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glowerlord 7 Reviews 549 reads
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It's always weird to see someone ask people to explain why someone else does something. Then it's weird to see someone ask a group of providers why other providers think or act a certain way. It's like what makes you think they know, and if they do, why would they tell you and let the cat outa the bag?

Seeing a comment in more than one review is no basis for a conclusion. It's flawed logic. In other words: Providers, per se, don't dislike cg.

Beyond that, why care? Are you dating them? Trying to turn them on? That's useless. It's their job. I say that based on having a few providers as friends. They "like" you to be clean, nice, prompt, and pay properly. They want you to enjoy yourself. They may enjoy the activities too, but as long as you don't cross boundaries, they don't care what position.

That's most providers. If you meet one that doesn't like cg, ask her.

The next issue: no one want to use the "p" word. That is the single biggest reason for 'NO AA men.' Occasionally you will see 'No AA men under 40' which is a further indication. The best indication is when you see a young ebony advertising on BP saying 'No AA men.' This is not actually a racial issue, it's a cultural one.

There are a good number of young AA men who are real or wannabee "managers" and who approach girls to be a "manager."  Many girls who put that in their ads already have a "manager" -- he's the one that put up the ad. Other girls just don't want the hassle, and figure that most young AA who call will be managers, because economically, most young AA men are not spending money on providers.

Providers who believe this will never say this in a forum. Ever.

Just a question for providers.... I see a lot of reviews how many providers dont prefer cg and I was just curious as to why?  I assume its because if the guys in control he wont be able to hold out long but any other reasons why besides the obvious "just not into it".

Also I see a lot of "no african americans" ....im white myself but I always wondered why the discrimination. I agree every woman has the right to choose but I just found it odd that I never see "no caucasion" and just wanted a providers point of view.

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I have no idea about the 1st, though if the guy is on bottom during CG and can't stay still it can make for a rather bad time.  But to be honest maybe it is just to much work because then we are doing the bumping and grinding?  I personally love it so it is just a guess.

I know why the no African American men though of course I see them and see no real difference.  I have HEARD(these views are from others including African American Women who will not see African American Men) that they are too big, to rough, more likely to abuse women, more likely to short women, not turned on by African American men and similar.  Personally I am not privy to any of that from any of the African American men I have seen so I will continue to see them.  In this biz it can take as little as 1 bad experience to sully a womans mind about a type of guest, unfortunately a few bad eggs have changed things in some providers view point...

I have no problem with either.  Different women perfer different positions and types of men.  I think it's more of a personal choice thing.

I think it's a personal choice as well.  When you start your fun, just make sure you make your preference known.  Communication makes everything better.

Just kidding. Now that I have your attention. I tend to have these conversations with many providers.
As far as CG, I only had one not do it because she actually had hurt her back horse riding for real.

I ask all non African American  providers if they entertain African American men.  Some of the responses are interesting and I use them as vehicles for further communication.  Those that simply don't see them because they are not attracted are a pretty small minority.  I have had others say if they are CLEAN, ain't ghetto, etc., which kinda cracks me up for then I say they should give a computer literate gang banger homeboy a break :-) Many of the providers who express this sentiment have had relationships  in their private lives with African American men. Too bad they hadn't met me :-D

Then there is that group that have had bad experiences and haven't gotten over that trauma. They too are a minority, but obviously there is a scar in their psyche that won't allow them to judge the individual, but rather the entire race in this hobby.  I tell them I am sorry for what they experience.  I don't say don't judge the group by that experience, I simply leave it at that move on.

Then there are those that love black men, but won't put it on there web sites because it could hamper their business with other racial groups.  Finally there are those that don't give a rip what color you are and simply judge you by how you treat them. Those tend to be the ones I will see more than once.

It's always weird to see someone ask people to explain why someone else does something. Then it's weird to see someone ask a group of providers why other providers think or act a certain way. It's like what makes you think they know, and if they do, why would they tell you and let the cat outa the bag?

Seeing a comment in more than one review is no basis for a conclusion. It's flawed logic. In other words: Providers, per se, don't dislike cg.

Beyond that, why care? Are you dating them? Trying to turn them on? That's useless. It's their job. I say that based on having a few providers as friends. They "like" you to be clean, nice, prompt, and pay properly. They want you to enjoy yourself. They may enjoy the activities too, but as long as you don't cross boundaries, they don't care what position.

That's most providers. If you meet one that doesn't like cg, ask her.

The next issue: no one want to use the "p" word. That is the single biggest reason for 'NO AA men.' Occasionally you will see 'No AA men under 40' which is a further indication. The best indication is when you see a young ebony advertising on BP saying 'No AA men.' This is not actually a racial issue, it's a cultural one.

There are a good number of young AA men who are real or wannabee "managers" and who approach girls to be a "manager."  Many girls who put that in their ads already have a "manager" -- he's the one that put up the ad. Other girls just don't want the hassle, and figure that most young AA who call will be managers, because economically, most young AA men are not spending money on providers.

Providers who believe this will never say this in a forum. Ever.

The PC police have stated that if you CG you have to combine it with an Indian Jiggle

Everything is better with cheese, bacon, and more cowbell! :)

-- Modified on 1/16/2013 10:47:29 AM

I usually scream "Ya Ho" and swing my arm around like I am bull riding .... lol

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