Hello Lovers Of Chicago,     With TER back up I have to ask this question, as I have always been genuinely curious.  Who and Why in the world do some gents fill the emails, phone and Twitter feeds of the ladies we very much enjoy; with useless, time wasting notes, offensive questions, and unsolicited photos.  I ask because so many of these gracious ladies post requests to stop wasting their valuable time with same. I would be interested to know what your perceived up side is, as when all is said and done it looks like you just make it more difficult for polite ladies and gents to make arrangements!             In other words WTF?