know I don't have to be talked to like that,)  
2. who give me the information I ask for, and  
3. who not only "are" safe, but also "feel" safe.

I'd rather have YOU pissed off at me and ranting on the boards about it, than to show up and have something happen to me. Who knows? You may have a group of Courtney haters for raising my minimum. Never know!

Not sure if you realize the thoughts that go through many of us ladies' heads, but it ain't LE by a long shot. So if the only person you can see in this situation is YOU, then by all means, bash me. Maybe the other guys who can't think beyond their ego when it comes to a woman's desire to feel safe and comfortable will shy from booking with me. "Ewww Courtney doesn't see everyone who asks. How high and mighty of her." pffft. No, I want to get out of this profession without having to do drugs to deal with mean men. (Though I do bring great booze to the dates, should you enjoy a nice cognac, scotch, tequila, or spiced rum!)

Not sure if you noticed, but most of my advertising is to drive certain guys away. Kind of like a coffee filter. I love that the beans are there, but I want to drink the coffee, not chew the beans.

xoxo

C


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I give you credit for not using an alias but your intention is puzzling.
You may be everything you say you are...."I'm a 46-year old professional man.  Well-traveled.  Well-read.  Highly-educated.  Even pretty decent looking if I say so myself."...but your post was classless and in poor judgement....definitely not befitting of a gent with those other fine qualities.  
I think CO made the right call.

Note my post.  A mere factual recitation of MY experience.  Not disparaging, insulting, or  
in any way hurtful to Ms. Ova.  Rather, it was surprising and odd to say the least, which is why I
noted it on a discussion board...for discussion purposes.  I certainly would not and did not  
post a negative review or put 1 out of 1 star or some such.   No reason to.  Her reviews are great.  
My first and only meeting with her was great.  Our initial correspondence by email was great and then bam - I get a thanks but no thanks.  For those in the hobby, Erin Black and I have had great dates, likewise with Montero, other independents and  
many girls with Chicago Cover Girls.  It was simply an unpleasant surprise.  Nothing more and nothing less.  I have no doubt  
Ms. Ova will continue to have great success and excellent reviews, as well  she should.  Not everyone clicks, but thus far, I have clicked with everyone else.  Including her in the past I might add...

So this was definitely an attempted bite back at me.

Jesus, what if we really hit it off? The second I messed anything up, you'd be out here bitching and crying running to the boards about it to your friends, trying to dock my pay. After I sucked your dick and swallowed your cum again. lol. (May I remind you, when trash Courtney posts come up, I usually book about 2 grand in dates, so thank you.)

By the way, you said you had NO references, and gave me the phone number of an unreviewed girl under (most likely) her REAL name (that was my deciding factor, honestly- strike2) and I pulled up her number and had ads under a totally different name.

You did NOT give me your handle or any names. You gave me "I don't hobby often. Here's a girl I've known for 4 years."

You are a professional at what you do, so you think I'm dumb. Strike 3.

This is total bullshit, and i don't even know why I have to explain myself to someone who clearly can hold down a job, unless your assistants are doing it all for you.

I was very nice and understanding to you until that little bit of info came up. This is too much.  
☕️

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feelings hurt.   Referring to her as "Ms. Ova" does not make it any classier.   Good for you, you have had good experiences, isn't that special?

So wait a minute by posting this you think that you are not being hurtful to her? That does not make much sense to me because the only reason you would post this to publicly share your perceived bad experience. Not buying it. Sorry

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I think your screening flopped a couple times until we worked it out like adults, and WOW! What a ride. Literally! lol

if the rules apply, I have to say FINALLY someone said the actual provider's name.

As for me, the email correspondence was just too fishy, so thank goodness TER also lets the provider respond. And this was an intent to get back at me. It was not insulting, but it was definitely not to be nice, that's for sure.

like her photos?  Lady was not nice during the session? Lady sucked in bed?   Ok, some of that is subjective but it is fair game.  I had a good time but she cut me off the next time I tried to make an appointment? You can't see the difference?   This is a vindictive post to hurt Courtney's business, simple as that.

That is, the first time your date request has been declined for an intangible reason.  

I understand that rejection is not a comfy thing, for any of us.  

I also have had my fair share of bewildered responses from those who were surprised and confused as to why I did not wish to meet with them.  This is even more difficult when it's someone I have previously met and had an enjoyable encounter.  

It's an uncomfortable situation all around.  I'm sure Courtney did not enjoy having to turn you down.... but, as is often mentioned on this site, we providers MUST trust our instincts.   Hers told her that a second date with you would be a mistake.  

