Hi, I have never seen a escort before, but I'd like to start. So, I don't have any references. Can anybody recommend someone for me in the Chicago suburbs. I am looking for just a basic hj massage/ maybe cbj. I appreciate any advice from more experienced members. Thanks.

go to the Newbie TER board, read and digest it... http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=33

Next thing to learn: DO NOT discuss "services". it is illegal to do so, and usually will result in communication being terminated between you and the companion. Bear in mind, us ladies are paid for our time, and not per services. ie: cost is the same for a hj vs. 1hr full service.  

then at the minimum you should sign up for an RS2K account. Agencies and Independents prefer clients with RS2K or P411 memberships.  

some ladies (like myself) will entertain the option of seeing new fellas new to the hobby, and will require additional screening...like work place verification etc.  

good luck

Take your chances without a Reference. Just call up a Provider that interests you and make an appointment to see her. If she turns you down, call up another or until one will see you without a Reference. When I stated I had no References. I just threw Caution into the Wind and took my chances.

thanks. I will look into that. I appreciate the information.

an Asian massage parlor if your needs are simply a massage and HJ?  No references necessary.

Thanks, but I live in the southern suburbs. There aren't any of those where I live. I don't want to drive 2 hours to Chicago for a handjob. Unless you know of some south of Chicago. I live an hour south of Naperville so I don't want to go any farther north than Schaumburg at the farthest.

I don't use them , but there are some out south ,
Willowbrook , Morris , Lisle  etc
good luck