This question is mostly for providers. I am new~ish to the hobby and I know I have no reports as I tend to lean more towards the AMP side of things. I do however read many local reviews of all different types of providers and in 99% of the reviews the hobbyist mentions bringing his provider to 2, 3, even 4 O's sometimes. I was wondering how much are some of these hobbyists blowing their own horn as loud as they can here? Only reason I ask is that I see this mentioned so often it dilutes the review somewhat for me and makes it seem more like a fantasy review as opposed to the reality that happened.
Just curious if encounters with a FS provider are truly like that. Providers, please feel free to DM me your responses.
Also, I apologize if the question offends anyone here. Never my intention. The discussion board seems to be pretty sensitive lately.
In many cases, I'm sure the reviews are accurate. Not every woman has the capacity to be a well reviewed provider. Ladies who can really enjoy themselves in this type of work are the ones who will earn the best reviews, and they are likely to stay in the business longer. I suppose that it is possible that some ladies are just very good actresses and are faking their O's. But, some things are very hard to fake. I don't think that many women can make themselves suddenly break out in a sweat.
I'm sure that some clients do like to toot their own horn regarding their own talents, but generally, it is the providers who are the real experts. So, if you want to have a session in which the provider has many O's, it is best to schedule a long appointment and to ask her what she really likes.
Some reviews are believable. Take Chloe Boulez for example.. I've never seen her, but I do believe her reviews.
Only the provider and the client know what really happens during a session, and my guess is the odds of either one being 100% forthcoming and/or openly honest about the encounter are slim to none. (I'll defer to GaG for a better estimate of those odds though). Sexual intimacy is such a personal experience you can't possibly expect to replicate the feelings and sensations another client may have with a provider. Even though it's P4P, and the good providers are very adept at creating an erotically charged environment for the clients they see, they're still human, and subject to feelings and preferences and turn-ons just like anyone else. Look at the reviews as a small part of the equation in selecting a provider. Look at her web site, her photos, the services she offers, her board presence (if any), her fees, her location and availability, etc. as better, somewhat more objective, indicators when making your selection. Look for consistencies/inconsistencies in how the provider is described in terms of appearance and personality instead of a clients subjective assessment of the minutiae of every physical action/reaction that may (or may not) have taken place. At the end of the day, it's essentially a crapshoot for that first engagement with a provider, kind of like a blind date. Just do your best and hope it works out.
I don't think the client always knows.
When I actually do 'O' my review says 'she kept out a big 'O'. If she was acting she is really good at it.'
No I'm not good at acting, so I won't fake it lol
Some women can have an Opportunity really easily, but there are some women that find it very difficult. There are signs and body language that a man can learn to understand to know when it happens and when it does not. Truth be told though, a woman does not have to Offer to enjoy the experience. Lots or women, expecially providers (at least the one's who enjoy their work) love sex. The art of seducing and pleasuring their partner is extremely satisfying.
If you truly want to appreciate what it is like to please your partner man or woman, then first you must know what it is to be with someone who enjoys pleasing you and then you must be open enough to let that happen. Then you may learn what it is to give that back to your mate.
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Only the provider and the client know what really happens during a session, and my guess is the odds of either one being 100% forthcoming and/or openly honest about the encounter are slim to none. (I'll defer to GaG for a better estimate of those odds though). Sexual intimacy is such a personal experience you can't possibly expect to replicate the feelings and sensations another client may have with a provider. Even though it's P4P, and the good providers are very adept at creating an erotically charged environment for the clients they see, they're still human, and subject to feelings and preferences and turn-ons just like anyone else. Look at the reviews as a small part of the equation in selecting a provider. Look at her web site, her photos, the services she offers, her board presence (if any), her fees, her location and availability, etc. as better, somewhat more objective, indicators when making your selection. Look for consistencies/inconsistencies in how the provider is described in terms of appearance and personality instead of a clients subjective assessment of the minutiae of every physical action/reaction that may (or may not) have taken place. At the end of the day, it's essentially a crapshoot for that first engagement with a provider, kind of like a blind date. Just do your best and hope it works out.
I goes something like this
"The odds are slim to none, and slim just left town"
Most of these guys wouldn't know a real orgasm by a woman if they were drowning in the juices. Which I imagine is one of the major reason so many women fake them.
At least at this level because we like it. And I think having things come easily (pun intended 
is a big part of what makes women like or not like sex.
This is probably violating some code and my karma will get f'd up, but I'll give you a straight up breakdown for me:
Some guys do not give a flip whether I do or don't. A perfectly good choice and I have fun with it, but the odds are roughly zero that I do and they are zero that I'll fake it.
When he does care: the bottom line is, the last (or only) one is 50/50 fake, any others are real. Pretty often, men want jusssst a pinch more than I can do, and when I'm exhausted that's how I call it. Or if something is just off on my end (didn't get enough sleep, etc) and I know it will not happen. Again though, 50/50 real. But there is no way in hell I'm faking 2, 3, or more.
I appreciate your candid, which confirms the reality of this relationship context that I suspect and sense from whatever experiences that I learned first-hand or from others .
What if a client does care, not only about whether you can get an O, but also about you as a person in a geninue way? I'm not saying being stingy, creepy or anything like that. If you sense this, or if a client discuss this with you upfront saying he would like know and then try to get you an O, what would you do? Since there are many factors ranging from randomness to personal preferences, I think no one can really promise O under any intimate context. Would you give him/her a candid 'debrief' at the end of encounter
When asked, I'm always candid. "Yes, definitely." "Yeah, not quite for the last one." "No, but that felt so good I wanted to make sure you do it next time." And if it just wasn't my cup of tea, I'm not cruel of course but I will give constructive criticism, "You were so into it that I didn't want to stop you, but really I prefer slower/faster/whatever."
I'm not sure how I'd feel about someone wanting me to because they care about me as a person...it might weird me out a little. But if someone told me they wanted to improve their skills generally, I'm all about that! Story of my life! No problem at all giving reviews and fair grading (WHEN ASKED. LOL)
when she gives feedback during sex. There's nothing wrong with asking me to change it up, do something different, move my hand a bit, whatever makes her happy. The ATF gives a lot of feedback to max out her pleasure - that turns me on. When you see someone many times, it only gets better when she's into it. Not many providers are unfortunately so when we find one who is, she's a keeper 
I O once.
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Huh....I expected you to say that your vagina drinks Dos Equis
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Courtney,
Are you trying to say that you queef lol!
Haha no but that just made me wake up the neighbors lol
I can see how it came across that way. Lmao
1. Some of them must be true. Plenty of women are very responsive, and plenty of guys are very talented. Selecting for providers or hobbyists doesn't change that. Some of them are guys projecting. Some of them are girls performing.
More importantly:
2. Think about product. Ultimately, TER survives on subscriptions. Subscriptions come from people seeing something they want and paying for it. What do they want? Excitement. TER, like a company that sells day-trading tools, is in the business (however indirectly they wish to see it) of "selling the dream". That's why reviews read like Penthouse Letters. They *want* the reviews like that, to the point of encouraging (and some would say enforcing) it
