If you found out that a provider you've been seeing on a regular basis was servicing another regular client FSBB would you still see the provider?  Obviously it would go without saying you'd have to use a condom.

Then you will be safe (safer).  I assume that most providers have normal relationships outside of the hobby... Which means BBFS with a SO. Use protection and don't worry about it.

And as long as you feel YOU are staying safe, you are fine

I guess that's my question how does keep themselves very very careful?

Sorry I can't reveal who my BBFSCIP provider is.

Of course.

No birth control is 100% and obviously a higher risk for STD, STI, and HPV. My thoughts on providers who do so are probably at a point where they can not afford to loose clients financially. PS - your not the only guy she does it with.  This thread grims me out ladies I hope you make safe decisions for yourself, and the community. Guys use your proper head to make a decision especially one that affects your spouse at home.

of getting STDs that can spread orally.

Without knowing who you are speaking about, I bet $100 it's a certain "VIP" provider who has a not-so-nice apartment in Evanston.  If she thinks you're "clean" she does it.  Especially married guys with kids.  I am not asking anyone to blow your cover here (pun partially intended), but I guarantee there are men reading this who have had this experience with her.

Everyone has seen someone who has gone BB. It happens all the time and often people who you wouldn't guess do it. If you're afraid of cooties then this hobby is not for you because it simply will never go away. Wear a condom and don't DATY if you're concerned.

What is your intention here in saying this about the "Evanston" provider? You know, I heard through the grapevine that you were blackmailing providers and sending emails to them telling them that if they didn't "comply with your wishes, you would smear their name..." Not cool. I suggest you get your facts straight before putting something out there like this and I do questions your intentions ...

My money says that anyone who's asked you for her name is more interested in trying to ensure he doesn't put his dick where yours has been.

You morons aren't worthy of seeing her. Reason why guys want to know who she is because they want to see her BBFS themselves. Well that ain't happening. I don't want you morons ruining my set up.