The more beautiful, the better! The mindset you need is that it's not a date and unless you smell badly or behave badly, she's not going to judge you. It's not like a date where you're going all out to impress her. Just select reputable and well-reviewed providers and there won't be a problem. That's the best part of this hobby. I'd never meet the beauties I've seen in this hobby in the civvie world. I never got the time of day from beautiful women in the civvie world.
Ok...I know this is a stupid question..Im an idiot....but here it goes:
I readily admit I'm not the best looking guy out there. I don't necessarily think Im ugly. I generally consider myself an average joe. I see some absolutely gorgeous providers with excellent reviews/credentials but I cannot muster the courage to even call. I guess pretty girls intimidate me to the point that I almost feel like Im doing them a disservice by calling. This is probably why I feel so much more at ease with older "MILF" providers. Im a relatively inexperienced hobbyist having only seen a total of 3 providers. Only one has been closer in age to myself (im 25 yrs old) and the experience was ok. But the other two older providers have been way better.
Anyways I guess this is all a long winded way of asking if any other "average joes" out there have any qualms about seeing incredibly beautiful providers. I know its a dumb question but I had to ask....
I'll admit at first I had the same concerns.... that's all gone now. All the fine, well reviewed ladies here in Chicago see all sorts of guys from thin to fat from tall to short from average to unattractive to down and out hot. As long as you're clean and cool you should never have a problem. Hobby on!!!!
but unfortunately plenty of stupid dumbass people. You are not one of them . You are probably a sensitive guy a little too self conscience about not being a sexy hunk. Most of the top ladies I know are so good at their craft not because of their killer looks or dynamite performance , but their ability to put a gent at ease and make him feel like the coolest dude in the world. It is a factor in their persona. Geesh , I'm not even from Chicago, but I know several absolute knock outs there that would make you feel like the sexiest man alive. Of course, myself being a charming...dashing..witty...alarmingly handsome heartbreaker might not be the best judge of these things.
Benjamin Franklin had to be the dumpiest guy around, but the ladies go nuts for him He is gnarly in the finest sense!
As long as you show up (and leave) on time, have the correct donation, are clean, use their shower and really soap up and scrub the crevices, use mouthwash, brush your teeth, have no alarming growths, rashes or open wounds and have a pleasant personality, you'll get everywhere you need to go with the prettiest of girls. I would bet that you are much more attractive than you think you are!
Be warned that your age may work against you, however. Some ladies and agencies just won't have anything to do with a 25 year old, but some would welcome you. You need to be upfront about that and ask if there is an age limit.
As in your real life, confidence is the key. Calling a hot provider is no different than calling a MILF. You've created a mental block that is your own ball and chain. I think any and off us have momentary lapses of confidence about certain things. Someone already said it, this is $4P, your only other prereqs are you are clean, can act like a gentleman for what ever length of time you subscribed, and you can hold your beer long enough to get the condom on. Relax!
is the one that you don't ask. If you don't ask, you will never get the answer. Your question is quite legitimate, and one that a lot of us have wondered about. When you've been around a while, try to get yourself an invitation to a M&G. What you'll find there is a room, half filled with guys who are "Average Joes", just like you and me. I've been doing this for a few years now, and I've seen beautiful women in all age groups. Here's the kicker...I still get nervous as hell, when I'm about to meet a new friend. My voice cracks like a teenager in puberty, and I trip over things that aren't there. It all goes away in short fashion, simply because these ladies are so damned good as what they do. With very few exceptions, I have been made to feel like the sexiest guy on Earth.
So, my advice to you is that the next time you see a lady's ad who really interests you, just make the call. Chances are very good that it will be an eye-opening experience.
I am sure you are not alone. I'm no Brad Pitt but used to forget how to speak around beautiful woman. My first several meetings were not with TER woman and definitely not 8,9, or 10's.(My choice) Now thanks in to the TER ladies that showed me beautiful ladies can be down to earth too. Thanks to the attractive providers that saw how uncomfortable I was at the time speaking with good looking women and helped me get over this. I find it is far easier to talk to beautiful woman everyday in any situation that does not involve the envelope(thanks ladies). Now I would never consider booking time with a lady that I did not find gorgeous. IMHO
walk through it was a smile and a positive attitude and the rest will take care of its self. The sex is great, but for me now it's as much about meeting a new friend, making a connection and having some laughs along the way. Then it's a win/win.
I was kinda in the same boat. I get very nervous every time I call and schedule with a new provider. I am usually so nervous calling a new gal the first time that I forget my hobby phone # I need to give as part of my RS2K screening. I'm an average Joe too. A little over weight 5'10"@265, not ugly, but not hot either. If anything I have found that this hobby has helped me with approaching women in my civvie life. You really should call the hottest ladies you desire in this hobby. That's what It's all about, fulfilling fantasies. I'm white and have now seen hot whit gals, hot asian gals, and even a smokin hot latina. Still on the to do list... a hot middle eastern gal, and a hot black gal. Go for it with the hottest hotties you can find, and enjoy. Just do your homework first.
The more beautiful, the better! The mindset you need is that it's not a date and unless you smell badly or behave badly, she's not going to judge you. It's not like a date where you're going all out to impress her. Just select reputable and well-reviewed providers and there won't be a problem. That's the best part of this hobby. I'd never meet the beauties I've seen in this hobby in the civvie world. I never got the time of day from beautiful women in the civvie world.
It took me many years to realize that pretty girls like to get fucked too !! And it took me even longer to figure out that some very hot girls really enjoy being submissive to a man. Since I have learned this lesson it has changed my life.....erotically speaking. Remember the great pearl of wisdom from the movie "Fourty Year Old Virgin"......"you are putting the pussy on a pedastal".
Well...I guess it wasn't a stupid question after all. Glad to know I'm not the only one with "rookie" jitters and yes sixgunsteve perhaps I am "putting the pussy on a pedastal"!
Anyways thank you all for all the valuable insight. I'll definitely take your advice to heart. I just got done checking my messages here at TER and several providers have already contacted me! This truly is a remarkable community. Thanks again you all are a great bunch of people!
Have you seen them without their make-up on? Urrghh... And when you are horny, they tend to look prettier. So please have some self-confidence. And make a critical scrutiny when you look at them.
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He is gnarly in the finest sense!