Even if he's been a she for a hundred years, the fact remains that she used to be a he and guys need to to know this. I, for one, would get the heebie geebies knowing I had unknowinlgy fornicated with a TS. But there are also guys out there that seek out TS's, so truth in advertising will benefit everyone.
It's just wrong, wrong, wrong to hide this fact.
There is a "Super Busty" ad on Chicago Eros for a "gal" that is a known post op transsexual. This "gal" posts on this board from time to time. I've "reported a problem " on TER that the reviews do NOT list her as a TS. This is plain WRONG!! "She" should be listed as a TS in her reviews!!! I "reported a problem" to TER and it came back "unapproved". What gives here?? Don't we have a RIGHT to know that what we are fucking was a man not that long ago!!!! Most hobbyists do not want to fuck former men. This wrong needs to be RIGHTED!!!! I will gladly provide TER the providers name upon request.
I have information to share
You can pm me here.
I assume you are talking about Andrea. And I am asssuming you were talking about Andrea, because I know for a fact she is a post-op TS. Now I know some people may believe I am wrong in posting her name, but it's my post and it's my right. I have often publicy informed others that she is a post-op TS. Some of the feedback I have gotten is, in a nut shell, "what does that matter?". Well, your post is a perfect example as to why it matters. Many men have no desire to be sexually active with another man, and when they find out after the fact, it can be very psychologically damaging.
I was one who was interested in Andrea until (luckily for me) some others informed me she used to be an "Andy". I definitely saved myself a lot of anguish due to that information. I have had a number of individuals backchannel me and inform me that they did not know she was a post op when they saw her and were having a difficult time accepting the fact they had sex with a man.
If you are not talking about Andrea, please mention who it is you are talking about so that we all know of the additional provider who is being deceitful by omitting vital personal facts about what she or he really is.
I appologize if this post sounds demeaning or cold, but I have no empathy towards someone like Andrea who takes no shame in deliberately hiding information that she knows would cause potential clients to look elsewhere. This isn't the same as fudging about weight or not mentioning your age... this goes way beyond business... this is just a flagrant disregard of others for the purposes of her monetary gain. I am sure she knows that advertised TS providers don't generate the same business volume as "real" female providers and that's why she/he doesn't mention it in her ads.
I also was interested in seeing Andrea at one time, until Mr. Jenkins posted about her TS status. Thank you Thomas Jenkins for sharing that information with this board. You're also right about this not being the same as weight or age. Having sex with a transgender is much more than a personal preference and clients have a right to know about this information.
Some poor unsuspecting gents make note of her deep voice, man like facial features, etc.. but they obviously had no clue she was a dude.
It's a shame that many guys don't search the discussion threads when doing their homework since her TS status has been discussed before. Many guys go strictly by reviews which is why TER really needs to update her profile to indicate TS status. It's just not right that so many guys get duped like this.
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wow! Unreal Thank god i never seen her i was going to after reading her reviews or excuse me his reviews Eros's and TER needs to update Andrea's information That is very very wrong you know how many guys probably seen her not knowing gross
Yes, I'm talking about Andrea who used to be Andre. I have reported a problem report to TER and they categorically rejected it as "unapproved"!!! Something' VERY WRONG with this picture!!!!! A guy has an absolute RIGHT to know if the area that he is performing DATY on once housed a COCK!!! TER needs to adress this ASAP!!! I'll bet only 2% of guys would see "her" if they new she had balls at one time!!!! It would help if some of you other guys would send TER a problem report about Andrea being a TS!!!!
I remember her ads in the Reader from YEARS ago. If she's been a woman for more than 10 years, which I suspect, "she" is indeed a "she" by now. She probably has changed everything over legally. TER is actually based in LA where they're a bit more open-minded than the Midwest. Maybe that's why they refuse to change it, they probably heard this before and know she's been transgender for a LONG time.
When a person has a sex change, when are they completely and officially "changed over"?
Apparently a transgender can get a new birth certificate with changed sex and name in Illinois. The gender reassignment surgeon has to fill out part of the form along with the transgender. I couldn't find how long it takes to get the birth certificate back, but after it's been issued, I would think that the transgender's sex is legally changed.
Even if he's been a she for a hundred years, the fact remains that she used to be a he and guys need to to know this. I, for one, would get the heebie geebies knowing I had unknowinlgy fornicated with a TS. But there are also guys out there that seek out TS's, so truth in advertising will benefit everyone.
It's just wrong, wrong, wrong to hide this fact.
Whether Andrea was an Andre 2 years ago or 12 years ago is IMMATERIAL!!!! This "woman" was born a man, had a cock and a set of balls, sucked other guys dicks as a man,took it up the ass as a man, and is trying to HIDE this FACT. TER is ENABLING this charade. The TRUTH MUST be told TER. This means TER needs to list her as a TS. I'll bet some of the poor guys who wrote reviews about about DATYing Andrea or DFKing "her" are now about to jump off the the Sears tower!!!!! Complain to TER now about this!!!! How many others are there out there???
I don't care how many surgeries, name changes or whatever... you are what God originally made you. I appologize, but I'm not as open minded as those in San Fransico.
Whatever Andrea was, or has chosen to be now, there are categories on eros for post-op TS and his/her refusal to advertise in that category or at least make it known that he has been surgically altered is just plain unethical.
... THAT YOU had sex with Andrea. They have removed her pictures and reviews.
They do NOT feel emotionally what they were "born". They strongly believe nature got it wrong. Some were born hermaphrodites and the parents chose the wrong sex. Many of these people live as the other sex even before the operation. Maybe Andrea won't list as a man because she never felt like one! Why don't you ask her? Who are we to judge what these people feel, and who they feel they truly are? Being that you mentioned God(LOL!), let's let Him do the judging.
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Again, what "she" feels like, (a man or woman) is irrelevent!!!!!
The guy who's spending his hard earned cash has EVERY RIGHT to KNOW that he's getting an Andrea, NOT an Andrew!!!! TER NEEDS TO LIST POST OP TRANSSEXUALS as POST OP TRANSSEXUALS!!!! NO BULLSHIT!!!! Andrea was a homosexual prior to the change!!!! Besides the fact that gay men have higher HIV rates, straight guys unequivocally don't want to bang former gays or any other men!!!! Wake up and smell the coffee!!!!
Is this the correct profile?
http://theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=8992
Yay, now poor unsuspecting souls won't be deceived!!!!!