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Jack Bauer 379 Reviews 1411 reads
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Even if you see a provider in public, let her be. She could be with friends or family and deserves privacy! Would you like it if a provider came to your dinner table and say you still owed her for a previous session, while your SO and family were there?

mislaid 24 Reviews 1017 reads
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2 / 6

Hey CTP!

I had something nearly equally embarassing happen to me so I truly understand where you are 100% correct.

I took a fave provider out to dinner to a fine eatery and the waiter who had a British type of accent could not keep his eyes off her. She is a real looker...

About two weeks later I take my SO and other relations out to a totally different place, different area, different style but also upscale. We are seated and being served. Suddenly, the waiter from the other place swoops over and in a loud clear voice says to me. "I recognize you from the other place. I quit there a few days ago and am now working here. I just had to tell you that WOW! Your girlfriend for dinner that night was beautiful as is your companion tonight". After composing mysealf, I told him "sorry but I don't know what place that is. Never been there." My SO was on to me for weeks after that. I was totally UTR for a long while until things blew over.

One must indeed be very very careful out there!!!!

Guys, lets be careful out there!

Chicago is a very lucky city! :)

ziggy440 84 Reviews 2337 reads
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3 / 6

Seems to be my day to start threads.

I was eating at a Korean food stand at a local Asian grocery store, and there was this older woman with two very pretty, tall, young ladies, looked to be in their 20s, nicely made up, sexy, little better dressed than they needed to be at a food court attached to a grocery store. I chose the table next to them, but the only one open was facing Mom, not the girls.

Having spent some time here, I knew that there are some AMPs and other Asian incalls not too far away (pretty much true everywhere in Chicago, I guess), so this could be a Mom feeding her daughters, or a den mother taking a couple of the ladies out for a bite of home flavor. The one young lady in a mini skirt kept having to get up and do this and that, looking very sharp, Mom and I crossed eyes a couple of times and I am beginning to think these ladies must be providers and I want a piece of that.

But I was sort of stuck on how to break the ice - maybe tell Mom, "Your daughters are very lovely (wink)" and see what happens next? "How is your bi bim BOP, may I help with that?" Everything I thought of seemed either totally creepy, or pitifully lame, so I sat there quietly enjoying my food and the view until they got up to go. Seen together, all three quite tall and roughly the same height, body types and facial structure very similar, and the girls were not as close in age as I thought - clearly a Mom with her daughters, case closed, dirty old man leering was all I was gonna get with them.

Two lessons - context is everything and I seem to have crossed some line, suspecting providers in the most normal situations (not a completely bad thing, kept me entertained at lunch);
And, let's say, hypothetically, that I had decided they really were providers - is there any way I can approach them? "I was wondering if you know where I could get a good massage?"

You know, just in case the opportunity presents itself. Anyone tried this and had a particularly good, or bad, experience? Any thoughts on whether it is more likely to go well with Asian or non-Asian providers, since I know the Asian community is its own little world, maybe even multiple worlds given the different nationalities.

Zig

travel4nutin 790 reads
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4 / 6

Something like that really can only be done in Vegas.  As a matter of fact the opposite is usually the case there.  However, it is just as dangerous.

JcsPlayGround See my TER Reviews 1102 reads
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5 / 6

I was out in the grocery store when I thought I knew a guest.  I said something to him first but I notice that he was by himself.    I didn't want to cause anything with an SO.  
That wasn't a problem for me at all but for some it might be.

If you have no apparent relation with these people DO NOT approach them ..
Just like ChiTownPimp said that is playing with Fire...

Have a nice evening
JC

ziggy440 84 Reviews 591 reads
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6 / 6

Okay, I will calm down, now, thanks.

The best thing we hobbyists can do for each other is to say "calm down" when someone starts to get silly. I think we all need that reality check from time to time - and I am sure that I have been on both ends of that transaction.

Too bad you did not come to the M&G, CTP, sort of hoped to meet you. Your name came up once or twice, but only in quietly reverential tones of course. Maybe next time.

Zig

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