This is for all providers out there: do you think you've had enough experience with people to be able to categorize and define a few stereotypes of hobbyists ?
Do we come in all shapes and sizes, colors and flavors? Are we all predominantly of a certain age, cohort?  
Do you prefer a certain stereotype ?

It would be refreshing to read some of your thoughts.

I believe that because I have over twenty years experience in the Hospitality and Restaurant industries, I am able to categorize and define a few things...hehehe

A FEW STEREOTYPES OF HOBBYISTS:

A) SEXY LIONS AND TIGERS: The most respectful animals out there!!! They consider your safety and your time, while allowing their sexual aura to ooze out of them....creating the ultimate chemical connection!!

B) RESERVED TIGERS: The skiddish ones who are on the fence until you prove to them that you are more fun and trustworthy than what your reviews show. They usually ask for more pics and do not have many if any references. These guys can be really sweet and safe but just don't understand what kind of time it is costing both of us. THE BARGAIN SHOPPERS FALL IN BETWEEN THE RESERVED TIGERS AND THE TIME WASTING DOGS!!  

C) TIME WASTING DOGS: They keep wanting to know your location and schedule and talk dirty and rude before getting to know me....they give refs that I have to research for contact info or the reputation. They create a lot of wasted time and insult you in the process. ESPECIALLY THE FAKE DOMMES! The ones that refuse to give refs are really rude usually too.

D) LE IDIOTS WHO TRY HARD: Well they are just plain manipulators and time wasters. and I can think of one animal that they resemble but I prefer that one on my plate at breakfast time, not as a sexy pet!!

TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS:

1) Yes, sexxxy tigers and Lions come in ALL shapes and sizes...colors AND flavors!! MeOW!!

THIS IS THE NUMBER 1 REASON I DECIDED TO OFFER COMPANIONSHIP!  

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE VARIETY!! but they must be respectful at critical levels to get past my front door!

2) I have not found a commonality in a certain age, however....Gents who appreciate maturity tend to contact me most often. They tend to like my smile, openness, and kinky WILD side!

3) Do I prefer a certain stereotype??? SEXXXY LIONS, TIGERS, COUGARS, AND KITTIES!!! OF COURSE!

I have been a swinger for years and have enjoyed this industry to meet respect AND fun people of all walks of life!!  Personality and smile as well as sexy eyes have been my turn-ons for years...And personality can go a LONG ways!!!! Just read my reviews!!

xoxoxo
Sorry for the novel!! I love to share my love for this very personable world!! Especially to those who appreciate hospitality and humanity as well!!

Ca

There are so many group whose members share a significant experience at a certain period of time or have one or more similar characteristics .Unless one actually meets the several choices that are
out there I find your question a lengthtly conversation to break down each members feedback for you. Maybe you can throw an example out to us ? Or were you looking for each reply to tell you if she is a stereotype and introverted to only to mingle with one type of person? There are many many
stereotypical people around just take a walk over to the general disgusting board to see who is a stereotype that in itself should give anyone a prime example of what hobbyists are stereotypical hence the lack of feedback from more providers kinda answers your question that more do not choose to meet those who choose to stereotype. I think you will find less providers who practice this habit and more men who do which gains less feedback and takes away his being sexy .  

Do you stereotype? If so tell us here

Angela

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But they're more stereotypes that have to do with myself, if that makes sense. For example, I don't seem to do very well with clients who are my age because it feels too real to me. Or, I'll do really well with one demographic, because I'm not from there and I'm different. Or maybe I just really enjoy going to a certain city because I seem to get more of a certain type of booking and I like that. I don't judge the client on it or treat anyone differently because of it, they're just things that I've noticed about myself and I'm aware of.

This would be a really difficult business for some of us girls!  Some of us would get all of the business, while others were left totally out in the cold.  "Variety is the spice of life!"

Hobbyists come in all shapes and sizes, from so skinny I could feel his bones jabbing me when I climbed on top to so large I felt like I needed a ladder to climb on top.  Personalities vary immensely.  Some are shy, some are aggressive.  Some are generous to a fault, while others scrimp and save and bargain just to come up with the appropriate donation to be able to enjoy the hobby.  There are Adonis bodied fitness freaks and sweet old guys confined to wheelchairs.

The differences are what makes it exciting for girls like me.  I never know exactly what to expect until we meet.  90% are really good guys with their own reasons for seeking out girls....widower, player who just enjoys variety, married men who can't fulfill their fantasies with their conventional wives, and lonely salesmen who rarely see their own bed.

There are black men, white men, men from overseas, etc.  Some are enthusiastic while others harbor guilt feelings and need to come to terms with what they need and why.  Some are young looking for the MILF experience, while many of the older gentlemen I meet are happy to have a mature lady they can talk to and have things in common with.

My screening process keeps out the total a-holes, and so far LE, thank God.  By the time we meet, I feel safe and comfortable with the gentlemen.

I leave some sessions starry eyed...waiting for the next chance to meet and push the limits of my skills, while others I have to go back through emails to remember who he was.

With slightly over a year in this business, I am hardly an expert, but am fully enjoying all there is to experience.  What I do find for the most part is that hobbyists as a general rule are much more respectful and appreciative than the general population, and make me feel valued and beautiful.

I look forward to each new encounter with the excitement of a high school girl on her first date.

Thanks for all your thoughts and insight.
For all hobbyist I think it is helpful to understand the criteria that we are assessed and separated by.
40 and over?
Good lovers or dogs just looking for a hump & dump?
Repeat and exclusive vs. sexual butterflies?
Sexually curious or just can't get it at home so I have to pay for it?
successful business men vs. show offs and wannabes.

At the end of the day these may or may not matter to you as a provider . Personally I am just curious how we are being perceived and if these or other characteristics define a stereotype that make hobbyists more desirable :-

Look at the replies and you will see it. Some like to just focus on sex, while others would prefer to visit and have sex be secondary; some like long dates and repeat dates, the more the merrier, while others prefer it to be a lot more impersonal, keep more distance.

And that is before we even start on what they like in sex. The key is simply to find someone whose style fits your style, rather than identify some sort of best practice. Aside from this - be polite, clean, considerate, reliable and generous. That will please all the ladies.

zig

I am a lady who loves variety and have deep and not so deep relationships with all my tigers and cougars.

I totally AGREE with your insights but want to say that for me...the thrill of the hunt (or to be hunted) and the anticipation/process of getting to know each other in many different ways...ooooo, the conversations can make the sexual atmosphere so HOT!!!

Which is why the BS, that comes with this world...makes it all worthwhile when we meet sexy men like you two!! WOW!!! It's like finding DIAMONDS in the ROUGH!!

I LOVE THIS SEXXXY JUNGLE!!

Your advice to...be polite, clean, considerate, reliable and generous. That will please all the ladies... is the most genius advice I could think of for this subject!!! Respect goes a long ways!!

xoxoxo

After the initial screening and direction giving ,no talking just going through all the motions like two mutes.