Intuition, instincts, bad voodoo.... whatever you call it, providers HAVE to learn to rely upon them.  They're certainly not infallible, but I'm sure many (if not most) of us have, at time,  allowed our heads to override these less-logical senses to our detriment.  And thus, we learn to trust them.  As it is always best to err on the side of caution, is it not?

Although I've rarely seen it mentioned on any ladies' sites or ads, we ALL can and do "reserve the right to refuse service" to anyone, for any reason.  Even if you pass all inspections, have glowing references, are willing to book an extended date & bring a lovely gift to boot..... you are not in any way guaranteed an encounter with anyone.  

Now, if you did use the sort of language she says you did? C'mon MAN!  How did you think that was alright?   I've never met her but could tell you just from reading her posts here that that sort of language wouldn't fly.  :smh:
I personally wouldn't have even done you the courtesy of letting you know we wouldn't be meeting.  I'd simply cut off all contact and block you from my Twitter.  

She did the courteous thing AND has now told you exactly why.  You may want to take that into consideration going forward.    

Or just tell me to go fuck myself.   I'm cool with that too.  :-P

xoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxooxoxoxoxoo

Nooner: A sexual encounter during the lunch hour, especially one that is illicit

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Granted, I didn't say every single reason, as I didn't think providing a checklist of everything he did wrong would have a whole lot of tact.  

There was some empathy in that email, it could have been worse. But I understand men have egos that can be bruised, and honestly unless someone is literally trying to hurt my feelings and I know it, I'm not going there.

But - then this thread came up and poof. I let it all hang out - as usual lmao.

For the record people, this thread and reaction should come as no surprise. I have not once advertised (at least since July of 2015) that I am a "sweet lil thang". I'm feisty. And people love it. They especially love it because they get the "quiet waters runneth deep" Courtney in person, and that's the mystery of me. It's sort of a mind-fuck.

I have a lot of returning clients who really enjoy what I have to offer, and I'm not ruining it by fucking up my life or who I am by letting anything slip. If my new clientele slows down, so be it. It'll speed back up.

I'll leave you all with a little inspirational quote. I hate these things, but I really like this one. Not gonna' lose sleep over this, so I'm off to beddie bye. Kitty's having kittens within the next couple of days, and she's bullying me into paying attention to her. Super excited!


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d-bag in the ass, and he calls HIMSELF out on it. I guess when you're certain you're right, you must be right!  

No doubt about it - lead with your ego and forget any humility or self-restraint to get the best result.  

LOL. Like you are the only guy who ever was turned down or felt frustrated, and it must be her fault, because you are just soooo Mr. Wonderful?

That advice that's always given, to "just move on", you didn't know that it applies as much to the gals as to the guys?

Just move on.

This post is really, really creepy. If anything, Courtney dodged a bullet by not seeing you.

I hate it when guys say they're nice guys, smart, well-traveled, poop out golden eggs, etc but can't take no for an answer. To us providers, that means you're going to harm us in some way and we don't want to wake up tied up in a basement.

I forgot to add, when anyone says the word no.. you just move on. End of story. Life goes on.

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I too did not think his post was offensive until Courtney mentioned "get you wet etc" .  But Debbie you hit it on the head,  it is about an individual's comfort zone.  And always err on the side of YOUR safety. And what if the gentleman did everything by the  book, and you still do not choose to see him again, so be it. And you ladies would know this better than I, but there have been cases when men try on second or third dates to  "push the envelope."

Nice saying. Wish I had one for my wall.  And good luck with the Kitties.  Now will you please tell me want to eat when in Springfield LOL? i have hit some truly mediocre restaurants there --even that one in the Hilton. And I will be there in May. Thanks.

so I doubt it will affect her business.  The OP, on the other hand, is now probably on most local girls DNS lists.

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I have a feeling I've asked what to eat in Springfield lmao! I never went - I couldn't find a good restaurant ha ha ha

Courtney    I have never met you, but I read your excellent comments on every subject.  I posted
a question a few months ago and you gave me the needed information about that subject.  The people who read Chicago (TER) know you are a very honest and classy person.  Don't take this
persons comments very seriously .   Keep being Courtney.  Waiting for your new video.
1948person

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in a tough post takes balls.

And you don't have to be romantic either - I love romance, but that's also not a requirement. Just be nice.

Over 30 is less "weird" for me though... but again not a requirement.

Not sure where this was advertised, but... making sure we're clear here. -- Modified on 4/14/2016 6:24:54 PM

I'm somewhat confused. The OP acknowledges CO is looking for romantic men over 35, yet tells her his suit will make her SO wet. Does that pass for romantic in this day and age?

