so I scheduled an out call last Friday with a provider.  I respected her wishes on her website about going through the verification process and out call scheduling a few days in advance (which she thanked me).  

The day before she emailed me and asked me if she arrive 30 minutes later than our original time and I had no problem with that.  The night before, I called to confirm the day and time,  she asked to call a few hours before to provide the address - which I did.  I left her my information and then went to work out.

After coming home from working out, getting ready, making sure my place looks clean, and ensuring her favorite drink is chilled.  I waited..and waited...and waited - no show, no call.  I followed up with a phone call to see where she was at - no answer.   After an hour of our scheduled time - I was a little worried something might've happened to her.  

I sent her an email asked her if she could let me know if she is ok and safe - but no reply.  

I thought I remember reading a thread on this in the past, but couldnt find it.  

Anyone care to share how to best handle this situation?  

My first couple times with other providers were not very positive and was hoping this would change.

Abigail Durant

Obviously she's a flake and not worth the drama.  Chalk it up to experience and schedule with some of Chicago's better ladies.  Not even sure why you picked her... her reviews are pretty mediocre.

you obviously should do a better job of researching your choices..picking them out of a cheap hat is not working..

we would never do that to you and I never say "never"!

Her average performance score is an 8.2.  She has 3 performance scores of 9.  I would hardly call that mediocre.  I won't comment on appearance since that IMO is too subjective.  And no, I haven't seen her.

Sorry to hear that happened to you luvie.
No one likes to have their time wasted.
Dont let that keep you away from other ladies.
Me personally would never leave you in that situation.
Next time feel free to get in touch with me.

Unfortunately it is a sign of the times especially if a girl is a flavor of the month, I have no idea about the lady you refer to though.  I can say that I am very disappointed in the way respect has dwindled for guests as well as providers, NCNS becoming more and more common place without regard to the others time and effort.  It just makes me sad.

Ladies, Gents....  Please show consideration towards one another, you are looking to share some of the most intimate acts that a person can share with another so in order to make that as mush as you both would like please extend courtesy and respect.  If you are going to be late call and ask if that is ok, don't just assume it is.  If you can't make it be it a death in the family/car accident/child hurt please call the other to let them know BEFORE the appt time that you can't make it, it only takes 15 seconds and no one is going to die in the span of 15 seconds it takes to call.  It is called common human decency and to not do these things only shows you to be cold and callous, not caring about the others time or efforts and showing in fact a huge disrespect for the other.  Is that someone you really want to lay down with?  Someone without any thought of you?  It certainly is a good way to weed out the ones that don't deserve your time, but what a shitty way to have to go about it.

I am truely sorry you had to go through this ChiChief.  My best thought is to read through ladies posts here.  You can tell who has a sense of entitlement, who is more well put together, who will not leave you in a lurch, who is flaky, or who in general will provide you with an experience rather then just an appt.  I hope your experiences from here on out are wonderful, Sage

She should have had enough respect for your time to at least call & say she wasnt going to show up smdh

and move on cry baby: like you are the first hobbyist to be fucked over by a provider?? Here is what you do: post here on the board or the reviewers only board, let us know who is the flaky whore that bailed on you, and move on.. the whining by guys on this Board is getting pathetic..

....had similar no contact back on a couple popular providers after setting dates. Guess it's time to return to agencies or a new toy! LMAO

You sound like a class act gentleman . You work out tidy up prepare a beverage you show concern
you worried about her and most of all you have  such a positive attitude not having positive past
sessions.

Stick with well reviewed ladies keep trying you won't be disappointed . I'm sorry for your let down
there are so many wonderful providers who would race to meet you especially knowing that you
"work out"  ::::wink  combined with all of your other wonderful attributes.


Angela

Thanks for having the balls to out her. You're not alone, this is happening to many of us with other well-reviewed providers. They seem to think their time is more important than ours but at the end of the day, we take our unused donation home and put it to better use.

Don't bother following up with her, find someone else who is more respectful of your time and will appreciate your donation.

We exchanged emails, she said she was available that evening, she verified me and said we were on and was going to send me the address and time.  Never heard back even after I sent her several emails.  I guess something else came up but I would have appreciated an email saying she couldn't make it after all rather than being left hanging.

The same thing just happened to me today. I assumed this would not be an issue, based on her website/blog/reviews and good email communication leading up to this (I just discovered this thread).

Confirmed last night for a morning incall appointment... Drove 40 minutes to her area... I got to her neighborhood and she did not pick up the phone. No email response either. Wasted day...