If you want to ease in, I am more then happy to help you do so.  I like to start these slow so I can get a feel for you and have an idea where to take it.  Everyone is different so customizing and reading your gentleman friend is very important.  Also, never be afraid to speak up.  If you don't like something, not comfy where it is going, or not quite ready for something then the best part of exploring is finding your voice...  That includes mentioning things oyu think are sexy and what not as well.  We can't all be Jean Grey