I sure would not blame the lady if she refuses to see you again. I also wouldn't blame her if she black listed you. You are hurting her future business and her personal life
I consider myself an extremely affectionate person and prefer to be with a woman that is the same. Things can get heated and I can lose control. Pretty much anything I can do to experience that heightened level of affection, I am up for. I have tried just about everything there is to try. If it involves getting that intimate reaction from my mate, then I'm going for it. Personally this is cool, but there's a level of reluctance with a provider because I don't wanna lose control and leave a love bite aka a hickey cuz I know someone will ask.
In the past its been totally by accident as things happen in the heat of the moment. We didn't talk about it but she had to feel that I was going too far. I definitely was embarrassed when I saw what I had done. It wasn't huge, but it was noticeable. Anybody else experience this? Is this a total no no? Any providers accidentally get too frisky with their mate? Lets me know your thoughts about this team.
passion is always a large part of intimacy..so is having respect for your partner..you should always know when to throttle down..
and show to their wives. Plus, nothing turns me on more than seeing a provider with hickeys all over.
Come on man!
She didn't give me one. I just want to know if anyone else finds themselves losing control. I've not had a woman leave a love bite on me, but I have had a scratch or two from time to time.
Were not Teenagers anymore not good for the ladies business and I sure as Hell! would not want one on me. Time for you to grow out of that stage there are much better ways to show affection.
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Something about kissing a woman's neck while smelling her scent is exciting. This is true. But I never said where I left the mark.
It does not matter where you left the mark when she is naked and the next guy sees it and if he is turned off by it you are hurting her business and that in itself is being disrepectful to the lady.
Have the class and respect to make sure it is Ok with her first.
Dude you've got 248 reviews. You are a seasoned veteran. There is no way you've left 248 time with no battle wounds. Tell us the truth. Personally I wanna get to know you so we can hang out for you to show me a thing or two. I am sure my little love bite does not even compare to the frequent flyer miles on The ChiTownPimp.
I know I definitely do not look for hickies when I meet someone. Tell me you've never left with a scratch or a smear of makeup that you had to be careful about later. There is no way I believe you have never left with the littlest love mark when things get intense. I know for sure I read a post recently the someone pinned his provider against the wall right after he entered the session and the woman thought it was hott.
Lets hear it from the lady's perspective. If he called you again and apologized and says he lost control because he was turned on by you, would you refuse to meet him again?
I sure would not blame the lady if she refuses to see you again. I also wouldn't blame her if she black listed you. You are hurting her future business and her personal life
first lady I ever saw from this world asked me to bite her neck. Who am I to refuse?
Finally somebody gets it. Crisis if we ever meet I will buy you a drink my friend.
That's HOT!!! Love the process but don't appreciate the outcome cuz it takes forever to disappear...even putting makeup to cover it doesn't work that well..
The absolute last thing I want is to walk around with a brazen reminder that a stranger was sucking on my neck like a middle school retard.
Be gentle, for goodness sakes. If I've fucked thousands of guys without ever leaving a hickey, you can sure as shit get yourself together too.
Depending on how bad the hickey was, I may not let you book again. They HURT. You're literally sucking a bruise onto the girls neck. A little tiny one that barely needs makeup to cover it? Sure, if I need the money. Any larger than that and you go straight into the jackass folder, never to be heard from again.
Kiss the neck, AWESOME but suck it to death.... NO. It is honestly not a good feeling on the receiving end and if it were me I wouldn't have let it happen because I want to have fun not have my neck hurt with a leach on it. What heat of the moment makes you want to suck on someone neck to that point, and no there is no way in hell that some sexy neck kissing lead to that mark, you have to want to leave a mark to leave one(I bruise easy and in the teen year BFs did it to Mark their teritory and had to really try to leave one).
So, it would not happen to me. If it did I would be pissed and you would get a serious talking to. NO ONE gets to mark up my body and I am under the firm thought that you break it you buy it, meaning you mark me up you owe me for every session I have to turn down due to being damaged(that goes for alot of different damage). It does make guys think twice when they start getting so into the heat of the moment that they start hurting me. To be honest I have a couple thoughts on that 1) why does leaving a mark and potentially hurting and hurting her business seem ok to you because trust me that is not the norm 2)How would you feel if she did the same to you, it should feel no different since we are a person and not your personal sole use sex toy. If someone really tried to leave a mark on me he would be out of that "moment" so darn fast... Reign it in and learn to control yourself or you could get blacklisted(some ladies it takes very little for a BL) and then all of your personal info is on the net for leaving marks on providers bodies. Not something you want to come up in a job interview or seasonal review. You asked another if he apologized would he get another visit, it would depend on the mark, just a hicky well then we would have a talk and it would not happen again. The sucky(pun intended) part for you is I would probably not let you anywhere licking or sucking on anything for fear of hicky's and that would be part of the agreement before a return visit. But hey, that is just me.
Last note, this is supposed to be about having fun. Enjoying each others bodies and pleasure all around. It is about fulfillment of lusts and desires. What it is not about is over stepping a line which is there for a reason, and one that is as solid as the expectation of payment is that you will not damage the provider in any way including marking any part of her body without permission and agreement in place... Lets all go out and have fun pampering our provider friends now!
I was totally not her neck. I do know that the neck is an easy place to leave one but it wasn't there.
Believe it or not SOME people have different tolerance for pain. I definitely would not try to hurt anyone. To be totally honest I had seen this provider several times afterwards (before she quit the biz) and the subject never came into discussion.
I think its a total turn on when a woman knows exactly where she wants to be touched and kissed and when she is very vocal about it. So vocal that she asks you to "keep doing that" or "harder baby". I know for a fact that there us a lot of over exaggerating going on here and that the losing control feeling is fun, seductive, hott, and risqué. We have all had those moments and this is the post I was TRYING to have where everyone joins in. Unless of course we want to know where the glory holes are in Chicago. Its a true story. It only happened once. But I have been scratch several times by PROVIDERS and never had that thought of her owing me some of my donation back but thanks for letting me know that this the etiquette that should be expected.
but I guess that is just my option. I had a big long message but I can see that you keep twisting things to make your way right. Sorry I don't try to make brick walls that can't wrap their mind around another viewpoint(because of course no one else has a right to their opinion) try to see mine. If you do not want people to comment on your post about what you did write or wrong then don't post it.
I guess you were asking have you ever lost control... Many times...
There was a time a gentleman manipulated a certain area and made me squirt... Made me feel weird, didn't care for it(feels like you are peeing which though it feels great to get there the actual act of it kinda didn't do it for me). That was loose of control and made a mess.
There was another time that the gent finished just before I did but I wouldn't let him stop till I was done, thank god the condom stayed on and the juice didn't squish out the base. I wanted mine and got it.
There was another time where I was trying to get myself off and I was so into that something slipped and hit a bone, hurt like hell and had to take the next day off. The difference between this and you, I can do whatever I want to myself but no one has a right to do anything to me without my consent be it that I am paid for my time or not... Opps blood from a stone...
So yeah it happens, sure does and to everyone and anyone. These were just a few off the top of my head. The thing is that should have been what you asked as a topic and maybe replied to it with your story. I lost that because most of the post was your story and not the question so it is a wonder why everyone commented on anything else.
That means exercising enough self control so as not to leave any bruising, scratches, bite marks, hickeys (gotta say, I haven't had one of those since roughly 10th grade), etc. anywhere on my body.
And for the love of Gaga, don't bite, twist or pinch my nips. It's not sexy, it fucking hurts.