First the question. Have some TER hobbyists gotten so bad that they threaten bad reviews when a provider doesn't agree to certain acts? Like you pissing on her and she swallows? Which she told you in advance she does not do.
There's more requests this guy made that would seem reasonable for an escort to decline, but I'll leave it at that.
Just visited with the provider, who looks even better now than when I first saw and reviewed her. Tall, great skin, well shaped, pretty, I've seen a few providers and her looks are right up there with the best. And her service is great. Yes, she's chatty but I've never found it to be too much. Yes, she likes to move fast......either keep up or she's not your warm loving cup of tea, but there's no need to bash providers that don't want to get pissed in the mouth especially when they're as good looking and provide great reasonable services at a fair price. I KNOW you can't get better looks and service for her price range. PM me if you need the name - TER rules don't allow mentioning the name.
I'm sure there are assholes who do that kind of thing. Despicable.
I want guys to write negative reviews if its warrented especially since there can be an implied threat and whining if someone thinks she deserves an 8 or 9 and she gets a 6. There are enough hissy fits around here when that happens.
However for someone to threaten that is really loathesome.
Now for a woman who is well reviewed I don't think it will hurt too much. An outlier bad review is not that much of a cause for concern. I'd feel very badly for a new person starting to get a reputation. That could take a long time to repair.
Most of the gentlemen I've met are nice, decent guys that know how to treat a lady. I have had a few gentlemen use references to control me, get me to see them at a time I'm not available or get me to lower my rate. It's a sad thing bur there are those who abuse the review system to benefit themselves while possible putting others, guys and girls, as t risk. Whenever a guy tries to use reviews of leverage against me, he immeately goes on my 'no' list. If I cooperate with his requests, it will make me as low as him.
I've never had a guy threaten a bad review to get what he wants however, I've seen discussions about it on many boards.
On another provider board, there have been rreports of guys giving girls reviews that they have never seen. They do these reviews to keep from being screened or get the girl they want to see to think they are legit and safe and see them.
I can't control the bad guys however, I can control who I see and what I agree to. My reviews are well earned and I wouldn't want it any other way.
Hobbyists using their reviewer status as a negotiating tactic is not only disrespectful but also degrades the value of their reviews. I've heard complaints from a few providers that some hobbyists talk them down on rates using their status as a reviewer in the hobby community. I've never done such a thing and it hasn't even crossed my mind. The primary way my reviews serve me is in making providers I haven't seen before feel more comfortable (and the 15 days of VIP isn't bad either).
Reputation is everything and it doesn't take much to ruin it. Both sides of the hobby need to think more about their long-term reputations instead of taking each other for granted by using their reputations to extract favors from the other person. It's one thing if a provider offers a hobbyist a NSA favor as long as that favor doesn't require the hobbyist to compromise his integrity by falsely enhancing her review. But neither party should be requesting special privileges and favors shouldn't be accepted if they impact your integrity. Remember too that if you accept a favor with strings attached and someone leaks it, you'll look pretty stupid. Great way to devalue all those reviews you've been writing...
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