Just a randomn thought.  I don't really expect any providers to answer but guys should not have a problem.  It seems that there are many guys and girls that have been doing this for quite a while and I would imagine if I looked at this board in five years I would see a lot of the same people.  How many people have you been with in this hobby?  50? 100? 500? 1,000?

Agreed. All us guys brag about the number of seductions we've accomplished (right verb?).  But this isn't something you keep score on.  Except how the heck to pay for it.  lol