If you like younger ladies, don't ask for mornings. Sorry man, but if they are young, and sometimes even if they are not some spend nights out partying without thought of the next day. I wouldn't say mornings are a bad time to schedule, but with some ladies they can be. Perhaps ask if mornings are difficult before you set up the am poke. As well, if you are looking for short notice or an outcall the weather very likely could be the issue. Some ladies even freak when they hear the fortcast. You know like snowing all day and the gent wants an outcall down town late at night, provider sees it as an issue and either won't book it or cancels. Best to go with a provider who has a set incall in the area you seek and provide ample notice.
My last 5 appointments have consisted of three great independent girls, one independent provider cancellation and another independent provider missing an AM appointment due to oversleeping.
So, I am wondering what cancellation/no show rates other hobbyists have.....is it the weather or proximity to the holiday season?
I'm seriously considering going agency only since it is such a waste of time and money when this happens....thoughts?
I have run across a few of them myself, they probably don't do it on purpose, it is more than likely just a case of being bad business types. Currently going thru a difficult scheduling procedure with a very well respected indie myself. The turn around time on emails ( her preferred method) is over 24 hr cycle. Started on Thursday trying to schedule for next week, and still don't have a confirmed appointment. I should have used one of the regular providers that I have had great experiences with in the past. It is rare to find the provider who you can connect with AND who is consistent. Good luck
If you like younger ladies, don't ask for mornings. Sorry man, but if they are young, and sometimes even if they are not some spend nights out partying without thought of the next day. I wouldn't say mornings are a bad time to schedule, but with some ladies they can be. Perhaps ask if mornings are difficult before you set up the am poke. As well, if you are looking for short notice or an outcall the weather very likely could be the issue. Some ladies even freak when they hear the fortcast. You know like snowing all day and the gent wants an outcall down town late at night, provider sees it as an issue and either won't book it or cancels. Best to go with a provider who has a set incall in the area you seek and provide ample notice.
I think that is good advice about avoiding morning appts with the younger ones! Of course, this one did confirm with me twice the day before and was given a room number. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt and blame it on the weather perhaps. Of course, I was venturing outside of RS2k territory on this one...should have known better.
Any incall providers with reviews located in the Glenview/Skokie/Evanston area? If so, feel free to PM me!
Does anyone feel that agency girls are less likely to cancel and more likely to be on time? In this case, clock watching might be a good thing! I was avoiding agency until now.
it sounds like the information provided above is pretty solid. Women with reviews that have specifically mentioned morning appointments are probably a good bet. Independent versus agency, it all depends on the woman at the end of the day. I know of many stories of agency girls blowing off appts, and a simple search here will give you that information as well as indys who have done the same thing.
Best advice, stick with the women with rock solid reviews. The best news, Chicago has some of the most beautiful women in the world. We have awesome indy's and very dependable agencies and agency women as well. The difficulty, as always, is picking one.
Good Luck,
FT61
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This happens to all of us at some point and you shouldn't take it to heart. It is frustating to say the least, but just move on to another lady here and make sure that you have done your homework as best you can. One thing you might also do is PM a recent reviewer of a lady you would like to see and ask questions as to her reliability. Additionally, you should try and contact well known reviewers that see the types of ladies you seek and ask them through PM your questions. Many of us routinely back channel on various ladies and word gets out if she is not reliable. You can then make a better decision if you want to take a chance on her. As far as the agency vs. indy question, I would apply the same parameters in homework for either. And as FT61 has said, there are so many talented and reliable ladies here in Chicago that you shouldn't have issues finding those that meet your criteria and are very reliable. Just take the time to research and you will be justly rewarded for your efforts.
there are many beautiful women that work for agencies and also independents but they all usually start off with an agency, hopefully its a good one and learn how to do it right from them.
I have had quite a few girls start with me who are now successful independents.
Maybe next time you get stood up try one of the reputable agencies, that is what the biggest difference is that we are able to take care of you at the last minute whereas a indie wants notice.
I have had girls promise to make the appointment and to my dismay and the clients, she doesn't show up or call me to let me know she isn't.
On the other hand have had more clients than girls flake off like that.
Just check out the reviews and if you think she is your cup of tea then it probably will be.
Usually the traveling girls are the best for early appointments sometimes because you can't check into a hotel till afternoon or maybe she forgot to get the room night before or didn't trust the appt would go through? just a few of my thoughts.
I have had a couple of NCNS experiences in the last month. Only common thread is that both ladies, while having a solid record of reviews over a decent period of time, had limited reviews over the last few months, Other than that, I cannot find any common thread. One was very easy to contact and schedule with, the other was a little harder to get hold of. One had minimal reviews on TER over the last year, but was active on the Board; the other had some reviews over the last six months, but seemed otherwise UTR. One apologized profusely and tried to reschedule, ending up with a string of cancellations and wasting a bunch of my time, while the other confirmed the date and just disappeared.
I do not think it was the first for either, since I did a little back channel research after the fact, and I think I might have avoided one or both if I had done that ahead of the scheduling.
Very much an exception, I am happy to say, but it does happen and it is frustrating. Another thing I learned is just to breath deeply and take my time in rescheduling something else when I have been stood up. The first time this happened I got into a lather and went off half-cocked looking for any port in a storm. Not a good way to hobby.
Zig
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