So, I wanted to hear from both providers and hobbyists....
Do you find it more appealing/do you get more response with or without a provider having a website? A friend of mine told me that when he has done some browsing he has had more attraction to girls without a website because it seems more personal and less like a "business". What is your experience with this?that I needed one so a client made my initial website.
I would've been fine without one BUT now that I have one, I won't go back to being without one.
I love my site, its fun and flirty. Most times, I enjoy updating it. Helps keep me connected to my
business thus my clients.
Can't wait to hear the responses one way or the other..
Happy almost Memorial Day week-end friends!
Carly ![]()
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Hi all I'm kaylie well reviewed Visting Chicago until July
I agree with you Carly , I love updating my site and adding pictures
plus important information on my location I post on my blog. It also helps if I receive booking request through it
that way the gentleman know what I enjoy and ask for my donation as well as simplifying the verification process making
it faster an easier to meet. I'm independent and I feel my website makes the experience personal because I have describe my personality and likes.
Kayli
In my case, my website is really helpful; it explains clearly and accurately what my clients can expect from me and my services. Because it's attached to my blog, clients also have the opportunity to feel a bit more connected to me through that. Clients often remark how well my website reflects me, and how easy to navigate/read/etc it is. A lot of clients feel more comfortable with me after going through my site.
I find that clients think i'm more legit with a website, and I honestly can't blame them. While I did okay prior to having a website, my website acts like an anchor for my online presence. It gives people a place to go and find out more.
And really, this is a business; a website should be a reflection of you, and therefore it should be super personal (that being said, I don't think your website does the best job of reflecting your personality; perhaps if you re-vamped your site to more reflect you?). You're a whole-package kinda gal; you're hot, you're sexy. But you're also a really bright, vivacious personality; you're raw, intelligent, and real. I think that's a big part of your draw.
I don't think you should get rid of it.
^This.
I don't even bother to look at or even do any research about a provider who doesn't have a website. I'm not expecting a full-fledged professionally designed webpage but at least some basic logistical info and some visuals.
I'd love to hear your recommendations. Back when I did primarily fetish work it was VITAL for me to have a website.
However, now since I have a good mix of vanilla and kinky clients I get worried about scaring off one side or the other. I fear that my vanilla clients will think that I am going to push fetish and that my fetish clients will think that I'm not really into it, but just trying to cast a wide net.
Also, I nub you!
Schpanks! I nub you too.
We can definitely talk about it; I have ideas for you! x
FWIW, I think it's fine. However, the fetish and vanilla hobbyist do have different interests and it's probably worth clearly delineating them on a site (much like Erin has done.)
I'm mostly vanilla (or at least not that experienced) so the "here's all the fetish stuff I'm into" is a bit intimidating (or at least confusing: "Bastinado? WTF is that?!?") to a plain old hobby dater. But Erin has told me that it's pretty standard and necessary for the serious fetish client you are also marketing to.
I thought a "Naughty or Nice" landing page would be the best way to do this. That way your fetish clients will be routed to the "here are all the specific details, you freak" webpage and the vanilla clients will be routed to the "Imma gonna fuck you silly" webpage.
I don't think you're going to scare off the fetish clients (especially if you go into detail about what you do.) But I do think you could scare off the scaredy-cat vanilla guys if you get too technical on the front page. OTOH, your current site is very "vanilla-friendly," so if you're getting enough fetish clients, you're probably doing it right.
Anyhow, that's my 2 cents. Hope to see meet you one day. The only thing which is preventing me is I'm having too much fun with my ATF.
I really like that idea as well. Thanks for the tips!
No website, no appt. BP is not an option for me. I want to see photos (yours are great BTW and you're pretty as hell), rates, and rules (in that order).
Plus it allows you to showcase all your photos and provide written content so gentlemen can get a "vibe" about your personality. Yes, some websites are cold, impersonal, business like or very plain. Making it customized and user friendly is the key to attract the right inquiries.
...... can't really remember what it's like to not have one.
I feel if someone has a website (that they tend too every now and then) that they seem a little more solid/active and somehow not hard to find. *shrugs*
Early on in the hobby, I, too, felt the website impacted my fantasy that I was somehow the "only one." Obviously, you spend enough time in the hobby, and you just mature to a different self agreeance.
On the flip side I can promise you this. The ladies who do spend time on a website - especially those not working with the run of the mill sites - are nearly 100% reliable and better providers. I have found that new providers (those without websites) are not the best GFE, because they are nervous and inexperienced. You spend way too much time and money on those types with few being GFE. It's not even that they don't want to be GFE. They just haven't reconciled how yet in their craft. That's why TER is so beneficial for those who do not have a website.
I would say it's pretty tough to find a girl with good reviews from two years ago who is still around that does not have a website. It's a near 100% correlation between website and performance/reliability.
If it's a problem, here's what I do. Copy and paste the pics, phone/sign up and other pertinent data and descriptions you like on the site to a private Word document you keep. That way you won't keep visiting and can keep them all somewhat consistent. Think of it as your own little black book.
...although I have visited providers who do not have them, but researched those more carefully first. I've got to say I find the web sites with pop-ups a real turn-off. There's a growing number of them, even with higher rate providers.