Scores of 9 & 10 are considered great. You should take new pics as well. Outcall only also limits your client base. Your menu will also keep some gents from seeing you.

Every lady goes through a slow period. If you panic and get desperate, you'll wind up doing something you'll regret later.

I have not booked a single appointment since last Friday!!! I don't get it, I have great reviews and never experienced anything like this... Anyone know WTH is going on???

try some specials?  add a little extra time, offer a little off your regular rate, etc... you are hot, so i can tell you it's not that!

Gentlemen... have any suggestions or thoughts on why this may be?

I'm not a clock watcher at all... I always give at least a half hour extra. I've been told by many that my rates are low for who I am and what I offer. I'm far from the typical companion. What do I do, I have bills to pay.

creating a presence for yourself on this site by posting more often, and by also posting weekly ads here that link to your RS2K ad. You should also get your TER reviews linked to your TER handle, so potential clients can browse your reviews when you post here.

How do I go about doing that??? I would love to.

The only way to get a 9 or 10 is to do things uncovered and greek. That's the only reason I don't have those scores I will not risk my health for a 9 or 10.

What do you menu?

As another posted pointed out scores consistently in the 8-9 ranges (or higher) would be considered by most "great".  Perhaps you might want to peruse your reviews and look for things that a reviewer considered a "point" in his review...and see if there might be room to improve (change) upon how you are approaching this.

I have seen your ad for some time now and, truth be told, I haven't been particularly interested for various reasons (again this goes to the consistency in the reviews).  OTOH if this is the only time you have been "slow", don't compromise what you deem important as a service.  There are guys who like certain things, and others not so much.  

Hopefully this is just a "lull in the action", and things will pick up soon for you.

outcall only  is big problem.

Times get slow for everyone.  Complaining about it in the manner you have won't exactly endear you to potential clientele.   Having no presence on TER boards is better than having a negative one.

Chicago has so many providers these days, and so many of them are GFE, that it will be hard for her to compete after the initial "buzz" a new provider brings. Now that there are reviews reflecting accurate experiences of hobbyists, the die has been cast.

This link will help you get your reviews linked to your posts. Good luck

The TER review method starts with a 7.  You could earn additional points (meaning you would be eligible if the reviewer wanted to increase the score) by DFK (kissing), being Bi, BBBJ (doesn't need to be CIM).  If those were part of your repertoire, you would qualify for a 10 in performance.  That doesn't mean a reviewer would give you that, as another poster discussed many of us take into consideration the entire time we are together and how that time is perceived by the reviewer.  As far as someone giving an appearance score..that is very subjective (but again I look for consistency).

Honestly Lana, I have given a lady a 10 in performance without the items you are alluding to. But she did other play that qualified her for this 10, and the time spent with her was IMHO "once in a lifetime".  That doesn't mean the next guy would see it that way (but most do give her very consistently high scores).  And for many of us, we do read the details to really get a flavor for how the session moved (but I will discount many who just puff things up unnecessarily).  I look for consistency from a lady, that way I have a really good feel for how the afternoon will probably go.  And thus far I have had very, very few disappointments.

But she will have to take a look at how she is approaching this business and whether there is an opportunity to attract a broader range of clients.  I am sure she has her ideas on how to get this done, but then again she needed to vent on here about circumstances that only she has control over.

For one thing, why not post an ad here instead of going on and on about what you won't do?  Talk about what you do, and do well.  There is a large audience that loves to see the ladies run ad's...not so much to hear them whine!

I'm sorry if I have been mistaken for whining about my situation. That's not my intentions by any means. I'm simply open to suggestions, criticism, or maybe someone else who has experienced this kind of lull before. As in suggested, to advertise here on TER, not something I have ever considered but now am. There are many people that have been in this hobby for long time that may have some words of wisdom. I'm a strong believer in constructive criticism, and can only help my business improve. What are some things you look for in an experience? Where are the sites you visit most?

BTW, I do offer incall to RS2K members. I'm not complaining, I had found it odd because typically I at least have a high call volume... often only available by appointment. This is part time for me, will do one call a day. So, I'm not someone who see's multiple clients in a day. I'm not greedy and wanting more money, this is not a poor me fit. There is nothing wrong in asking... I guess my curiosity got the best of me Sorry gentlemen if I upset you by inquiring...

you did ask, and many, including myself made some suggestions, criticisms and observations...albeit from the clients perspective only.  If you were to peruse the boards you will find many discussions regarding the "help" guys want to offer...and the ladies who rebuke that help...as they have said many, many times we don't understand your business and have no ideas how it really works.

