Wow check her website. Apparently all her customers are liars and scum

I looked and can't figure out what you're talking about

..which you know, is really cute.  Apparently I struck a nerve.  

Well my advice is never piss her off. Like having a close family member die and have to cancel on short notice. That appRently bring out the real Erin and her real views of her customers. Just saying. The real character shows through when you need to show some empathy to someone. Also, the fact that she created a thinly veiled threat by way of a tweet from another provider about exposing personal information.  Well just saying I would keep my head up in dealing with h

Wow we all know who you submit to. I never said her pictures were or were not accurate. Maybe you should actually take a moment to read what you are responding to before you do someone else's bidding. Just speaking the obvious

Just go through her tweets   Unless she has deleted them. And look at her friends tweet in response to her tweet about clients not using the dead relative to excuse to back out of bookings. I had a close relative pass a day or so before a booking I had made with Erin. I gave her as much advance notice as I could and apologized about the late notice, I also explained the circumstances. The response is in her tweeter chain. I have never met Erin. I got her name from kat at art of submission in New York  when I had to break the appointment, because I had to cancel my plans to travel to Chicago to attend to a family matter (by the way I am the executor of the deceased's estate, which means I have to ok the funeral plans) the response I got was to demand a cancellation fee. When I indicated I thought his wa a bit much given the circumstances I got an email from kat, apparently at Erin's request, that I pay Erin a cancellation fee or she would never do business we me again. Just wondering how this all got to his point. Not really happy so just speaking out about my view of Erin. Which is essentially that she seems to think her clients are a bunch of lying pigs who just want to  take advantage of her. Her apparent response is obvious from my comments above. Just wondering. I had a family member die. Admittedly had to cancel on short ( more than 24 hours notice) and somehow I am the focal point for all that is wrong in this business

No confusion I have laid out the facts here.

You do realize most guys lie about that, right? You should have kept it private and explained. All you did is make us high end ladies wonder about you. If that really happened with family passing on, I feel for you... but to blast her and her reviews is not ok by any means. You did pretty well put out there that she is fake and others are lying. Don't yell at the guys who say they saw her and that she was real when you are all angry that she thought you were lying. If you lived in our shoes for a day, you'd get it. Pick your fights with the ripoffs and B&S. You did pretty well say everything about her and her reviewers are a lie. Which includes her pictures.  

I did keep it private and explain. Erin then decided to contact my reference kat at art of submission, whom I had a very good relationship with. As near as I can tell the fact I cancelled, with more than 24 hours notice , owing to a death in my family has some how resulted in kat black balling me from her service   I have even offered to pay some kind of restitution to Erin,  I have asked her to at least apologize for her harsh attitude to my loss as a condition of me making a payment but so far she has refused. Really trying to figure out what I did wrong. Apparently it was a close family member dying at an in opportune time.  I appreciate you in the business have heard it all before. I have been a very good client with art of submission over the years and now, for reasons beyond my comprehension I am the one being made a scape goat.  Really I have offered to pay Erin, but she can' t see fit to. Apologize or send me a PO box to pay her.

Do you know how many guys I've had suddenly have "food poisoning", "dead relatives", and even "organ transplants" lately?! I'm waiting for the guy that has a relative that gets food poisoning, subsequently needs a transplant and then dies...It's an epidemic, a plague, something...I'm surprised half the population isn't 6 feet under just in this month alone.

Really, cancellation fee??  

would give out personal information.

I don't think that word means what you think it means, dear.

After the litany of insults flung at me last night via email, Twitter, and TER, and the harassment that both Kat and I have received, I'm done. I just can't anymore with this Vaudeville act.  It's just not funny anymore.

At which stage of grief do people typically harass hookers on the internet?

My first reaction to his post/s was "what a bitch" (sorry Erin) but the more he posts and the more I read the less believable his story sounds and the more I start to take Erin's side.

So congratulations "willow" you have managed to convince even this "asshole" who would never dream of paying a cancellation fee myself that most like Erin is in the right and you are in the wrong. What you did is a significant accomplishment as I am in the camp that unless a hooker offers her own "cancellation fee" if she has to cancel, or if she has had to lay out hard money specifically for YOUR date, you don't owe shit, but no, you have convinced me by your own words that yes you are a dickhead and you should simply pay the lady and move on.

