I got drunk in a bar and decided to screw the guy who bought me drinks all night. I was drunk, got this tattoo one inch above my ass, and skipped the condom...got knocked up...and that's how I met your father.  I had you, but that rotten prick hasn't  seen you in a year, and he hasn't paid suppport ever.

I like your friend's story better (but mine is the reality for many more people)

 
 


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Easy peasy! lol jk.

It's easy for people to think that having a child out of wedlock, or even through a prostitute makes the child less special. It doesn't. A human being is a human being, and a mother's love is a mother's love. Circumstance should never change a person's love, or a person's worth.

And for the religious folk, there's a certain someone who's lineage has a couple of prostitutes in it!

People meet people and fall in love. It's sweet. Be happy for them. Mommy can tell baby some day that she met daddy at work.

as long as they love each other and are happy together.  The kids of this couple will certainly be much happier than the kids of a couple who met for the first time at a church or professional conference and now they hate each other and regret that they ever met!  I know two providers who married their clients. An older one who was divorced and already had a child and a younger one who just had her first baby few months ago.

I wish them luck!!!  It doesn't matter where you find your life partner, ending up happy together is such a blessing.  Not all couples met in traditional or socially acceptable ways.  So what?  When it comes to kids, you keep it kid friendly just like you do with every other subject that comes up.  What they tell their kids isn't our business.

That being said, I don't judge it, to each their own.  I personally never cross that line, it's a me thing.  That doesn't mean others can't do it and make it work.
 

Some are EXTREMELY happy.. others, not so much.

I was already married when I got in the biz.  We have four kids. And except for the story where I threw the pregnancy test at my husband's head, I dont go into too many details about their creation.

I hope they are insane for one another, as...

“Sanity and happiness are an impossible combination.”
― Mark Twain

I wish them great happiness. Certainly, stranger situations exist and caution in love is fatal to true happiness

If you think about it, it's no weirder than people meeting their significant other at work (which happens all the time). That's basically what she did. Love doesn't exist in a vacuum and there's no universal right or wrong, everyone just does whatever is right for them based on the potential risks and the benefit to their life and happiness. That's how it should be. Relationships are enough work without overthinking something like whether or not you were escorting when you met.

As for the children, tell them whatever level of detail you're comfortable with. There are all kinds of personal details people don't necessarily share with their children.  

Good luck to them!