A semi retired provider is in town right now who I have seen several times. The last time she was here her handler gave me a lame excuse as to why she couldn't see me.This time when she came ,I never got a response for an appointment. What gives?

If you got upset about it, your response could be why you got blacklisted. Remember they are in control so be respectful regardless of how you feel.

I wrote what I am writing now. I Slsaid that I have always been a perfect gentleman, which is true. It's true that they have complete control as to who they want to meet.

You could try asking if you are in fact blacklisted, and see what they say. You can try apologizing for anything that might have offended them and see how far that gets you.

I appreciate your advice. I think I'm done with the provider. The problem is that her handler is kinda famous. I just wanted to make sure the hander put the word out on me to others in the business.

Blacklist is something we use in serious need. She didn't blacklist you which means she would have put you on blast and told other providers to not see you. Sounds like she just doesn't want to see you. That could be you weren't fun, didn't tip or have a good time with you. It happens. I don't see people again if we didn't hit it off the first time. Don't take it personal, it's exactly the same thing when you choose another provider over someone else.

What are the websites or Apps that providers use to Blacklist or leave negative reviews on the guys?

Thanks 😉

I doubt this is your situation but I seen providers a few times when they mentioned that I came up as LE on an app called "Mr. Number".  I can't imagine what would make anyone suggest I am LE.  Once someone said it was because I was well dressed?  I think that's why I sometimes have my calls and/or texts ignored so I move on.  

You likely had an uncomfortable encounter that she chose not to share with you. It’s her choice to see whom she desires to see. That’s life. That’s this hobby’s game.