I had an idea on how to live this out in hobby land.

While someone pays and watches!!

Yeah, sure. I'll totally forego screening and CALL you about your 'deal'.  

I would prefer to watch my wife getting dominated by a female provider :p

By her divorce attorney and slimey Cook County divorce judge.  Ooops, I digress....

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JC

I did it a few times with my ATF in the hobby, I really like watching porn so it was live porn and I liked watching to see how guys can handle the woman who I felt was the best in bed.

Don't mistake fetish for confidence.

It is my fantasy to see my ATF provider with another man, then I join in for a MFM with her as the center of attention.  It sounds so hot and she is up and ready for it.  I've seen live sex and done MFM before with other people which I really enjoy, and I think doing it with someone you have a connection with through a LTR would be absolute fireworks.  My #1 New Year's resolution.

Lets live out this fantasy with Isra!!!!!

have done this several times with my ATF and you are correct. It is absolute fireworks.  
I have an incredible connection with her and whenever we set up this scenario, she takes her level of performance to new heights every time.  Awesome to be in the room. Even better when participating.  
My favorite time is after the other person leaves and we are again alone. Fireworks gone extreme!!!

and she likes to watch me get fucked.
We have a great relationship and are very very happy

Just did this in Vegas last week in fact. STORY alert

My friend was a little tired (oh my how did that happen?) and wanted to take a nap.  Of course I was like "what? come on we are in Vegas!"  So to appease me.. he told me to go down to the bar, give him about an hour to rest up, and then bring a guy back to our bed and wake him UP by the other guy fucking me next to him.  I was oh so HAPPY to oblige!  

Before I found the hobby and TER I had found a website specificially for men who liked to watch their wife/girlfriend with other men.  I responded to some ads for couples looking for a man to swing with the wife.   Did it 5 or 6 times.  It was fun.   Each couple was different of course.  Most interesting one was where the man wasn't present and listened on the phone while we were at a hotel.  He also had us agree beforehand that the woman and I would each write a recap via email and send it to him afterward.   In another scenario, husband was in the next room of a suite, until he couldn't take it any more and had to have her.   In another scenario, we strictly took turns.  In another, we adored the lady at the same time.   Biggest downside of course was the time it took getting to a comfort level especially if it was their first time.  I emailed with one couple for six months before finally meeting.   In all but one of the instances we got to know each other and would usually go to dinner and or drinks.  I do understand the attraction.   It adds to the wife's sexiness and the passion becomes intoxicating.  I thought it was really incredible cool the trust the couples had and that it was cool they could play together so well.  Those were good experiences.  Only once did I get bait and switched with pictures but the couple was cool so I didn't even mind.

Re: Just did this in Vegas last week in fact. STORY alert

You are a Goddess Bebe!
I hope you write a book about all of this, cause I would love to read about your life

The hottest one was when my ATF's client arrived and him and her went into the adjoining room.....I made a few calls and then went in there to watch.   It was so hot!!!!  I got nude and was stroking it while watching them.