I have recently given my information so as to be screened by a well-known provider. I typically use as my refertence a well-kwown and respected service and my whitelist. This has never been an issue in the past. I also have a presence here on the board since 2002.

Is there a reason either one or both wouldn't be acceptable?

I'd like your thoughts....

Elrond

you are not blacklisted.Mabe she is just picky?There could be many reasons.But no bad reports on you sweetheart

Thank you for checking. I'm glad i'm glad I'm not on it.

You're highly respected here. In fact, along with two or three others, your reviews are the ones I always look out for when making a decision. Did she actually tell you the screening info you gave was not good enough? Or did she just stop responding?

We are still working on it. I can see her point - safety is paramount...

I'm hoping it works out.

We will indeed see.

All the reviews I've read indicate she is beautiful and skilled.

could be 1 of a few things but here are the most common if you are not blacklisted.

You have a ton of reviews and a estabished personal here, to some that makes you a "hobbiest" and some ladies refuse to see gentlemen that have those things.  Why?  I think they want to stay more private and don't want to feel like another knotch in someones belt.  While you might think we shouldn't care if we are, some ladies do care so that could be it.

Could be that you figure your reviews/white lists/P411 ID and no personal info should be enough, but she requires more.  I know I do personally.  Reviews and whitelists here mean very little to many of us for screening, P411 isn't much better and alot of times is used only as a way to figure out a recent reference to request info of.

Did you say anything that might have made her uncomfortable with you?  I know there are some ladies that even after screening do not take requests of any sort well because they all insinuate "more" happening and while we all know, it is another thing to have it documents in email/text and that could get you cut.

GL, and either way things will work out for you the way they need to so I can only wish you the best, Sage

why you say that publicly?The blacklist is not for the guy it is for the providers safety.wow

she does not accept agencies and white list as a reference.
Did you read her website and see what her screening requirements are?Perhaps she requires full real world information.

that info should not be posted publicly. lack of discretion.

All she did was tell him he's not blacklisted. How does it benefit providers to keep him in the dark in this case? The complaints make no sense?

It would definitely be enough for me

She has dyslexia, however.

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