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Hmmm... interesting topic...
narcissus 13 Reviews 1358 reads
posted
1 / 20

A while back (years really, just showing my age) it was common for providers to offer french-only sessions, often for established clients.  It seems that very nice tradition has given way to a very few providers who will do 30 minute GFE sessions, but almost none who offer a full hour french-only as an option.  I am sure for the price of GFE session most providers would be happy to offer french only, but even if that is my intent when I pay for GFE I always want GFE ... When the french only session was more popular, it was a nice way to see a provider more often that I might otherwise only see every few months.

Do any providers still offer a less expensive french only option, even if only for established GFE clients

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 779 reads
posted
2 / 20

I do offer massage session with options which may be your best option at this point, there are several who offer this.

Personally, I don't blame ladies from not offering that kind of session.  If I offered french only option it would be more then a GFE session, because while I love giving, it is rough on the neck and back to do for long.  Plus I can't get mine.  I love what I do and if continually I can't get mine then I end up feeling cheated.  This industry is for you the hobbiest since you are the consumer but isn't it better to have the lady enjoy it....  

Just my small contribution.  I would rather be playing then with my head stuck down there the whole time, I want to pla

elrond 139 Reviews 705 reads
posted
3 / 20

SAge,

After sampling your French on several occasions, I cannot believe there are many that would take too long for you. Your skills are extraordinary in that regard.

Just my .02

Elrond

Sage of Chicago See my TER Reviews 692 reads
posted
4 / 20

When I have been with gentlemen who only wanted that(they booked the GFE) they wanted prolonged oral, meaning they wanted to be brought to the edge over and over and over again.  It takes really loving what you are doing to be able to hold back and not let the juices fly.  To take them to that high space right before and hold them there for a prolonged time.  It can be fun because I do enjoy giving, just want to be able to play and get mine too.  Unfortunately those are also times when the other playtime is lacking, and I don't get to get mine.  To many times of me not getting mine and it starts to feel like work, so I head it off before it gets to that point.  I want to play, not work.

BTW Elrond, Thank you for the wonderful compliment.  You are a sweetheart!  It has been far to long *wink*...

RespectfullyYours 9 Reviews 685 reads
posted
5 / 20

Certainly understandable, but there's no denying it is a job, i.e., receiving compensation for providing a service. Personally, I find it much more stimulating when my partner is into the experience as well, and we are both engaging in carnal activities to satisfy each other's sexual desires. However, when reading the Boards I think there is a broad spectrum of hobbyists who feel quite differently.

JcsPlayGround See my TER Reviews 656 reads
posted
6 / 20

You don't see the ad's any more than before. But let's think about this for a moment, you want us to suck for a full hour without getting Lock-jaw...... lol.   It can be done but some of us need rest between to move our jaw into a different position.

Sage does a wonderful job with the half hours, but it isn't worth it for me to offer it and most of the time it is short notice. I can not and will not do short notice.

Kisses  
JC

Hardwood469 18 Reviews 569 reads
posted
7 / 20

I've only seen you once, but you set the standard for good kisser. Unforgettable.

maybe44712 11 Reviews 679 reads
posted
8 / 20

I had a session with Eva today, an Asian provider who advertises on BP and she sucked my cock for the better part of an hour. I paid the full escort rate, however, as she is willing to do "more," but I'm really not able to physically, so oral is what I really need. Just filed my review, and approval's pending.

For years, I've essentially had French only sessions, specifying that that was what I needed and paying the one hour escort rate.

straniy 7 Reviews 515 reads
posted
9 / 20

i agree with OP.  that is where the qk comes in. 1, 2 cups in 30m is ideal.
yes, its great that it becomes fun for the providers, but at the end, we're the ones dishing out.
it should at least be an offer for a returning client, at a heavily discounted rate.

my .02.

seeker000 24 Reviews 532 reads
posted
10 / 20

The main thing you and the OP are forgetting is that we pay for the provider's time, not by the act.  What you choose to do with that time is up to you.  So whether it is a half hour or an hour BJ appointment expect to pay their regular rates.

Emiglio 567 reads
posted
12 / 20

Hi Sage, would you be for mutual in that session? Can't believe anyone would deny you that, if you were receptive to it. Better to give than receive.

Posted By: Sage of Chicago
I do offer massage session with options which may be your best option at this point, there are several who offer this.  
   
 Personally, I don't blame ladies from not offering that kind of session.  If I offered french only option it would be more then a GFE session, because while I love giving, it is rough on the neck and back to do for long.  Plus I can't get mine.  I love what I do and if continually I can't get mine then I end up feeling cheated.  This industry is for you the hobbiest since you are the consumer but isn't it better to have the lady enjoy it....    
   
 Just my small contribution.  I would rather be playing then with my head stuck down there the whole time, I want to play  

   
 

kendallis See my TER Reviews 620 reads
posted
13 / 20

While I enjoy giving head, a session just based on french would never work for me.  Mostly for the reasons Sage shared, neck pain and being uncomfortable for so long.  Kudos to the ladies who r UP for French sessions. More power to them!

