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no phone or verification - am I out of luck???
RyanB1978 570 reads
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I'm currently on the brink of going through a lengthy divorce and need to be ultra discrete.  My wife and I share bank accounts and cell phone plans.  If there are mysterious blocked calls that show up on days that I travel or she travels, she will get suspicious.  Those are the only days I'm able to partake in this delight since she would be able to sense that satisfaction on me!  I almost got caught once because a blocked call on the phone bill still disclosed the location of the call.  So a 5 minute call from an unknown number in a random city is difficult to explain.  I couldn't say it was a wrong number.

I have too much at risk in my marriage and job to use the typical verification methods.  Her attorney would pounce on this if it was discovered somehow.  The only discrete way I can communicate is via email.  Thankfully there is incognito browsing!

Are there any providers out there will to take a chance on a guy like me?  I'm D&D free, classy and respectful.  Caucasian, proportionally built, with great hygiene!  I know there will be no regrets after our encounter.  I can provide a reference but for many ladies I don't think that's enough.

Looking for an incall massage, GFE, etc...  Mostly need a woman to help me forget that I'm trapped in a loveless marriage.  I would be willing to pay a higher rate to offset the risk you take on.  

Please email me at [email protected] if this is something you would be willing to consider.  

If there are any other tips out there from guys that were in a similar situation, please share.
Thanks for considering.

ROGM426 reads

You're pretty much out of Luck. If you have at least a phone number you could give out, then maybe you'd have a chance. And the fact that you want an Incall. No Provider will take that chance. It sounds like a set up. I'm sure you're being Truthful in what you're saying. But you're out of Luck getting a Provider to see you without any type of Verification or Proof you're not a Cop. Maybe you should wait until your Divorce is Finalized before you get into this Hobby.

I suggest a burner phone and your e-mail address ALONG WITH a reference, especially if your reference is from an agency or a lady with reviews. I'm assuming your reference is not from an agency or you'd be going back there?

Honestly I've been with sensational providers who didn't ask for any of that. You may have to pass an LE check in the first few minutes of your contact, which is of course fun anyway.

I would approach them by just asking about their availability and what they charge. Let them ask for verification if they want; don't volunteer why it is and/or isn't a problem but don't hide it if they ask.

Just don't give up. You'll find someone. Stick to ladies with reviews so you don't get cheated, arrested or hugely disappointed.

I understand that you are going through a lengthy, rough process. And I really get that you probably could use an escape from this once in a while. That said, if you are truly concerned due to any animosity in the relationship, then you should absolutely wait until after the divorce is finalized.

Please do not make the mistake of assuming that internet browsing and/or email is anonymous. Keystroke loggers are extremely easy to install in a machine, and you'd never know it was there. A good PI can hack your email, and tail your car, along with a variety of other nasties. You not only put yourself at risk for exposure, but the lady you reach out to as well (many a soon-to-be divorcee has turned her wrath on a companion sharing "her man").

Holding out a little longer will ensure your dates don't cost you far, far beyond simple rates.

As a last thought, I sincerely hope your legal name is not Ryan and/or your birth year 1978. If it is, ditch the handle. We forget how few electronic dots it takes to string a noose in the online world.

Posted By: RyanB1978
I'm currently on the brink of going through a lengthy divorce and need to be ultra discrete.  My wife and I share bank accounts and cell phone plans.  If there are mysterious blocked calls that show up on days that I travel or she travels, she will get suspicious.  Those are the only days I'm able to partake in this delight since she would be able to sense that satisfaction on me!  I almost got caught once because a blocked call on the phone bill still disclosed the location of the call.  So a 5 minute call from an unknown number in a random city is difficult to explain.  I couldn't say it was a wrong number.  
   
 I have too much at risk in my marriage and job to use the typical verification methods.  Her attorney would pounce on this if it was discovered somehow.  The only discrete way I can communicate is via email.  Thankfully there is incognito browsing!  
   
 Are there any providers out there will to take a chance on a guy like me?  I'm D&D free, classy and respectful.  Caucasian, proportionally built, with great hygiene!  I know there will be no regrets after our encounter.  I can provide a reference but for many ladies I don't think that's enough.  
   
 Looking for an incall massage, GFE, etc...  Mostly need a woman to help me forget that I'm trapped in a loveless marriage.  I would be willing to pay a higher rate to offset the risk you take on.    
   
 Please email me at [email protected] if this is something you would be willing to consider.    
   
 If there are any other tips out there from guys that were in a similar situation, please share.  
 Thanks for considering.

I ABSOLUTELY AGREE

Posted By: EveAlexander
I understand that you are going through a lengthy, rough process. And I really get that you probably could use an escape from this once in a while. That said, if you are truly concerned due to any animosity in the relationship, then you should absolutely wait until after the divorce is finalized.  
   
 Please do not make the mistake of assuming that internet browsing and/or email is anonymous. Keystroke loggers are extremely easy to install in a machine, and you'd never know it was there. A good PI can hack your email, and tail your car, along with a variety of other nasties. You not only put yourself at risk for exposure, but the lady you reach out to as well (many a soon-to-be divorcee has turned her wrath on a companion sharing "her man").  
   
 Holding out a little longer will ensure your dates don't cost you far, far beyond simple rates.  
   
 As a last thought, I sincerely hope your legal name is not Ryan and/or your birth year 1978. If it is, ditch the handle. We forget how few electronic dots it takes to string a noose in the online world.  
   
Posted By: RyanB1978
I'm currently on the brink of going through a lengthy divorce and need to be ultra discrete.  My wife and I share bank accounts and cell phone plans.  If there are mysterious blocked calls that show up on days that I travel or she travels, she will get suspicious.  Those are the only days I'm able to partake in this delight since she would be able to sense that satisfaction on me!  I almost got caught once because a blocked call on the phone bill still disclosed the location of the call.  So a 5 minute call from an unknown number in a random city is difficult to explain.  I couldn't say it was a wrong number.  
     
  I have too much at risk in my marriage and job to use the typical verification methods.  Her attorney would pounce on this if it was discovered somehow.  The only discrete way I can communicate is via email.  Thankfully there is incognito browsing!  
     
  Are there any providers out there will to take a chance on a guy like me?  I'm D&D free, classy and respectful.  Caucasian, proportionally built, with great hygiene!  I know there will be no regrets after our encounter.  I can provide a reference but for many ladies I don't think that's enough.  
     
  Looking for an incall massage, GFE, etc...  Mostly need a woman to help me forget that I'm trapped in a loveless marriage.  I would be willing to pay a higher rate to offset the risk you take on.    
     
  Please email me at [email protected] if this is something you would be willing to consider.    
     
  If there are any other tips out there from guys that were in a similar situation, please share.  
  Thanks for considering.

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