This is an issue that I have been puzzled about for a long time.

On the one hand, reviews in TER, not to mention the world at large, portray anal sex as something wonderful that a woman can give a man (or a provider can give a hobbyist and therefore deserves a higher score).  

Personally I - and almost all the hobbyists I know - do not particularly find anal sex appealing. Reasons can be any of the following: the lady’s hygiene, the lady seems not to be enjoying it or seems to be in pain, the difficulty of the whole process – lubes, changing condoms if you are going from anal to something else, and most of all, the quality of the afterglow after anal ...

My question to providers: do you enjoy it? Or is it something you don’t mind? Or is it something that you dislike but do it because … fill in the reason.  

My question to hobbyists: do you \ enjoy it? Or is it something you want to do because of its taboo value or because it’s something that’s a no-no with your SO? Or is it the moment of dominance over the lady? Or something else?  
In particular, does anyone – provider or hobbyist – agree that the quality of any afterglow is less after anal sex?
I guess what I am really trying to understand is whether anal sex interest on the part of the hobbyists is really as prevalent as it seems or something exaggerated by, among other things, it being discussed more, TER’s scoring system and such

i only engage in anal sex if my partner truly enjoys it..i certainly would not pay extra for it even though a lot do..some providers love anal sex and adequately prepare for it...others offer it sparingly and others hate even the thought of it..

great response. a great provider who provides it knows how to take care of the loop situation simply just by sucking your cock and making it nice and wet and then you know what happens and  insertion. I think the topic is one sided for you. there's a lot of guys who enjoy it
 actually there's some providers that enjoy it so much they prefer to end their sessions thatt way because this is the way they climax which is very sweet.

I've never tried it, nor do I have any desire to. I've had a few guys who thought it would be cute to stick a finger up there. They found out the hard way what my elbow tastes like. I'm aware that some ladies enjoy it, but I figure that if a finger gives me a bow-throwing reflex then a dick would probably make me pass out.  

I think porn has a lot to do with its popularity. Some guys swear it's better than vaginal sex, and some feel the opposite. The taboo (if you even want to call it that) is probably the biggest alluring factor for most.

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I enjoy prostate massage, but I have no interest in putting my dick in someone else's butthole. If that's someone's thing then more power to them, but I don't get it. There's another, self-lubing orifice very near it that's specifically designed for sexual intercourse. And I'm rhyming...

From person to person. I have only experienced it in my personal life a few times but every time was extremely different, from really pleasurable to oh no, stop, never again. That said, I don't get asked for it, often. In fact, I can only remember twice. I think some men like that it's an option, because it is really sexy and CAN be great fun for both parties especially if there's already great chemistry, but, in my experience, it's really not a big deal.

That said, for those men who LOVE it, it seems to be a total dealbreaker if you don't offer it.

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have been hooked ever since then.  

Funny thing is - it is sort of like drugs.  No time is better than the first time.  

I have only had one time that it was on par with the first time and that happened when I was 28 yo.  This chick was a COMPLETE anal freak.  And that night my penis was completely absorbed by her spinchter and for the longest time I pounded it in/out up/down and it was fucking unreal!!!!!!!!!!

The only reason I did not completely equal the first time is because the first time it was BB (yep, I was a dumb teenager)

Anal has to be done properly like anything else in life. If the provider prepares properly and she can get super wet and use her own juices to lubricate the guys dick then omg for both participants. However, I found that the guys that want to just shove it in and to to town the women hate it. If on the other hand its done slow to start and then at a comfortable level the lady likes it is totally enjoyable by both.

To the men..... listen to the lady.

To the women, it is the most pleasurable if you prepare properly and you can self lube....

but then again to each their own, I enjoy it and I like it as long as it is done according to what pleasures me.

until my husband asked for it

then I had to change my perspective

(and for which my answer was NO!!!!!!!!)

Question: if you don't enjoy it .... Why are you posting about it????  

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I tried it before I was in porn and found it fun but once I got into porn I found to love it. I also began to squirt when having anal. I knew how to prepare for it and still do. I think that you should only do it (on both hobbyist side and provider side) if you enjoy it. That way both parties will enjoy it.

Love
Zana

"fags"???  Who uses that language anymore?

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I use to be a "no way, OMG, exit only" type of gal but the aquarius curiosity in me always says "go for it".  

I researched, asked questions and was gifted books. SLOWLY gave it a try, now ... I freakin' LOVE it!.  

Your ass has a thinner membrane inside, thus the need for thicker/anal lube or silicone based lubes.  

I have done it in my films, with clients, and personal ... BUTT (pun intended) not all the time as I like to reserve it for those I vibe with, especially since I'm such a passionate being.  

But lesbians are ok

I'll give you another email which I reserve strictly for that kind of stuff to go through when I'm bored out of my fackin mind.

I knew I liked you Gemma Coreana!!!! We get a long just fine!!!

Love
Zana