Tell me, why do you feel the need to be insulting?

This is the nature of several of your board responses.

First, you prefaced your statement that the person was a "gentleman".  Secondly, there are providers in the Chicagoland area that provide this service, so it is not out of the realm of possibilities.  It's one thing to ask the question if you provide bbfs, its another had you said he tried to remove the condom, thus wanting to "out" him.

I am a few states and several zipcodes from ignorant.

I don't think a hobbyist should be "called out" is he proposes this as a question before the date starts. However, if tries to deceive a provider by poking small pinholes in a condom for the sake of it breaking during intercourse or if he removes a condom when performing doggie-style and reinserts his penis bareback, he should be "called out." Women are at a much greater risk of viral infections than men as the "receivers of semen" into an internal cavity.

I often hobby in Tijuana and 99% of the time I partake in cfs sexual intercourse. Beause of the mix of high alcohol consumption with a lot of poverty in Tijuana, some girls will upsell you for bbfs it it adds another $100 dollars to the cost of the date. Sometimes I wonder if these young and pretty Mexican girls don't mind bbfs with American guys that look healthy and would be a good source of revenue for them if the American guy impregnates them. The American guy would pay 18 years old of child support. The young Mexican providers are never on contraception  because it's a sin in the Catholic Church. There is a healthy and beautiful Mexican woman that want me to give her bbfs since hse is not on birth control and she feels our child would be blue eyed and light skinned. She would try to hook me for child support.

My married friend, a Chicago attorney, only mongers in Mexico since getting caught by Chicago Police would ruin his legal career and end his marriage to his wife whom is a doctor that he no longer has any sexual interest in after many years of marriage.

My attroney friend was really drunk one night and he slipped his bareback cock into the young mexican provider. Fortunately, he recovered his senses and pulled out of her vagina ejaculating on her stomach. This saved him major problems if he were to have impregnated her!

My post isnt directed towards outing the guy.but to,bring awareness in regards to the issue.
the ? Is as such is it right to out one for asking?
however what about the ladies that offer bbfs?
i know in fact that its a sensitive issue,and appreciate the input.