A lot of my clients simply explain it this way, (after we both know we're going to boink).
"I usually like to release the initial tension by going quick. Then I can enjoy myself the second time, and take my time with you."
IF the guy didn't communicate or ask, and MSOG WAS available, he may be taking his time the first time just in case, but not really getting what he knows would be best.
Cumming fast the first time gives time to work up to the second shot. If you take your time the first time, then find out you can do it again, there may not be enough time for a second shot because your body takes longer the second time.
It's simply time and resource management.
- how much time do I have?
- What is available?
- What is the best I can get out of the time I have and what is available?
If you say, "I hope I get MSOG," yeah. Maybe not the most tactful way.
There are people who get insulted extremely easily and lettuce in your teeth will insult them. Someone who knows how to see things for what they really are, and understand the person asking the question and why they're asking.. well, you get what I'm saying.