Are there any providers out there that provide a massage parlor experience that includes table shower, sauna, great massage and oral??

Since I can't think of any individual off hand, and not sure which massage providers include oral service maybe get a room at one of those all inclusive pool suites in the burbs and invite your favorite provider for the afternoon.  
Good luck in your search unfortunately I can not accommodate 75% of your request.

and I don't have a sauna but do give a great massage on a professional table with unscented massage oil and a delicious french finish that will curl the toes.  But the table shower and sauna are not something I am able to offer, I do have a regular shower to offer though ir needed before and/or after