however, you have given me NOTHING to go on in terms of what defines a "special female" for you.

I suggest you do a search of the review database, put in parameters that are important to you (for example, "kisses with tongue", etc) and set the average score bar high(>8.5) and put in a minimum number of reviews (I use 5 but you could go higher - this weeds out "one hit wonders).  Depending on what your search reveals, either look over some of those reviews or adjust your parameters to broaden or narrow your search.

Then, if you have a couple of names you want further information on, post those to the board and seek some input.

Another hint, save your search and then you can run it again from time to time for updated results.

Not alot of people will be motiviated to be helpful when you don't appear to have done any work yourself.  

That's just my opinion, and I could be wrong.    Happy hunting.

bbTna