I like to move around a bit and get bored easily when doing ONE thing for extended periods of time.
I like my business very much but don't do any one thing for an extended period of time without moving or switching positions etc...

While doing massage I make my way around his body a few times from head to toe. Varying pressure and techniques.  

My two cents  :)

Zana12345 See my TER Reviews 631 reads
posted
14 / 20

I am sorry. I love every aspect of the act. I french, the touch, the smell, and if you say "It may become to much work" I am confused. The only way I can see it is work "On my end" is if they are "rude, cursing, or otherwise."
If a gentleman is there with you ( and I know you are a very respected person here and I will not disrespect you. As nobody should ever.... just stating my opinion).... Shouldn't you enjoy what he enjoys as long as it is not abusive? I know I do not have as many reviews as Sage of Chicago (I respect her and ever other Provider here!!!!!!!!!! ~~~~~~ but I understand how it works. :) Love what you do, feel it, know why you are there, and have fun... please do not Judge me for my response... Just me speaking.  
Thanks,
Love
We are all friends here... Just Stating My Opinion! Thanks Everyone!
Zana

Posted By: Sage of Chicago
When I have been with gentlemen who only wanted that(they booked the GFE) they wanted prolonged oral, meaning they wanted to be brought to the edge over and over and over again.  It takes really loving what you are doing to be able to hold back and not let the juices fly.  To take them to that high space right before and hold them there for a prolonged time.  It can be fun because I do enjoy giving, just want to be able to play and get mine too.  Unfortunately those are also times when the other playtime is lacking, and I don't get to get mine.  To many times of me not getting mine and it starts to feel like work, so I head it off before it gets to that point.  I want to play, not work.  
   
 BTW Elrond, Thank you for the wonderful compliment.  You are a sweetheart!  It has been far to long *wink*...

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 633 reads
posted
15 / 20

When I first started independently in Chicago, before I knew all that much about providing, my partner and I offered a discounted french only session. But, since then, I have stopped doing that- not because I just dont want to offer it, but because of the whole legality thing. If I put on my website French Lessons-X amount of time for Xamount of dollars - I am then agreeing that I am performing a certain act for payment. Therefore, I am automatically admitting to prostitution. So now my policy is you pay for an allotted time and we can do whatever you want in that allotted time. But unfortunately, I do not offer half hours or quick sessions either. And again, not because I just don't want to- but because it seems like when you offer those short cheap sessions you attract a certain crowd and that is the crowd that I am not trying to attract.  

BUT If I had a gent see me a couple times, and I was able to get to know him - then I might consider helping him out with a custom rate for what he is looking for. But in order for me to do that, you have to establish a rapport with me, that way I think you are actually going to be coming back.  

So to answer your question: I don't think ladies are offering that much any more because of the legality factor.  

But I'm sure if you found a girl that you like and bite the bullet and do her regular time/regular rate a couple of times and then bring up what you are ultimately looking for, you may be able to find someone that would do it for you.

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 545 reads
posted
16 / 20

offer that. A french massage quickie type of deal. Its on her website- but I think it may be for established friends. But if you check her out, who knows, she may do it for you even though you're new.

asiantantric 163 Reviews 507 reads
posted
17 / 20

I beg to differ. Money is for services offered.  
Why else is Greek extra. Or fbsm lower than fs for the same time. In fact fbsm involves more effort on the part of the provider than fs

Posted By: seeker000
The main thing you and the OP are forgetting is that we pay for the provider's time, not by the act.  What you choose to do with that time is up to you.  So whether it is a half hour or an hour BJ appointment expect to pay their regular rates.

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 593 reads
posted
18 / 20

I personally know some providers who's rates are the same regardless of session content and don't "up charge" for activities that would normally be extra. Those ladies tend to have higher rates though.  

Personally, I offer tiered sessions because I want to, and my price points are based on both time spent, skill involved, and activity (bdsm sessions are more than massage because of skill involved, etc).

While I love giving oral, an hour of just that is a lot to handle.  Not to mention, oral-only sessions generally dont attract the type of clientele that I'm looking to attract. Offering that session publicly doesn't fit my brand.

If I had established rapport with a client and he asked, I'd probably figure out an arrangement.

straniy 7 Reviews 434 reads
posted
19 / 20

well said.  although, it could be a 30m meet and greet session ;)
and yes, sometimes you don't that clientele, I agree..  so I guess, it could be a custom rate...

Zana12345 See my TER Reviews 627 reads
posted
20 / 20

When the two of us are all into it rolling around and doing things that nobody should see and a Priest would blush and say hail Mary's .... there still has to be compensation (before hand)... afterwards sometimes I want to keep you!!! My bad! :)

Love
Zana
Posted By: Respectfully Yours
Certainly understandable, but there's no denying it is a job, i.e., receiving compensation for providing a service. Personally, I find it much more stimulating when my partner is into the experience as well, and we are both engaging in carnal activities to satisfy each other's sexual desires. However, when reading the Boards I think there is a broad spectrum of hobbyists who feel quite differently.  

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