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I am sure I will receive a little backlash for this...  
 
Explicit questions.  Questions about services provided.. Is it ever ok?  
 
I personally do not discuss any services even after you been screened.  
 
Guys books a appt... Is rs2k so easily verified... Then he asks if this and that are allowed.. I simply say like I always do. Explicit questions will not be tolerated and any more and I will end all communication. Hey at least I gave you a warning and didn't just end all communication...  
 
Plus this girl has tons (over 2 pages) of reviews... Wtf.  Read them to find out what's on the menu. Don't be lazy!!  
 
Girls... Do you answer explicit questions about services after he has been screened?  
Am I handling this wrong?  
 
I like to believe that I am easy breezy to deal with. I'm no nonsense and really want you to have the time of your life and come back!!  
 
Idk. Maybe I am wrong but even though I love my verification sites and it does make verification a breeze I still have to be cautious....  
 
Guys and gals.  Any feedback would be awesome!!!  
 
Thanks  
Jaim

Like you stated, guys can read reviews in order to get an idea of what services are offered.  Plus, even if you did tell them what services are available, there is no guarantee that the services may be offered.  Guys tend to think they are entitled to services just because of something they read in a review.  They fail to consider many factors.  

For example - a guy reads a review that a provider does rimming.  He goes to a session expecting it, but it doesn't happen.  Well, maybe he didn't wash his stinky ass and that is why the provider did not do it.

Another example - a guy reads a review that a petite provider does anal [for no extra charge].  He again goes expecting it but is turned down.  A likely reason is that the guy is hung like John Holmes and the provider wants to be able to walk straight after a session.

Things like demeanor, hygiene, and chemistry heavily play into how a session turns out.

Yes I agree... There are many factors that play into what services are provided...I personally can't say yes this and that are provided..  

The only thing I promise is the girl in the pic will be the girl you will get.  That's the only thing I can guarantee.    

Even if the girl don't have any reviews I still am not discussing specifics...  

Thanks Chitown... I feel better now :)

Johnnie is what they all wanted.

Just kidding.
Excellent points.
Some guys are just oblivious to common sense.

Posted By: ChiTownPimp
Like you stated, guys can read reviews in order to get an idea of what services are offered.  Plus, even if you did tell them what services are available, there is no guarantee that the services may be offered.  Guys tend to think they are entitled to services just because of something they read in a review.  They fail to consider many factors.    
   
 For example - a guy reads a review that a provider does rimming.  He goes to a session expecting it, but it doesn't happen.  Well, maybe he didn't wash his stinky ass and that is why the provider did not do it.  
   
 Another example - a guy reads a review that a petite provider does anal [for no extra charge].  He again goes expecting it but is turned down.  A likely reason is that the guy is hung like John Holmes and the provider wants to be able to walk straight after a session.  
   
 Things like demeanor, hygiene, and chemistry heavily play into how a session turns out.

omg! lol! that is so nasty. some folks really think companions are animals..so they have no respect. the initial contact is a perfect indicator...sorry!

.........suppose a client, who offers his screening info, unblocked number, etc calls an independent or a new provider with no reviews?  why would it be wrong to make "polite" inquiry as to what services are offered or can be expected?

I completely get the concept of a reviewed woman declining questions but if a provider has no track record that's like taking my car into a shop that merely advertises "we work on cars"

sometimes I want to make sure you know how to lube the ball joints....................

as they say, is not what you do but how you do it  

Bi Duo x

Never do I allow explicit conversations over the phone.... I direct them to my "Service Listings" on my ad etc... I think guys who do that usually are flakes and time wasters... They get off by that.... You did the right thing!!!

WICardinalfan346 reads

I agree, you did the right thing.  A person new to the hobby can make those novice mistakes, I did and learned my lesson fast.  When I have established a relationship with a Provider, I get her approval before we discuss, text, etc explicit commentary.  The ball on this one is and should remain in the Providers court.

Head 'em off at the pass, and if they pursue the line of questioning, hang up or walk.
That simple.

Posted By: WetWildEscorts
I am sure I will receive a little backlash for this...  
   
 Explicit questions.  Questions about services provided.. Is it ever ok?    
   
 I personally do not discuss any services even after you been screened.    
   
 Guys books a appt... Is rs2k so easily verified... Then he asks if this and that are allowed.. I simply say like I always do. Explicit questions will not be tolerated and any more and I will end all communication. Hey at least I gave you a warning and didn't just end all communication...    
   
 Plus this girl has tons (over 2 pages) of reviews... Wtf.  Read them to find out what's on the menu. Don't be lazy!!    
   
 Girls... Do you answer explicit questions about services after he has been screened?    
 Am I handling this wrong?    
   
 I like to believe that I am easy breezy to deal with. I'm no nonsense and really want you to have the time of your life and come back!!    
   
 Idk. Maybe I am wrong but even though I love my verification sites and it does make verification a breeze I still have to be cautious....    
   
 Guys and gals.  Any feedback would be awesome!!!    
   
 Thanks    
 Jaime    
   
   
   
 

Throughout the many years I've done this I have never felt the need or desire to discuss either services or money. It's just not necessary.

The range of my likes and dislikes are probably just as restrictive as many here but I do enough research that I almost always pretty much know what's going to happen or be available and I always know my responsibilities before hand.

There are occasions when I do take a little risk about potential services available due to conflicts between profiles and reviews but I still never break my rules regarding questions.

After we finally meet it is still never been discussed.

It's worked out great so far.

-- Modified on 11/5/2013 8:06:07 PM

What the man felt like and what the provider actually provides can be different and sometimes opposite  things. When the questions asked, I always refer to my profiles' descriptions on TER and P411. These two actually allow ladies to speak for themselves whether they actually do something or not. There is a right way to ask the question: ask the provider if the description of her services on TER (an/or p411) is up-to-date. There is nothing against the rule in such wording.

I give one warning if the question isn't too graphic then hang up or simply don't respond.  I stop all communication with them and put the on my "NO" list.  Screening is never 100% fool proof, although I do my best to screen as well as possible.  If a gentleman isn't well versed enough on the hobby to respect the dangers of discussing graphic details, I don't feel safe seeing him. I never, never, never discuss details.  

If he took the time to do a simple web search on any girl, her reviews usually come up.  I research girls all the time if I don't know them before accepting a reference from them.  Simply searching their e mail or phone number usually results in lots of info.

Thanks to EVERYONE who responded. I love this board and the small community of love around it!  

You guys truly are the best@!!!

 
Love,
Jaime!!!

Will I answer explicit questions via email? NO, but I will answer cryptic questions that might not be covered in my reviews. There are some things I offer that are not listed, and for good reason...I don't do them with everyone. I prefer to answer such questions via TER PM though, not from my actual email account, but what you do is up to you. Everyone is different.  

For the record, discussing sexual acts is not illegal. Discussing money is not illegal. Discussing BOTH of those things together, IS illegal.

-- Modified on 11/7/2013 12:00:12 PM

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