Sure, the OP states it, but I don't require either of those things, nor is this requirement in any of my advertising.  

........six...seven... eight...nine... ten!!

  : lifts C.O.'s arm over her head

Poor next guy is going to try to book like...

ustomer seems dead on but I picture you as taller ;

Are you fantasizing? LOL! Don't make me too tall, or you'll be disappointed if you see me in person lol!

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Or is this just a way to launch your quest for MS TER April 2016, anyone who can elicit a thread like this one most definitely is getting my votes. Vote early, vote often. That's the Chicago way, right?

As for the OP, Dude you are embarrassing yourself, Turn in your man card IMMEDIATELY!!!

I do have a question though, do little wimpy jellyfish like the OP get to whine like this on MATCH.com? I've never been on the site and I was wondering if they have forum where the rejected can cry into their soup.

and sorry Court, but speaking as a guy who talks PLENTY of trash to my friends, I am not in need of any domination services, but if I ever misplace my nutsack like the OP, I will be sure to keep your number handy.

Actually, match is really bad. They put the complaining in their profiles, and all of the dates are about ex girlfriends, how everybody on Match is a joke, etc. The entire dating process is a bunch of whining about how this woman had a freckle, but the picture didn't show the freckle. "She lied to me!"  

Dating here is much more fun lol

The domination services was kind of a joke, but I'd do it if someone really wanted me to and they have invested a lot of money into me, sure.

If someone really "loves" me, he'll take care of me regularly, right?

By the way, this entire thread turned into a huge Courtney Ova ThreAD. I'm very surprised no one has accused me of this yet. LOL

This whole trainwreck threAD was just a clever ruse to get you more business AND get you votes for MS TER.  

Who knew you were such a clever little minx? lol

We want to put the fear of God in people I guess lol!

but lets say she is 100% guilty of everything the OP accuses her of, he is still a huge cunt for coming on her whining about getting turned down by a hooker he has already seen and had a good time with. Even if we believe EVERYTHING he says, he looks a thousand times worse than her, not to mention the fact that I bet you she got a whole bunch of "sympathy" appointments because of this threAD, so who's the dumb one here?

and I was just kidding about her being difficult, I wouldn't have any idea since I've never tried to book with her, but the bitch part.......lol

Please step in - I'll give you a nice tongue lashing too! lol kidding. I usually ignore if I feel I'm getting dicked around, but I have seen the guy he really was a nice guy - which is why i was confused... thought maybe a girl was sending him after me, but now that I think of it, it would be safer to assume maybe he didn't want me to check his real refs for some reason. I get discretion, and I also understand that guys don't tell us stuff for fear that we'll go tell the girls anyway. Unfortunately, we can see it anyway.

We have since made up - but probably not the best idea to move forward. Plenty of other ladies out there who are just as good - if not better than I am - I am just really good at casting spells on men with my intellect that makes them leave, saying "Courtney Ova - WTF?".

So all is good - but obviously a little ummm... awkward. I think we have both moved on. I def would have recommended him two years ago, and hell - who knows - most likely now if I wasn't such a defensive, paranoid, picky "elite" "upscale" provider. (Elite = "I'll Eat" and "Up-Scale" because I'm a Soprano in my own Opera.)

I'm still trying to figure out why he didn't review me two years ago - I do know a lot of people are ashamed to tell people they've seen me. I don't know why? I'm a nice person.

Oh wait... LOL... maybe I'm not. lmao

Could you imagine? a 5/5 review from Gambler because I'm not a teeny tiny 25 year old spinner LOL!! I'm getting a little old for you. But hey, if I go tanning enough, don't eat for maybe 6 months, and don't wear heels, maybe I'll have a chance! Oh wait. I'm too old lol

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I think you would get at least a 5/8 or maybe even a 5/9 if we split a bottle of tequila first

and don't worry, heels are not necessary, I don't care how tall you are. I will confess to liking spinners, but 5' 9" and 115 lbs works just as well as 5' 2" and 95 lbs. but over thirty is tough to undo. lol

but that could just be guys trying to be nice to me. BUT - I get a lot of ladies (never men, thank god,) who like to point out flaws - however, they've always told me I look young.

You can't reverse it, but you can make yourself look younger for sure!  

Now, if we split a bottle of tequila, you will really get to know my "old soul" mixed with my "young spirit" lol.

Tequila is my new go-to nowadays - and I get made fun of because after two tequila drinks I'm already in the clouds lol!

P.S. One day someone may turn you on to squeezing those womanly hips and making that ass jiggle lmfao

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