When I have a good kissing experience with someone, there is a beginning, a middle, and an end to the kiss.
It should start with lips closed, then after a few kisses, should deepen into an open mouthed kiss.
When someone starts with an open mouth, it seems like skipping an important part of the kiss. I feel like they are forcing me to open my mouth before I'm ready and it lacks finesse.
I don't like when I try to end the kiss and the guy doesn't follow. He just keeps his mouth open instead of following when I close my lips to end the kiss. This is also missing out on part of the kiss. You can always go back into a kiss at any time. But if one party wants to move onto something else, it should be allowed and even encouraged if the chemistry is good. You don't want to hold someone captive in a kiss.
Occasionally I kiss someone whose tempo is much slower than average. This is not only challenging, but also shows a definite lack of us following each other.
I don't mind the occasional fast tongue during kissing. I feel like the guy is trying to tease me by showing me what he could do to his clit, but too fast is like too slow...it's like dancing to different music.
Personally, I HATE all lip biting and I wish it didn't happen so much. It just hurts and surprises me every time.
Almost all good and bad kisses can be summed up by my partner and me successfully following each other or not.
I've been told I'm a good kisser. Usually by someone I consider to be a good kisser! If you'd like to try me out, I'll be visiting in June.
xoxo
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