I'm sure I'll get another couple people to hate!

1. Was wondering if most providers give compliments to there client? Is it just to boost there ego or just wanting to have them come back for more later down the line? I've been told by most of the providers I've seen said that my daty is really good. I'm guessing they might be saying that just to make me feel better?

2. I'm still fairly new to all of this but how can someone new get screened. I really don't like the companies that do the verification just because of my employment. I have seen a few providers and I'm not sure if some of them actually message back to another provider that I'm legit. I'm currently being screen by a provider but haven't heard anything back if the two references I gave the new provider ever get a response? I'm just guessing I have to wait. If I don't hear from them it's a no go...

Thanks for anyone who reply and sorry for the hatter that don't like my questions!

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I recall a thread from awhile back which mentioned that many ladies tell clients they have large packages, whether it's true or not.  Personally, I rarely mention that when it's actually true so I was surprised to learn of such an apparently common ego-boosting practice.  

Some people are simply very nice and always try to find something to compliment about everyone.  It's not necessarily an act, or meant to boost their repeat client ratio; they just like to be NICE.  
A friend of mine is like this: she was taught to always find something sweet to say to someone, no matter what.  
She feels it helps her to have a better view of people when she can find something on which to compliment them.  It's really not a bad idea for us all.     (Not sure I could manage it, but it is a lovely concept!)

So speaking only for myself: If I like your suit, or tie, or you have on cool gym shoes, or a really awesome tattoo (whatever the case may be!) then I will likely tell you so!  It's sincere, and I'd say it even if we were in a typical civvie social setting.  

Yes, some ladies will compliment  your skills even if it's not sincere.  

Do I normally do this?  No.   If someone asks me about his performance, well....... it really depends on the situation, the vibe I'm getting from him, and so on.  There is no scripted answer in my playbook or any one way to handle that question, IMO.  
  Did you know that you can join P411 via your references, without giving up your employer info?  They have a free six-month trial for joining this way too.    
I'm not positive, but I believe Date-Check can be joined in a very similar manner as well.  
Just something for you to consider.
  You're very welcome but don't ever apologize to a mad "hatter"!  LOL!

If she compliments my HUGE package , then i know she is an escapee from some mental institution or that any second her nose will start to grow. I could believe it about my tie!

1. Definitely pay attention to your partner - but focus on enjoying yourself. It's your time to feel good. Plus, men who just enjoy vs performing always end up performing better anyway! I don't compliment unless I mean it... but find your confidence within yourself You don't want to be one of those guys who thinks the stripper *really* likes him

2. Reach out to the women you are using as references - preferably before. We always appreciate that and prioritize the request. Sometimes we all jut get busy. Its always ok to check back in. However, you really SHOULD get verified as well. There are some services that have been around for ages and are very reputable - many girls will accept them at the drop of a hat. Your information will be safer this way too. You have a right to be nervous, but always book with reputable providers - they would never risk their reputation by outing you in any way.

Rarely do I NOT get the complimental that I have a large package, but because every lady does it i tend to then ask her if she likes that and if it feels good. I know she means to compliment me, but it's less original and can cause some women some intimidation if they feel it's too large. Now I know for sure my DATY, kissing, and touching are great and would love it if a woman tells me so, but rarely get that compliment. So I tend to compliment the lady if she does something well.

I'd say the compliments are sort of ice breakers in a sense. Especially since sex is the subject. It makes me feel comfortable enough to appreciate her beauty, affection, personality, and demeanor. And hopefully she appreciates mine in return, the compliment is just us saying so this way we get to feel a degree of comfort with one another.  

 
Thanks for the replies! I did what you said I went and contacted the pervious providers that I saw to see if it was ok for me to send another provider there email address to get cleared and two replied back saying no problem at all 😬. So I'm going to send those off to the provider because I gave her two and one is traveling around so I don't know if she does much with emails. Also the one that travels some how forgot my number 😳. I guess im just forgettable 😳 lol. Thanks again! I really enjoy this forum for some reason it's fun reading and asking random questions!

That's funny I have a provider I see that's close enough that she is ok with driving to my place every once in a while and she seems to think my member is big which I know it isn't 😳. She use to be married and she has a boyfriend now but when she was married she would talk about how big I am... So I'm guessing her husband is super small. She always uses magnum size condoms on me I don't know why but I'm ok with it cause she cutie. I'm sure her nose wouldn't fit inside my house... lol

Why don't you ask the girls you've seen recently if they'll vouch for you on P411 or RS2K. It only costs a few bucks to join either one and with a couple girls vouching for you you'll be all set.

Yes I did see that from the other post and your of course. I have thought of joining but I'm hoping I find someone sooner then later for repeat appointments. I have on provider that I've seen for a while but the menu is some what limited but I do enjoy her company when we do get together. I'm hoping to find another provider with more available and repeat. I'm not the type that needs someone new all the time. I know there's a lot of clients probably goes from one provider to the next but I feel it's a better experience when you find a provider you click with makes things more relax and knows what each other likes and don't likes. I'm guessing I'm just a different kind of client I'm sure there are more people that may feel the way I do. I have seen some people leave good reviews on a provider and say they don't repeat so they keep hopping around which is totally fine with me.

Which one is better? Or does it really matter? Do most provider take either one?
I'm thinking of pulling the trigger I guess it better to give my info to one place then sending it to different providers even though I don't like send my information out into the digital world but I don't think that's even possible anymore these days.  

Thanks