BTW what kind of fucking name is "willow" for a man??? Is there something you would like to share with the class??? lol

Hey TT, nice to see you posting,

Exactly why we love you.
PS: Rod is gone, we think.  You missed an epic, serial, multi-board melt down. Or maybe you were lurking?

He knew about the cancellation fee when he booked.  All she did was invoke it, not spring it on him.  There are some girls who have such a fee.  If you don't want to pay it, don't book with them in the first place. And don't whine about it or try to injure their rep after the fact.

I am a little sensitive to the comment about getting an Organ transplant and dying.  

and then there are guys like Norm, who NEVER supports the woman, also regardless of the facts.

I don't want to be in either camp, and I don't like this "us against them" mentality. I try to base my decisions on the facts as presented and in this case the facts are clearly on Erin's side.

and for a guy who is supposed to be grieving the loss of a loved one, he does seem to have an awful lot of time to devote to "hooker matters" and he still hasn't answered my question from below, What kind of fucking name is "Willow" for a guy???

Maybe Pansy was already taken... shrugs!

She does have a reverse cancellation policy while most do not.  That is fair in my view.

Many hobbyists including myself are comfortable giving out MINIMUM required personal information.  Name, age, location, and sometimes line of work.  Not my cholesterol level, last visit to a proctologist, or my car maintenance record!
Gut feeling, trust, and more importantly word-of-mouth from other hobby buddies all factor in when you decide to exchange info.  I have met highly-rated providers who occasionally run background check and will ask to see my driver's license on our first meeting.  When you request that a provider never keep records of ID once verified and delete info, you assume she will honor your request.  Is this a safe assumption?  For the most part, yes, specifically for ladies with ratings approaching 9-10, not a BP lady who has a dozen grammatical errors in her ad.

You had a past with this provider it seems, so I'm sure she understood and was aware of your circumstances.  I'd think that most providers would understand.  If a regular client of mine, or a client that seems me whenever I'm in town came to me with a similar circumstance, I'd be more than understanding.  

Much appreciated support!  

when he's supposed to be grieving and attended to estate matter and such. This is literally unbelievable!

Steph grrrrrr....

I actually do offer the same amount I request when I cancel on a client. I think that's only fair. I've seen many other ladies do this as well.

Sometimes a close relative DOES pass away forcing a cancellation. It happened to me in January and the Chicago lady I was seeing without question was extremely gracious and kind. She knows me well so that counted for something and she easily could have googled and discovered I really did have a parent die several days prior to an extended engagement. My point? Only that its not always a bogus excuse though I'd agree it is often. I offered to compensate her and she of course refused and I have since made it up to her in spades. Its all about relationships and it would appear the OP has torched several here.

and where have you been hiding?

1. Denial of fee
2. Anger over the fact that the fee was stated upfront
3. Bargaining for a lower fee
4. Depression over the fact that it was affecting another relationship
5. Acceptance of the fact that he screwed u

I was speaking about the ones who lie. I don't have a cancellation policy, so when a guy lies to me... I am screwed.  
**** Oops, I thought you were talking about this Alexandra, me. lol. My mistake.****

For the one time I had to cancel on several guys and had to run down to KY to get there in time for my niece to be born. I was already going 2 days later, just to be there a week and a half before the due date.... but she decided to pop out lol. Even the Dr thought she'd be coming after due date. Literally I got a surprise call that she was going into labor and had to throw everything in the car and drive like a bandit to get there. Got there a few minutes before she was born.

Posted By: MissErinBlack

Much appreciated support!  
   
 And as I've stated before, I do have a reverse cancellation policy. If for some reason I ever have to cancel or reschedule an appointment, I always offer more time or a discount. Client's choice.

I have no idea why the words my original post did not show up but it seems to have vanished.  Anyway, here is what it said.

Don't get me wrong, I think it is completely wrong to use a fake excuse to cancel. I was just sensitive to the comment about transplants. This is just me, but unless a lady cancels after I have left to meet her or just blows off the appointment it is worse for the client to cancel with short notice than the provider. If a provider cancels I still have money in my pocket and the provider looses money because she likely could have booked that time.

There are far too many anomalies in the OP's story to respond to, nor do I care about his rants. But I do want to support Miss Erin. My side of the story echoes her's closely. Not only did she NOT demand that I contact him or blacklist him, she thoughtfully pointed out that since he had been fair to us up to date, perhaps we should keep him as a client - she did not want to hurt our business. It was my idea to contact him since I was horribly embarrassed that I had pointed him her way and had provided a reference for him (disgusted face). The OP has some odd notion that Erin made or manipulated me into writing to him. That is not so. I wanted to support Erin and so I thought to try to reconcile their differences.

and not a single person, man or woman said anything different. You are a-o-k and is understandable.

