Hello All:

I am in a bit of a moral quandary and I am hoping the board can give me some advice.

Last weekend I saw a lady from a reputable agency. I had seen her before and had a wonderful time. She was sweet if a bit spacey.

But in the middle of this session she asked if I minded if she used drugs. I was expecting maybe THC with a vape pen. instead she pulled out a little baggie that had cocaine in it and used a rolled 20 to use it.

This is not my thing in any way, shape, or form. I have already decided not to see her again. But my question is whether I have an obligation to notify the agency. I don't want to narc on this girl. But if she is using hard drugs she might be doing other unsafe things which would put herself, her agency, and her clients at risk.

Thoughts?

Thanks,

Glaze72

I would let the agency know.

I would not tell the agency

The girl will deny it

The agency will believe her (even if they think it is TRUE)

You will most likely get BANNED from the agency for having a BIG MOUTH

That's unfortunate but, I would stay away from adressing it with the agency.  Dm me.

A close friend of mine worked for an agency that's been around for YEARS and they host in the Gold Coast area. She told me she had to leave because A LOT of the young providers were using drugs and even asked her if she wanted to partake in their fun. She said they were always high and cleanliness was not in their daily routine. The agency stays busy because of the rate and as the saying goes..... "You get what you pay for." 🤷🏻‍♀️ From what she's told me, I want to believe that the agency is well aware of their ladies using hard drugs as such....IF we're talking about the same agency.

I had a similar experience.  I was at an appointment, and we had just finished doing what I came there for.  That's when she asked me if I minded if she smoked.  It turned out, she meant she meant weed, not cigarettes.  She was nice enough to offer me some too, but I declined.  It was 2 years ago, when my state just legalized it.

All in all, my views on weed are mostly negative, due to seeing how high/stoned people acted.  But the session was otherwise great, she was as pleasant as she was before she smoked, and that didn't put a damper on things at all.  I didn't see her again, but not because of the weed; the agency the provider worked with has since gone defunct.

What agency? Can you DM so I can avoid them. I don’t mind weed, he’ll I smoke everyday. Anything harder then that I would like to avoid

Only let the agency know if you know the agency very well, and they're not one to attack you in return.  If you don't know the agency very well, then it is best to stay out of it.  To help your fellow hobbyists you can put a slight reference in your review.  Something like I think this girl likes to party......hobbyists can read between the lines.  They may pm you and you can decide how much you want to tell.