You did come off as "crying the blues" and from a guys perspective, that is never a good quality (remember that is why many of us are here...to get AWAY from that at home).  What you might try and consider is befriending some ladies (ones that you think wouldn't perceive you as competition) and see if you can learn how they have gotten thru these tougher times.  Additionally, there are a number of ladies that frequent these boards (and many others on the other boards) that regularly contribute.  While this may not be your "cup of tea", you might reach out to these more experienced gals and "buy them lunch" to better understand the nuances in this business.

As far as upsetting any of the "gentlement" here...you didn't!  Some offered some ideas, others (including myself) suggested that you might want to take a hard look at what you are doing.  You are the "boss" here..and as such YOU have the power to make this whatever you would like it to be.

You have a slightly different type of operation than many of the ladies here (in that if you really are just part time) as most have to consider this their only source of income.  They may see things differently than someone who is part time.  Perhaps you have met a gent or two that you are somewhat comfortable with that has a background in business.  Why not see if they could give you some insights (and again remember most will not understand the nuances...but it might be worth the time to invest).

Don't be a stranger on the boards here.  They are for all of us, and I love to see you ladies spend time bantering with us guys.  I truly do wish you the best of luck in finding your niche here...just keep kicking over stones and you will succeed

it is whining.  Remember Ms. Mocha, the reason the guys see the gals here is to avoid exactly that type of drama!!

We can all stay home and get that...No Charge!

I am sure that if ANY guy offered you some "guidance" you would, in no uncertain terms" tell him that you KNOW how to run your business.  And I am sure that if it is working for you, great.  Lana made some interesting observations (regarding herself) and opened up the venue to explain to her (from the guys perspective) that she needed to review what she is trying to accomplish.  I applaud her for asking the question, but she didn't know (or expect) the comments to be as bold as they were.

I hope that she gets some real assistance from her fellow providers...as they could help her out.  She is asking for this...have you reached out to her to offer her this help?

Thank you luv! I appreciate your understanding! Feel free to call or email me and we'll set something up

I like your photos and I do plan on contacting you in the near future.

I apologize... I thought this was a forum for all. I was unable to get into the provider only forum today. I was just kind of excited to communicate with others in this industry. I do not know any other providers, and this subject matter would never be brought up in an appointment with a client. I was looking for advice on both ends. I have learned a couple useful things today, and learned just how cut throat and competitive this industry is as well. I would like to think if I was a little more seasoned, whether provider or client, that I would be more than happy to give some good pointers and share some of my experiences...

Thank you for sharing your thoughts,
Lana

P.S. I did not once complain today. I simply stated an odd experience for me, and asked for an opinion.
I'm not a complainer, it's useless to myself and others. This is not Drama... there aren't any theatrics, exaggerations, or emotional outbursts. Quite simple, ask a question and get an answer. Sounds pretty logical to me Maybe the lull is do to many sport events this past week, or possibly sting operations, or everyone is checking out a hot new website even. Point being, if you knew me, you would know that my intentions were far from wanting anyone to be confrontational. I'm very down to earth and far from the bitchy type...

I completely overlooked this message earlier. Thank you for your suggestions today. I definitely have some homework to do. I think some of it will prove useful! I love your honesty!  That's all I was looking for... a couple thoughts and suggestions  Thanks once again!

I think when I read what been said about you, three things stand out. You have a limited menu, your pictures have been called into question, and your reviews are alright, and not stellar. You can catch newbies with that resume, but most journeyman hobbyists will take a pass.

no you are not whining and others are experiencing this as well as you are!
the thing is, its freely talked about on the providers board so sign up and join us there.
On this board when we talk about finacial problems or really any problem we are having its the same story as in life...she must be on her period and she is whining again.
although I was happy to see, some of the guys answered you openly and honestly.

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Not sure you got a lot of useful information, but hopefully it turned into a date or three.

For me, I have been interested for a while, saw your ads here and there, but the lack of incall is a showstopper. Let me know if you set up an incall sometime.

Good luck, darlin'

Zig

I have shown interest also a while back, and the lack of an incall is a stopper also for me. Let me know when you have an incall please!