Just wondering, What provider would you choose for an evening if there was absolutely no physical activity or sex of any kind?  In other words, who is the most charming or fun?

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Why?

Giselle Parker is the most personable escort I have met.  Veronica Chase also provides good company. But either of these ladies gets you mighty horny so I don't know about "no sex".

I enjoy the company of women and the reviews tend to focus on appearance and peformance and there is much less discussion of personality.  I enjoy myself more when there is some laughter and a bit of charm.  I also prefer more mature women but that is very easy to determine by searching the age.  If anyone chooses to reply, I would appreciate it, if not, nothing lost.

...does make for a better date, IMHO. But, I don't think you can necessarily determine the maturity factor based just on the age. There are a lot of older Providers who need to grow up mentally, and there are a lot of younger Providers who are wise beyond their years. This is assuming that you're speaking of maturity in terms of personality since that's what this thread is focused on.

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Just curious why you would be doing that on this venue.

If you're not into the sex aspect of this game, there are so many other ways to find gals to simply go out and have personal time with.

Unless you're actually planning on dropping some serious coin for some gal(s) to accompany you to dinner, shows and the like.  Or is your next question going to be "how about some gals who will discount the session since I don't want sex"  LOL

If you need some names of dating sites...just google them.  There's plenty out there.

No.  I would go the normal route, just trying to get info on the personality that isn't always obvious.  I have met providers that I just didn't like but they were good at what they do.  I assume its the same for the ladies, there are probably guys they look forward to seeing more than others.  I could have asked "Who are the least likable?" but I don't like the negative aspect.  I genuinely enjoy the company of women and enjoy myself more when there is a "connection.  A lot of guys prefer the raw aspects, thats not me.

That's almost impossible to answer without knowing you and your personality.  I have the same preference for connection that you do.  My method for gauging personality is not rocket science, but here it is
1). Someone who has been a provider for at least one year and who says she is 25.or older
2) read the website.  Carefully. Everything, including the choice of pictures, is a clue. A local example would be Eve Alexander's.  I like Eve a lot and so do others, partly for the reasons you describe.  You might  not, but her website will definitely give you a "flavor".  Generally, it will tell you something about both the lady and about the image she is trying to project.
3) read the reviews carefully.  Get VIP access.  Men who came in from out of town and scheduled in advance are a good sign. Obviously, so are reviewers who mention multiple appointments..  
4) check the history of the reviewers.  What were they looking for.?
5) I have not done this, but you could pm the reviewers
6) look for someone whose pricing structure encourages longer dates and/or repeat customers
7) check the local and gd boards for any posts by her.  Even great ladies may not post, but if they do, it will tell you something.
8) I've had better luck withindys as opposed to agencies in this context, but I relatively inexperienced in hobby, so don't want to mislead you.

This took longer for me to write (maybe) than it will take you to do.

"Just wondering, What provider would you choose for an evening if there was absolutely no physical activity or sex of any kind?  In other words, who is the most charming or fun?"

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Your OP asked a specific question...and that was to not have sex.

Now you're alluding to that is not the question.

FWIW most of the gals that I have seen are a blast to be around.  But then again, I tend to do my homework and ask fellas what their take is on a lady.  And I also tend to do longer appointments, so having a gal who is indeed fun is important to me.

But truth be told, from your OP...I wouldn't pay any gal to just have dinner with me, or a show, or a walk in the park.  This is NOT the place for that type of companionship.  But perhaps you see it differently.

The post was titled "No Sex"to hopefully elicit responses.   The nature of the request was an attempt to segregate the different aspects of the experience so that direct carnal pleasure did not overwhelm the cerebral pleasure.  The Ancient Greeks would say that I wanted to separate the "eros" from the "filia."
In the end, I have one response I liked and V. Chase is likely to a get a new client.

Thank You.  Your post is helpful.

Be sure to come back and let us all know if it went as you planned.

FWIW the advice that was thrown out here is solid.  But if your interest was simply whoever PM's me first is  the gal...then you accomplished your goal.

Different strokes for different folks.

An evening of fun with a charming woman but no sex? Easy...my wife.

My Buddies.

If you see a lady for multiple hours, only a very few expect to spend all the time in bed working up a sweat.

I have shared numerous dinners with my ATF, and thoroughly enjoyed her company.

J.C. because she has a great sense of humor, she makes me smile, and she loves the Packers...

If it's dinner I want to complete my night,
The first girl I think of is Olivia Light!

She makes me laugh so hard that she makes me cry.
And my cock so hard when she wears heels with black thigh-highs.

When you're dining with her, you'll know if you click,
When she whispers, "time for desert: I want to suck your dick"

What I'm trying to say is that she's sexy and fun,
And if I'm seeking a dinner date session,  she's the one.

I know of several people who hire escorts as strictly dinner date companions.  A guy who ran an agency told me it was not as uncommon as you might think.  Sometimes it is widowers that want to go out for a nice meal, but hate dining alone and think that participating in physical activity will dishonor the memory of their wife.  Sometimes it is just guys that for whatever reason are unable to function in a dating environment, but still want some companionship.

There is nothing worse than an extended date with a gal who simply does not click wiith you, so I think your query is exactly on point.  That said, I think you can get the information you need by thoroughly reading reviews and conversing with the lady in question via email.  There is one provider in Las Vegas I find to be particularly charming.  It is readily apparent from her emails that she will be verbally engaging during whatever time you'd spend with her.

Without variety it would not be a horse race.

but, unfortunately, it is difficult to find some one unless you just keep trying and hope that some day you would meet some one that you can share laughter with , besides sex. For most of the providers,
it's just a business transection.

Probably not what you're asking, but for me personally I love the foreplay leading to sex over the actually sex itself. I haven't found many that like to make out and explore each other as of yet. Some of the hottest sex I've had always had really good foreplay.