Several ladies have mentioned Black Listing a customer like "willow" for his behavior.  But what you're suggesting, while appropriate, is NOT really a Black Listing, it is putting him on a DNS (Do Not See) list. A true Black Listing means putting someone on a site like the National Black List, often with his real name and other personal information out in public.  In other words, outing him.  This is a legitimate thing to do when he's done something very serious like robbery, stalking, harassment, or rape. But that is not what you mean in this case.
So please be more careful with the terminology you use.
Thanks.

A couple of my friends over at The Art of Submission woke up this morning to a nasty surprise. He's reviewed one provider (who has a great reputation) with an unfair, low review even though he has not seen her for over half a year and confessed he enjoyed the session after the fact. Another friend suspects he will negatively review her soon too, even though he has seen her twice, really enjoyed himself, and was planning on seeing her again.

When we first started escorting we reached out to lots of ladies cause we knew jack about the escorting side, only the kink side.  Know who got back to us?  Miss Erin Black.

And the only person I see being a liar and scum is you Willow.  You are a real piece of work, to come on here and slander a lady with an amazing rep and threaten as well as write fake reviews of ladies you disagree with over this matter.  REALLY?  Someone doesn't like getting called out even though he sure started this whole darn thing.

Because reviews of a session must be written within 90 days of the date it happened.  Since you say he last saw them "over half a year" ago the review is not eligible for publication.

She has the proof in emails!

I mean come the fuck on. this has gotten unreal.

The guy has exposed himself as a complete fucktard and now, once TER sees he's posted a bogus review, he will be dealt with by them.  I don't think we'll be seeing much of him for a while.

. . .  this never would have been allowed to continue to this degree, the OP would have been immediately moderated (if not banned), and the thread taken down by now.

I'm soooo glad you ran your ignorant pie hole enough to get on my DNS list simply for being a complete moron.

but I like to give people more than enough rope to hang themselves (hi Deb) and why would you want this thread to come down in the first place?

Do you really think this thread has hurt Erin in the slightest? Quite the contrary, she comes out looking great in this thread and the OP has shown his true colors so all the other ladies in Chicago can decide for themselves if they want to see him or not, and my guess is that after this, many of them will not.

So let me repeat my question, why in the world would you want this thread taken down?

Geez, settle down ted, I was never referring to you, for the record. I may have to start a vagina transplant list with all of this sensitivity...

Don't know about that, sweetheart. Maybe that's what you'd prefer the blacklist be for, but  that's not the case. I've seen it many times for guys like Willow that cancel last minute and don't pay the required fee. Bogus or legit excuse. Cancel last minute and don't pay (as long as the policy wasn't sprung on him, and it wasn't here) it is a legitimate reason to blacklist.

I'm certain it would have stayed up. Funtimes always made the call on pulling posts and he was all about letting people vent. We may have closed it once it reached the point of repetitive whining, but it would have stayed up. Now Dancingbear was more strict, so I have no idea what he might have done. Gonzo would have let the train go through the wall at Union Station.  ;-

Thought I would add this post to this thread' as I suspect most of you are to self absorbed or lazy to respond to a thread you haven't commented on.  

You obviously can't read.  Not a shocker.  

I went out and restocked on rope, hit me up if you need some. Consider it my final gift to you on your way out. lmao

I remember an email (and probably still have it) that says you feel bad for cheating on Chloe for possibly exploring with another provider. If you liked her enough to feel guilty about cheating, then your review is BS. You liked her enough to see her for multiple extended sessions, then all of a sudden, now she's a horrible provider? Makes no sense. You might've had better chemistry with the second provider, but I seem to remember you raving the same about Chloe.

And you're obviously not used to high end women on TER's TOP 100...

Then why leave a review for a session from a year ago suddenly??? Doesn't seem spiteful in the least...

Good one.  I'd love to see that.  Lol.  Haven't laughed that hard in awhile.  Thank you.  Don't let anyone tell you you have no good qualities.

Well, Norm, I can positively say you have no good qualities left about you..too bad you have to pay just for company : (

Too bad you will never know who I really am.  ROFL.