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BrownBootyLover 49 Reviews 2100 reads
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If you offer bbbj but not cim, do you feel it's the gent's responsibility to let you know when he's about to pop?  I've long wondered this.  Thanks in advance for the input.

If you have a light cup on the testes you can feel the light contraction of the pelvic floor it's pretty much your five second warning.

Well and sometimes a guy screaming is a giveaway too.

Yes... but if the provider "misreads" the signals... and the guy gives no warning, would she be justified in being upset with him?

if you don't and she can't gage it well prepare for her not to stick around to finish it.  I let guests know to give me a heads up, if he doesn't then most likely i am jumping off and rinsing.  If he was super nice I might stick around for a second to make sure he finishes up before I run but that all depends on how I have been treated.  

I feel it is extremely disrespectful to do something your partner has expressly said she does not do, most of us offer other options that are far more glorious looking after the fact anyway!

So my thoughts are that if you know she doesn't, or if she asks you to, then speak up. I am sure it helps with those who do CIM as well so they do not try to breath as you let it fly which I have heard feels like you are drowning(that sounds very unpleasant).

GaGambler144 reads

She did the worst thing a woman has EVER done to me, before or since. The fucking bitch married me. lol

I can't speak for those ladies as I allow CIM in all sessions, but I think if a gentleman is unsure of whether or not a provider is okay with cim or expressly reads that she does not typically do that, its best to err on the side of caution. A simple, "I'm about to cum" is nice to allow her to prepare.  

Of course, it is easier said than done in the heat of the moment.  

As an aside, it's also always nice when men eat a little healthier for sessions with providers who CIM. I can taste the difference. Lol!

I personally do cim but i stilk like to know when to expect it. You can usually tell but if the signs are misleading,its good to know......

As much as I like CIM, I'd rather not piss off a woman while I'm in that state.

Ahead of time.   I never go into a date not knowing.  

although I also understand that it is not always possible.

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