I am sorry your post got hijacked, it always does. I have an answer.
Some men only see indies. It is in the minority. Many more say they would NEVER, but do all the time if the right lady catches their eye. Good agencies know discretion. If it floats their boat to act like we are scourges of the industry publicly and come a knockin' otherwise - that is their business. Seriously, just like no one on TER uses backpage but the reviews sure speak differently! Often its the only bp link in the review....
Don't believe the hype. If your agency is advertising you properly, your golden. If your getting clients and not regs, reach out to them they may have suggestions to help you. If they are a solid place, they will.
The bad rap agencies get are sometimes warranted, sometimes not. Just like any other biz - companies vary.
Indies use the bashing to get clients, agencies trash indies to get business - its called negative marketing and I thought it went out in the 90's but I still see it all the time. It must work. We don't do it, I wouldn't know. I find it childish personally.
But what I cannot stand is the fact that providers who choose to go with an agency are bashed. You don't know the inside of agencies, nor do you know the costs in money and TIME it takes to be an indie.
Our providers are AWESOME and we respect them. They are sexy, fun and yes - they have their act together. They are not less than 'indies' no matter how many times people want to shout it. Their reasons for joining us are varied - other jobs, a busy life, a need for community they don't get being indie and a million other things.
Its infuriating and insulting as hell to see the way agency ladies are spoken of on these boards at times