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anarenee See my TER Reviews 131 reads
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Would also like to note that if you experience a session with a provider that seems inconsistent to what their reviews describe, please doubly check your behavior and hygiene. See things from our point of view. We are people first and dealing with overwhelming personalities and poor hygiene isn't going to make for a fun session for either of us.

Recently got a poor review from a client and I'm more than happy to divulge what really happened. The client in question has contacted me numerous times over the last six months or so for an appointment. He has given me false names, fake info, and has been easily the most difficult client I've dealt with to-date. I told him several times to not contact me further and I had his number blocked. He then reached out through my form and after some back and forth I agreed to see him. He flaked on a confirmed appointment in February and ignored requests for a cancellation fee, he recently reached out and once I was able to pry the fee from him I agreed to meet. Yes, I ignored clear boundary-pushing behavior but I am a firm believer that communication gets blurred via text/email so I gave him the benefit of the doubt as he had a clean blacklist.

He requested a domination session with greek on both of us which I agreed to. He then proceeded to contact me so much that I told him that the only way I would see him is if another provider sat in another room during our session as I was getting uncomfortable. I told him he could cancel the date if the didn't work for him, he agreed that the other provider could stay in the apartment.  

Once the session began it was clear that this gentleman hadn't prepared himself for greek on him and he oozed shit all over my toys, bedding, and towels. He also had a spray tan which rubbed off on my all-white bedding. Aside from this, he also had open sores on his groin. Let me say that again- OPEN SORES ON HIS GROIN which appeared to be a yeast infection. So excuse me for not wanting to get too close. Yes I did not fulfill greek on me, but I supplied greek on him until he leaked everywhere. At this point I was just trying to remain calm and finish the session. Would you want to fuck someone with questionable sores who had just gotten shit on your hands and bed? I'm guessing that answer is no. Since our encounter I have gotten myself tested and am clean and healthy. I can openly say that this was the worst client and appointment I've ever had.  

Despite this, I remained professional and polite during entire encounter and he even followed up to tell me he had a fun time. This review was written in spite and any clients who have seen me can confirm that I am nothing but professional and my photos are very recent and accurate (Plain, really? You can see my pics- if you're not attracted to me don't see me, simple). I have a feeling this client chose to see me only to write a cruel review to spite me since we had such a difficult time planning the date. Feel free to read the review on my page and read all of the other glowing reviews while you're there :) Also thank you to all of the respectful, CLEAN clients I have the pleasure of spending time with. Stay safe!

-- Modified on 3/23/2018 12:43:32 PM

Would also like to note that if you experience a session with a provider that seems inconsistent to what their reviews describe, please doubly check your behavior and hygiene. See things from our point of view. We are people first and dealing with overwhelming personalities and poor hygiene isn't going to make for a fun session for either of us.

I cannot agree with this Any more!!!! Seriously if she seems a little distant or not what you were expecting its 100% you ! Hygiene is key!!!  I will always put my all into our time together but if your hygiene/ attitude is wrong it throws me off my game.

GaGambler184 reads

I just couldn't help LMAO when reading your post

 
I have no idea which one of you, or even if "either" of you are telling the truth, and quite frankly I don't care. This shit (pun intended) was funny as hell.

 
As for any effects from this review, i doubt anyone is going to refuse to see you based on his review, even though both of you are credible. You have plenty of good reviews, he has written all positive reviews except for the one about you. I say most guys are going to just call this what it is, an "outlier" and won't pay it much mind.  Your post was still funny as hell to read though.

He has a habit of leaving providers with low reviews to begin with; I don't understand why you'd book with someone you found to be "plain".  

Knowing what I know about his screening and personal life he is far from credible. I also think it's hilarious that he didn't mention the litany of fetishes and butt play he wanted but had no issue shit-talking me (pun definitely intended).  

Quite frankly it didn't budge my score too much but I figured I'd at least give my side. Not looking to be a shit stirer, I promise!

Can’t wait to see you soon!

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well, he doesn't have any black lists and he did pay the cancellation fee, so I can take the chance especially if you already have the space for the time.  

TBH, this shit(literally it would seem) happens.  Maybe not frequently but it does happen, and bad hygiene is the WORST!!  Would rather deal with someone pushy then someone who hasn't washed well.

Agree w Sage- I've had clients where the communication has been pretty shitty or they've cancelled in the past and in person they're great. You're not going to feel a connection with everyone prior to the booking.

Mommascomin175 reads

you felt so uncomfortable and unsafe with this man that you felt it was necessary to have another provider present (meaning you're taking both your and her time) to even see him. Where do you draw the line on red flags?

Where do you draw the line on minding your own business. I explained my side of things. As I said, I had already confirmed and gave him the option to cancel. I also paid her for her time out of my donation and she was staying at my incall if you must know.

Your post is really funny but awfully gross. I do wonder why you would agree to meet him if you felt so uncomfortable that you needed another provider with you during the appointment. The important thing is your safe.

Because he didn't seem unsafe, just annoying. This is also my job and given I had already confirmed the appointment and he sent a deposit, cancelling seemed unprofessional.

I can’t stand reviews sometimes although they promote business I can tell you 88% are completely inaccurate even my 10/10 reviews are way off.  

Keep your head up
Who cares what anyone else thinks  

Happy sexing lol
Kyla

Sometimes you just have to end communication with a period, rather than pause it with a colon.

And know when to evacuate the situation.

Of course, it's true that you don't always have the straight poop beforehand.

yup my worst review was a guy who had a disgusting skin rash. I also had bitten my lip and was extremely concerned for everyone's health so I insisted on a cover bj. This was just too much for him. His review basically said I had a cold sore, which I have never had one in my life. It's unfair. I am being concerned for everyone and I get a nasty review.

I experienced an uptick in new bookings.

And it DID lower my score a lot.  

So it stands to reason that you will be more than fine. :) Any man worth his salt sees a fake review for what it is: a one off .. an outlier.  

Every other bit of your online footprint will override this. :)

Sorry this happened Ana. Open Sores.......REALLY. Yeah I would have been more than shy away from that so I commend you for maintaining professionalism. I know a compliment may be taken as being "out of place" given the circumstances, but I'm giving one anyway. Beautiful girl. Looks good, smells good, and tastes good.

Again sorry this happened, but happy to hear that you walked away untainted. Keep doing what you're doing Babe.

You sound like a very intelligent, interesting, and articulate woman.  It is unfortunately the clients that are the most difficult time wasters that you have the least pleasurable sessions with, and often the least amount of money that you get in return.  
 I am sure you know this now.... but go with your gut.  When I started out I did at times do sessions because, well, I needed the cash.  Thankfully now I am in a place that I can without hesitation decline offers from gents that just seem a bit.... off.  
Best of luck to you in the future!!!!!  

Xoxo
Scarlet

WICardinalfan201 reads

When I had the measles at 7 years of age, I had to be given enemas  to hydrate (I was terrified of needles back then).  It felt awful. I also had to use suppositories to settle my stomach down as I was puking so much.  I hated anything in my ass then and I hate it now.

I am not judging others, it just is not my thing.  I do not expect it from a provider and no way want any anal play on me.  I have had a couple of providers offer to put on the plastic glove and give me a prostrate massage.  How can fecal matter on rubber glove be sexy?  Pulling that glove out of my ass with crap on it, yuk.

I guess I am a hypocrite.  I adore any provider to takes my cum in mouth, and particularly plays with it after I shot the load.  To most that is gross as well.  To each their own.

In your case, sounds like an awful experience.  Sorry it happened to you.  

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