I started my sugar journey by creating a profile on SD. I joined SD mostly because I wasn't prepared to invest in a monthly (annual) membership. However, I have had some good exchanges with POTS there. And, found my first PPM SB there. All in all, I don't love the 'buy credits' model. But, I make the size investment I want, and spend my credits (or not) as I please. So, judging based on results, I'm pretty happy.
That said, from reading posts here, and making an observation based on my impressions alone, most(?) of the posters seem to reference SA. To me, that would suggest it is the more popular site. Is there something about SA that I'm overlooking? I can only see switching, if the consensus is that SA has a larger, better selection of POTS. P.S. I've left out SB, because as I'd observed in an earlier post (a few months back), SD and SB seem like the same site, using the same data, under different names.
I was going to join SD too but the whole pay for credits thing turned me off. I've had great success with SA. But I've been blackmailed twice so a couple things to remember. Use a Google number or a burner phone. Do not upload or share any pictures of you that can be found anywhere on the web, including LinkedIn, your company website, FB, etc.Last thing is do not use your real name until you meet someone in person. The girls all do that so it's not uncommon. Last but not least I've had some luck on Cuddle Comfort. Girls that want to have sex are few and far between but some like getting topless and giving HJs.
As I'd mentioned, I prefer the credit system. I'm not very active, so I like that I can just bank my credits until such time that I"m in the market again.
I'm proud to say that I already follow all of the suggestions that you've given. Phone app: Check Site specific photos: Check Alias: Check
I also keep all messaging leading up to the first M&G on the site messaging feature. It isn't until she actually shows up that I give her my contact (phone app) number.
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