Was browsing Tryst the other day and came across Lilli. The ad intrigued me as her attitude comes across as one that would vibe well with me. Reached out and asked for a pic (non-nude) to confirm that it wasn't a catfish. Offered to do the same for her, or for her to suggest a form of screening of me. Her response was "I don't play games with my clients. You can trust me." That came across as a big red flag for me and I told her I wouldn't waste any more of her time.

If a provider is well established (e.g., has reviews, or an active social media presence), I don't ask for that kind of screening. Unfortunately, this provider didn't have any of that, so I asked for some screening so I could be safe because I've been catfished and robbed before myself!

My question for providers: I understand that it can sometimes be hard for a new provider to get established, but when you're not, how do you reassure potential clients that you're the real deal? Simply telling someone "you can trust me," doesn't quite cut it.