Since I started hobbying three years ago, I've always gone from the shower to the car and directly to my date. The possibility of going from work to a date looms large, so I expect that soon I will need to shower when I get to her location. My question is:
Is the time spent showering counted against time with the lady, or does time start after stepping out of the bathroom?
just kind of depends on the lady's point of view.
Of course, doesn't everything in this world??? LOL
It all depends on the lady, but don't assume that the session time starts after you shower.
So I take some time heh to remove the grime heh
Gonna pay the dime heh for my girl's time heh
Take me to the bridge....
Work all day, funks gonna stay
Work all day, need soap and body spray
That women of mine, at the Y I'll dine
Gonna pay the dime for my girl's time
Eeeeeeeeeeee! Good God Now!!!
I feel good,
As I scrubbed up my wood!
I feel clean,
Washed my love machine.
So good, so clean,,,
My love machine!
Having said that, the many providers who give a little extra time pay a real compliment. Even a few minutes are greatly appreciated.
And this is not anything against you Perfesser. Like everything in this biz, different ladies operate differently;
*Example #1: If you have booked a 1 hour appointment and a lady has another appointment a half hour or hour after, she MAY count the shower time as part of the appointment as staying on schedule is critical to her
*Example #2; Most of the ladies I know build in a little extra time so that they do not have to watch the clock. (There are times when this is not possible as appointments are client driven and we must sometimes book appointments back-to-back with only an hour in between to accomodate our clients). If you need to take a shower, they will certainly appreciate it and not count the time. This is providing you don't decide to take a leisurely 30 or 45 minute one.
Its common sense, but there are times when sense is not common.
Every lady has experience with the guy who went a little over on their appointment (10 or 15 minutes) who then got in the shower for so long that we have had to nicely ask them to hurry it up as we a) needed a shower ourselves, b) had another appointment or c) needed to leave.
Chances are pretty good that you'll make it up on the other end anyway, but not always. It does have a tendancy to cramp a one hour appointment, but that's just one more reason that I don't book one hour appointments.
I try to do what you do, straight from the shower to the appt. Pluses and minuses. Plus is generally she's OK with it if she knows and trusts me. Minuses are new girls want the shower anyway and this thing of going straight from home to the appt is a risk so I'm not doing it anymore.
Allow time for two showers, I generally allow 20 minutes out of the hour. Actually, it's more like 15 minutes so you still have 45 minutes to play. If she's flexible, you might get a full hour of play but don't count on it.
A well-known retired provider once told me "the cleaner you are, the GFE'er I get". Words of wisdom. ![]()
If you had to see someone soon after work
it's always nice to ask and you being as
polite as you are I know you would.
Always tip if you can it is a nice gesture
as a lady has to clean the towels up and
provide more for herself and or someone else.
It's always best to book 2 hrs so there
is time to take care both before or after.![]()
Angela
However Sin is correct, there are some that do take advantage.
Also, if you need a shower before and after, please be considerate and use the same towel. The less we need to interact with maids (to request more towels etc) the more discreet we can be.
Xoxo
VC
Thank you all, especially the ladies who took the time to give me more detailed responses. I guess I'll figure it's part of the time, and consider any extra time a bonus.
And thanks, Angela, for the kind words. I shall try to live up to that reputation.
Many of us don't realize it's a risk to the lady (and us) if the provider has to interact with housekeeping. More and more I'm thinking of bringing my own (in a briefcase). One time room didn't have clean towels, not too happy about that...
Of a high end provider. Clean towels and soap should always be available to you! I actually keep some in a bag on my car if it becomes a situation.
If we ask you to be considerate, we should be prepared for you to be so...considerate!!!
Xoxo
VC
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That's a great atitude VC. Most hotel dwelling providers don't keep extra towels on hand and you're right. A professional would make sure your visit is flawless.
A "high end" lady may only have two appointments.
I once had a guy use, and soak, three bath towels. There is no reason for that. Its just plain lack of courtesy. He only showered once!
A high end lady may schedule a minimum number of appointments, but one client can put her in a bind by using all the clean towels.
With 2 clients, there are more than enough towels. Hotels provide 3 or 4. This works out to; 1 for her and 1 each for the clients. A towel hog can leave her short. So, use only one towel and if you shower more than once, re-use your towel.
Gents, unless you are renting the room, be courteous! Or, bring your own towel.
Thanks Seven for bringing this up!!!!
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That my next appointment has a clean towel. No exceptions on my part.I tip the maids well and they all but throw extras at me. Also since I don't do back to back appointments, and carry my own I have NEVER left a client high and NOT dry...lol!
Xoxo
VC
Because of this discussion, I will buy a new bath towel to put in my "hobby bag." It will be in there with my comb, toothbrush, tooth paste, deodorant and other grooming aids ... and a supply of white envelopes.