That's all I have been saying.  That's it, that's all: that some men and women have their own ideas of what it means to them. Period.

A term which most people think assert means one thing and one thing only, can still be interpreted differently.  
Example: I consider myself to be tall, because I am taller than the current average height for women in this country.  But just this week I've heard both, "Wow you really are tall!" AND  "Oh, you're not really tall!"  ......so even something simple can have different meanings.    

 
Most people here may want there to be one concrete definition of "Girlfriend Experience" (and that would make things a lot easier) but unfortunately GFE does mean different things to different people.   How they come up with these ideas (and they run the gamut from what I personally consider a bit impersonal to what many define as a PSE) is a mystery.... likely just based upon their own preferences and desires.    

It doesn't matter how or why others define it differently than what is popularly accepted here... what matters is that there ARE other definitions out there.

So when a lady calls herself GFE, although her services may not match up with the common definition, perhaps she truly defines GFE as something else.  Or perhaps she really is knowingly lying.  

To say that any lady calling herself GFE when she does not meet the popular expectations of such is obviously lying is jumping to conclusions.  It is assuming an intended deception on her part.    

I prefer not to assume.    

 

Have a great weekend, everyone!  

 
xoxo
Debbie